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Cope My experience after nearly 3 months of nofap

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Spoilers I'm still an incel what a surprise right but I didn't expect to magically get a gf when I stopped cooming to porn. No. I did it for other reasons.

I've been a coomer for most of my life. I started watching porn and masturbating before my body could produce cum and I believe it has been incredibly damaging for me. In the months prior to quitting I really started to notice how much it is taking a toll on my mental health. Also I began to realise that being a coomer has literally ruined my life.

I realised that being a coomer is what kept me from wanting to form friendships and pursue a meaningful career. I was literally like a junkie. Shut in, aggressive and unmotivated to do anything but have my next porn masturbation session.

Cooming was also the reason why I became a nicotine addicted alcoholic with an eating disorder. It's because when you coom you quickly get a large dopamine spike but it falls off rapidly so you end up feeling shit. And to mitigate that I would drink, smoke and eat junk.

Now that I've been off porn cooming for a while I definitely feel better. I'm still depressed and hurt because I'm unwanted and alone make no mistake but I have a much easier time coping with it.

The quality of life improvements so far have been as follows.

I sleep a lot better and after 7-8 hours I wake up with no alarm feeling good. Before I would sleep for half a day and wake up feeling like shit.

I'm not as aggressive anymore and I feel less sluggish in my head. Also I have less brain fog.

I've been able to effortlessly stick to a diet and I'm more motivated than ever to gymcel.

I no longer feel the urge to drink a whole bottle of whiskey while stuffing my mouth with shit food.

And in general I'm just less miserable despite things being shit.

Ok but what about the sexual frustration that comes with not masturbating as an incel? Well in order to successfully quit porn masturbation as an incel you're gonna have to escortmaxx. There's no other way unless you have soy levels of testosterone. And before you call me a cuck or whatever for going to escorts just realise that you're literally watching those same women getting fucked by other men with your dick in your hand. So who's the cuck?

Anyway I digress. The point is you're gonna feel way better if you only coom with real women when you feel the need for it. Do that and maybe you will unfuck your brain a little.
 
Nice, another "celibate" who has had sex.
 
Incredibly based, not a single thing I disagree with here. Congrats on giving it up brocel, glad you saw improvments
 
that's really good bro
i tried stopping watching porn completely in the past and tbh it didn't work quite well for me and every time i had to go watch even more and more porn but in the end i found balance and now i only watch it for 2 or 3 times a week while doing something that keep me engaged so i can forget about porn totally
 
Good decision. What kind of prostitutes woud you recomend?
 
Nice, another "celibate" who has had sex.
There's nothing stopping you from getting an escort unless you're in some islamic shithole so I don't get what you're upset about.
that's really good bro
i tried stopping watching porn completely in the past and tbh it didn't work quite well for me and every time i had to go watch even more and more porn but in the end i found balance and now i only watch it for 2 or 3 times a week while doing something that keep me engaged so i can forget about porn totally
You're never gonna get any better if you're still doing it. Even if you do it once a month. A smackhead who shoots up once in a while is still a smackhead.

Easypeasy method did wonders for me. There's a free audio book of it on youtube.
 
Good decision. What kind of prostitutes woud you recomend?
Ideally? 18-23 year olds who will do anything you ask them but good luck finding that.

Realistically I only consider independent whores under the age of 30 that have a decent body
 
Ideally? 18-23 year olds who will do anything you ask them but good luck finding that.

Realistically I only consider independent whores under the age of 30 that have a decent body
I'm not asking about the age, but the type of services
 
I'm not asking about the age, but the type of services
The getting your balls drained type of service? I don't get what you mean. Just do whatever gets you off with them
 
The getting your balls drained type of service? I don't get what you mean. Just do whatever gets you off with them
Like roleplay, gfe or just fucking
 
You're never gonna get any better if you're still doing it. Even if you do it once a month. A smackhead who shoots up once in a while is still a smackhead.
Cooming in moderation really shouldn't derail your life. I don't really notice much difference between cooming once a day for a couple of days in a row and nofapping for a couple of days in a row.
 
Add meditation to the list and your life will improve even more
 
Sometimes I just cannot control my cum!
 
good post. ive been doing noporn but the occasional fapping (not watching porn) gets to me after a while. plan is to pad it out and stop it altogether. dont know if i feel like escortmaxxing because im a puritan that thinks its disgusting and also a waste of money but its not like i have too much money lol
 
So ig your not on monk mode jfl i consider nofap with semen retention
The longest ive held a nut in is for 1 month
 
I've been a coomer for most of my life. I started watching porn and masturbating before my body could produce cum and I believe it has been incredibly damaging for me. In the months prior to quitting I really started to notice how much it is taking a toll on my mental health. Also I began to realise that being a coomer has literally ruined my life.

I realised that being a coomer is what kept me from wanting to form friendships and pursue a meaningful career. I was literally like a junkie. Shut in, aggressive and unmotivated to do anything but have my next porn masturbation session.
Same about when I started and yeah I concluded the same thing years ago but never stopped. Video games adds to this too. If video games and porn didn't exist, we would have to interact with the real world much more early on. I think half the times that I felt motivated to actually approach a girl and went through with it were during no fap even though that's 1% of my adult life. I can't bother with it though tbh.
 
I have low levels of testosterone.
 
Cooming in moderation really shouldn't derail your life. I don't really notice much difference between cooming once a day for a couple of days in a row and nofapping for a couple of days in a row.
Exactly, Op is retarded.
 
Well in order to successfully quit porn masturbation as an incel you're gonna have to escortmaxx.
So you didnt actually do nofap. Fucking stupid piece of shit. Kys fucking weak willed bitch. Fucking faggot
 
won't coom but recommends being paypig of blown out prostitutes ahaha :feelsUgh:
 

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