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I have a distinct memory of a girl calling me ugly in my college, infront of othe people.
And a guy maybe a year after.
What people dont understand, is that once someone puts a label on you publically, it creates a negative halo effect.
People who have never spoken to you, dont see you as:
"Another guy that goes to my college"
But instead "the ugly guy that goes to my college".
Peoples perception of you will completely change.
now, depending on how you react is going to either keep it as bad as it is, or make it worse. Theres not much in between, unless the girl is like, visibly overweight and/or universally considered ugly. Then you can clap back subtly, just to keep your image in tact.
If not, then best you can do is say you dont give a shit, and move on, anything else, will make you look stupid. This way people will at the minimum see you as an autistic studycell.
(Amazingly for me, at this time I did nothing but ignore her and look sad the entire time, basically making me look like even more of a neurodivergent bitch)
This is coming from years of humiliation and hundreds of hours of replaying situations in my head, I have finally found the most optimal behaviour in many social situations.
When this girl said this to me I was bluepilled at this time. I didnt think much of it.
When I look back now, I genuinely think of killing myself.
why should a women be so insensitive to say that to me infront of everyone.
What happened to humanity? Forget love and affection, does human decency rely on looks as well?
I cant fathom ever saying that to someone. Why should a person feel ok saying that to me.
Fuck you
And a guy maybe a year after.
What people dont understand, is that once someone puts a label on you publically, it creates a negative halo effect.
People who have never spoken to you, dont see you as:
"Another guy that goes to my college"
But instead "the ugly guy that goes to my college".
Peoples perception of you will completely change.
now, depending on how you react is going to either keep it as bad as it is, or make it worse. Theres not much in between, unless the girl is like, visibly overweight and/or universally considered ugly. Then you can clap back subtly, just to keep your image in tact.
If not, then best you can do is say you dont give a shit, and move on, anything else, will make you look stupid. This way people will at the minimum see you as an autistic studycell.
(Amazingly for me, at this time I did nothing but ignore her and look sad the entire time, basically making me look like even more of a neurodivergent bitch)
This is coming from years of humiliation and hundreds of hours of replaying situations in my head, I have finally found the most optimal behaviour in many social situations.
When this girl said this to me I was bluepilled at this time. I didnt think much of it.
When I look back now, I genuinely think of killing myself.
why should a women be so insensitive to say that to me infront of everyone.
What happened to humanity? Forget love and affection, does human decency rely on looks as well?
I cant fathom ever saying that to someone. Why should a person feel ok saying that to me.
Fuck you
