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Blackpill My mom knows I'll never get a girlfriend...

TheGrayWolf

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She tells me if I want a girlfriend I "have to go outside." (before you judge me, hear me out.)

This is like telling a homeless, disabled person "go find a job if you want money." She again and again implies how she thinks: I'll never get a girlfriend, because I'm too ugly and autistic. That is, her goal is to make me feel good, so whenever she thinks about it, she lies. But she slips up a lot. Like saying, "you're handsome" (I'm a 1 out of 10, believe me, how people react to my face, she just wants to make me feel good). But she also says I'm "an asshole" – last time she said "if you weren't such an asshole then maybe, maybe you'll get a girlfriend." (she stressed those 2 maybes).

Somehow she's blue-, red- and black-pilling me at the same time. But the blue pill and red pill are just a farce. She's lying. Over the last 3 years, I got a pretty good picture how she thinks. I'm just too ugly and weird to ever get a girlfriend. (If you read some of my posts you know why.)

So what annoys me is not her lying ("you look good") but the fact that she can't keep up that lie, that she always contradicts herself. If I wanna tell her this she screams at me, I should stop. And only because she knows I'm right. It's really obvious that the lying ("you're good looking", "you can get a gf.") are making her feel really uncomfortable.
 
Coping entitled parents like your mom brought this incel life upon us. They need to be dragged into military tribunals and made to answer for their crime of creating incels and bringing us into this world. Torture all NPC parents! :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
Coping entitled parents like your mom brought this incel life upon us. They need to be dragged into military tribunals and made to answer for their crime of creating incels and bringing us into this world. Torture all NPC parents! :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
Coping entitled parents like your mom brought this incel life upon us. They need to be dragged into military tribunals and made to answer for their crime of creating incels and bringing us into this world. Torture all NPC parents! :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
She says I have to do sports (it's obvious she hopes I'll forget about getting a gf then).

But is she really coping? I mean, she knows I won't get a gf, and it's true. I'm really ugly... and short... but worse, ugly and autistic
 
Coping entitled parents like your mom brought this incel life upon us. They need to be dragged into military tribunals and made to answer for their crime of creating incels and bringing us into this world. Torture all NPC parents! :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
Her saying I need to go outside is not a cope – she knows I won't go outside to meet a girl, I have social anxiety – she just says it... IDK why, to make me feel better maybe? But every way you look at it, it's very obvious she knows I'll be forever alone. She has always implied (and sometimes directly said it....
 
I'm really ugly... and short... but worse, ugly and autistic
Tell your mother that her genes are the reason why you're ugly, autistic, short and incel. Remind her that its her fault for making you a genetic dead end.
 
She tells me if I want a girlfriend I "have to go outside."
My mom tells me this as well, expect in my case my mom actually believes it. While she's right in that finding a gf as an eremite is straight up impossible, it's like telling a prospectless poor person to play the lottery if they wanna get rich. If they don't, they definitely won't get rich, but that don't mean they should throw their money down the wishing well.
 
Tell your mother that her genes are the reason why you're ugly, autistic, short and incel. Remind her that its her fault for making you a genetic dead end.
That's the thing, it's more my dad's fault - he was good looking and is tall but was carrier of a mutated gene. He wasn't affected physically but I am. I just got this disability. My sister is good looking, 22 years old and had 5 chad boyfriends already. I'm 26 and without that disability I'd probably not be ugly nor short. So I have to blame my dad bc he gave me the condition (he knew chance of kid getting it is 50%) but he was tall and good looking, I was doubly unlucky bc I turned out ugly and short. My sister didn't inherit it.
 
That's the thing, it's more my dad's fault - he was good looking and is tall but was carrier of a mutated gene. He wasn't affected physically but I am. I just got this disability. My sister is good looking, 22 years old and had 5 chad boyfriends already. I'm 26 and without that disability I'd probably not be ugly nor short. So I have to blame my dad bc he gave me the condition (he knew chance of kid getting it is 50%) but he was tall and good looking, I was doubly unlucky bc I turned out ugly and short. My sister didn't inherit it.
Then you should take revenge on your dad for destroying your life. He should've known better to not pass on his rotten seed, but he was too selfish in wanting to fulfill his reproductive urge. You have the moral duty to confront your dad and beat the shit out of him. Torture him. Flog him. Burn him alive. Disfigure him.
 
My mom tells me this as well, expect in my case my mom actually believes it. While she's right in that finding a gf as an eremite is straight up impossible, it's like telling a prospectless poor person to play the lottery if they wanna get rich. If they don't, they definitely won't get rich, but that don't mean they should throw their money down the wishing well.
That's a really good analogy. My mom's like "do you want me to find you a girlfriend?" or "you won't find one if you sit in your room all day, you have to go outside"- sure, I can't refute that. But there's no point. When I go outside, I only get made fun of. She tells me that I look good, but at the same time implies I can only get an average-looking girlfriend (lists many reasons, one of them "good looking girls are really rare".). She also told me I should stop watching "that BS" (porn, I admitted to her I watch it). Her reason: "people aren't that attractive in real life, do you think these producers will cast the ugliest?"). No mention of "that's not what sex is like." – she's basically black-pilling me here. It's obvious she wants me to forget the idea because "people aren't that good looking" and "it [sex] is disgusting." Thanks mom, you're pretty clear. I won't get a gf so why don't you just stop lying and tell me I'm ugly?

Oh and you know what else she said? --> "I'm telling the truth when I say you're an asshole; so if I were lying when I say you're good-looking, I'd also lie and say you're nice." (So what she's saying is, you can't lie on one thing and tell the truth on another, that's her logic lmao)
 
If foids don’t ask you common relationship questions like: “are you married (some men don’t wear rings)”, “do you have a girlfriend”, “what are you doing for fun this weekend” - it’s because, you are so ugly it’s obvious no foid would ever want to fuck you, you’re repulsive.
 
If foids don’t ask you common relationship questions like: “are you married (some men don’t wear rings)”, “do you have a girlfriend”, “what are you doing for fun this weekend” - it’s because, you are so ugly it’s obvious no foid would ever want to fuck you, you’re repulsive.
um, yes, that's true...
 
um, yes, that's true...
I know, I’m 31-years-old, and as soon as I reached the age of 22, foids including the ones in my family stopped asking about my relationship status.

I guess having to go to my senior prom alone, gave my inceldom away. :feelsmage:
 
It's been years since my parents asked me if I had a gf.
Never began.
 
It's been years since my parents asked me if I had a gf.
Never began.
Me neither, and I’m 26… they never even taught me about sex, condoms or whatever (my dad’s a biologist isn’t that ironic?) or said “if you get a girlfriend…”
 
Me neither, and I’m 26… they never even taught me about sex, condoms or whatever (my dad’s a biologist isn’t that ironic?) or said “if you get a girlfriend…”
Brutal af, brocel :feelscry:
I think it's kinda an incel trait to have your parents telling you nothing about sex and stuff like that.
 
I think it's important to mention your area.. In Germany it is very frowned upon to approach a foid in public.

People here see being a drunkard, abstuerz, drug addict, homeless as better than talking to women on the street

Very hard to compare with the US, where ppl talk to strangers all the time. Germany is next level hardcore incel mode tbh
Yes. Absolutely true.

However, even in the US, I’d be rejected 100/100 times. I’m very strange looking and only 1.62m tall.
 
Yes, it's difficult in the US also, especially for short or below averge men

Many people in America have German genes too, so you'd be competing with Anglo-German-Nordic mixed chads..

Not saying it's any easier over there, but the German culture of not talking to strangers makes it much more difficult to find a foid :feelscry:
Yes. And also, I used to live in Switzerland, where culture is very similar to Germany and people aren’t good-looking there (average is quite bad), but it’s also hell over there.
 
JFL this guy cries to his mom about his Inceldom
 
My mom is ultrabluepilled and thinks i'll get a gf someday. She doesn't want to accept that her son is a genetic dead end.
Instead my dad is the exact opposite, he knows it's super over for me. He's pretty based. Probably because if he were born just a couple of decades later, he would be posting on this site.
 
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My mom is ultrabluepilled and thinks i'll get a gf someday. She doesn't want to accept that her son is a genetic dead end.
Instead my dad is the exact opposite, he knows it's super over for me. He's pretty based. Probably because if he were born just a couple of decades later, he would be posting on this site.
Both know it’s over for me
 
JFL this guy cries to his mom about his Inceldom
So? If I wasn’t born she wouldn’t have to listen to my bitching
 
Thats how women meet Chads. The women go outside.
 
My mom is ultrabluepilled and thinks i'll get a gf someday. She doesn't want to accept that her son is a genetic dead end.
Instead my dad is the exact opposite, he knows it's super over for me. He's pretty based. Probably because if he were born just a couple of decades later, he would be posting on this site.
… and my mom doesn’t even care. She wants me to accept it “because anyone can be happy if they try.” I’m not sure if I’d prefer your mom’s attitude bc she claims to care about my happiness but obviously doesn’t give a rats-ass if I get a gf or not, bc it’s obvious I’ll never get one so it’s easier for her to just not care instead of being sad for me
 
Thats how women meet Chads. The women go outside.
Exactly. I can go outside but we all know it won’t make a difference. I’m an ugly very short alien-troll. And I don’t want my looksmatch
 
JFL this guy cries to his mom about his Inceldom
If I was not born, she’d not have to listen to me “crying” (moaning)
 
My mom is ultrabluepilled and thinks i'll get a gf someday. She doesn't want to accept that her son is a genetic dead end.
Instead my dad is the exact opposite, he knows it's super over for me. He's pretty based. Probably because if he were born just a couple of decades later, he would be posting on this site.
and my mom doesn’t even care. She wants me to accept it “because anyone can be happy if they try.” I’m not sure if I’d prefer your mom’s attitude bc she claims to care about my happiness but obviously doesn’t give a rats-ass if I get a gf or not, bc it’s obvious I’ll never get one so it’s easier for her to just not care instead of being sad for me
 
Same, which is why my mother fed me blue pilled lies, about how someday some girl would "sink her claws into me and never let go," so as to get my mind off of seeking out a romantic life partner, and instead focusing on trying to careermax, which has also proven to be a failed endeavor, despite my whiteness, and the supposed pRiViLeGe that comes with it. :feelsjuice:
 
Same, which is why my mother fed me blue pilled lies, about how someday some girl would "sink her claws into me and never let go," so as to get my mind off of seeking out a romantic life partner, and instead focusing on trying to careermax, which has also proven to be a failed endeavor, despite my whiteness, and the supposed pRiViLeGe that comes with it. :feelsjuice:
In contrast to your mother, mine does not believe I’ll ever get a gf and doesn’t care either
 
She tells me that I look good, but at the same time implies I can only get an average-looking girlfriend (lists many reasons, one of them "good looking girls are really rare".).
Yeah, that don't add up.
She also told me I should stop watching "that BS" (porn, I admitted to her I watch it). Her reason: "people aren't that attractive in real life, do you think these producers will cast the ugliest?").
While some porn actresses are of course very attractive, it's not like the whole lot of them are otherworldly attractive. Au contraire, many of them are perfect examples of why not to get plastic surgery. I always imagine people who make this case don't know what they're talking about.
Oh and you know what else she said? --> "I'm telling the truth when I say you're an asshole; so if I were lying when I say you're good-looking, I'd also lie and say you're nice." (So what she's saying is, you can't lie on one thing and tell the truth on another, that's her logic lmao)
At least you didn't inherit her braindead gene(s).
 
In contrast to your mother, mine does not believe I’ll ever get a gf and doesn’t care either
I don't think she really believed. Like I said, I think she just said it to keep me focused on my studies. It wasn't the first time she had lied to me.
 
My mother's attempts to :bluepill: make me feel more resentful than reassured. I know they probably mean well, but it hurts when your own parents are denying your problems.

If foids don’t ask you common relationship questions like: “are you married (some men don’t wear rings)”, “do you have a girlfriend”, “what are you doing for fun this weekend” - it’s because, you are so ugly it’s obvious no foid would ever want to fuck you, you’re repulsive.
They barely talk to me at all. :feelsbadman:
 
did you copy this from reddit
 
Going outside to get a gf doesn’t work unless you already have a bunch of friends that know foids. If you join clubs all you’ll meet are old people or other men hoping for the same thing. Literally every normie I’m around is getting gf’s through dating apps or existing friends.
 
easier to get a job than a gf

I could go to the lottery store right now, play the numbers, and my luck of winning the jackpot is higher than even getting a girl to talk to me. Not even date me.
 
I could go to the lottery store right now, play the numbers, and my luck of winning the jackpot is higher than even getting a girl to talk to me. Not even date me.
Same. And those odds are literally like 1 in 220 MILLION (for the powerball at least) that’s 0.00000045%

Fuck our lives, right?
 
Tell your mother that her genes are the reason why you're ugly, autistic, short and incel. Remind her that its her fault for making you a genetic dead end.
Procreation should be illegal. All sex should.
 
Going outside to get a gf doesn’t work unless you already have a bunch of friends that know foids. If you join clubs all you’ll meet are old people or other men hoping for the same thing. Literally every normie I’m around is getting gf’s through dating apps or existing friends.
Yup. This. I have no friends, had my last friend at 13 and that was my only friend. Since then absolutely no social life. I’ll have to lie about “my friends” if I ever do get a date (which I won’t)
 
Yup. This. I have no friends, had my last friend at 13 and that was my only friend. Since then absolutely no social life. I’ll have to lie about “my friends” if I ever do get a date (which I won’t)
Im guessing you’re still in school. It just gets worse. Once you leave you’ll quickly realize how little opportunities you get to talk to a foid your age unless you have some at your workplace. This is why boomers say to just go outside. Back then the majority of people you’d meet would be younger. Now your only option is dating apps or cold approaching
 
Im guessing you’re still in school. It just gets worse. Once you leave you’ll quickly realize how little opportunities you get to talk to a foid your age unless you have some at your workplace. This is why boomers say to just go outside. Back then the majority of people you’d meet would be younger. Now your only option is dating apps or cold approaching
Nah I’m 26 :feelscry: :feelsrope: KHHV. Im in a stinking jail (proverbial) for life

And yes. Your psychic. Even what you suggest never worked. I’m 1.62m/5’4”, and most of all I look so strange people stare and my parents knew it was over ever since I was 15. I’m also slightly autistic, can’t be funny, etc so I don’t even have personality going for me.

Parents never taught me or talked about sex, girls, or relationships. And my dad is human biologist. My mom implied many times (by saying and NOT saying certain stuff) that I’ll never get a gf, at least not a >4/10… she keeps on saying how “relationships suck” and “it’s ok to not have a gf” (the only thing I said is I’m sad that I’ll never get a gf)… she wants me to forget the idea of a gf, probably to spare me sadness later on (bc from her view if I don’t want one, I won’t be sad if I won’t get one). I wish I could move out away from her bc she’s so manipulative and has the audacity to think she can influence me, but I have no money and I have social anxiety, I could never live alone in an apartment
 
Nah I’m 26 :feelscry: :feelsrope: KHHV. Im in a stinking jail (proverbial) for life

And yes. Your psychic. Even what you suggest never worked. I’m 1.62m/5’4”, and most of all I look so strange people stare and my parents knew it was over ever since I was 15. I’m also slightly autistic, can’t be funny, etc so I don’t even have personality going for me.

Parents never taught me or talked about sex, girls, or relationships. And my dad is human biologist. My mom implied many times (by saying and NOT saying certain stuff) that I’ll never get a gf, at least not a >4/10… she keeps on saying how “relationships suck” and “it’s ok to not have a gf” (the only thing I said is I’m sad that I’ll never get a gf)… she wants me to forget the idea of a gf, probably to spare me sadness later on (bc from her view if I don’t want one, I won’t be sad if I won’t get one). I wish I could move out away from her bc she’s so manipulative and has the audacity to think she can influence me, but I have no money and I have social anxiety, I could never live alone in an apartment
No one is taught shit by their parents anymore. People just figure it out and stuff happens unless you’re autistic or ugly. Getting sex/gf isn’t supposed to be hard to get otherwise barely anyone would be getting it. It’s not like your average normie is some harder worker than you jfl
 
No one is taught shit by their parents anymore. People just figure it out and stuff happens unless you’re autistic or ugly. Getting sex/gf isn’t supposed to be hard to get otherwise barely anyone would be getting it. It’s not like your average normie is some harder worker than you jfl
Yeah, but problem is, I’m literally a 1/10. I have a disability and a large head and very strange face, I was bullied in school (mostly behind my back), people didn’t want to be friends with me, I have a strange face and very asymmetric eyes (unusually asymmetric as it says in a med report), strangers always have reacted negatively to me and still do (believe me, it’s not in my head). Proof is no girl has ever liked me, I’m also short but much worse is my very very strange face. I overhear “ugliest person ice ever seen” or “monster” a lot. If you gave me $1 for every time someone said that since I was 13, id be rich
 

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