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I think she wouldn't express such annoyance if he was my birth father she'd be nicer about it annoying her
Discussion My dad makes jokes about me and it bothers mum a lot. How can I help her understand it's the male way?
lolwut
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Dad makes jokes about me, it annoys my mum a lot. Cos sometimes they are Critical jokes or whatever
Critical What?
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I dunno, like making fun of me. Idk
Critical hit
Yeah your mothers reaction is natural and shows that she cares for you, your fathers behaviour is hostile.
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Ah ok
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It is not hostile don't be a pussy about it. Yeah at times I get defensive but not often. Mum feels like it's just bickering at times and other times it feels like dad is being I guess jokey too much
12gauge max your fathers head.
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Don't be a dickhead
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Lol you are the one being mocked by your own father, critizising you all the time. You are might wanna learn how to stand up for yourself junior.
No human in this world should be allowed to openly disrespect. When your own mother thinks that your dad is messing with you too much, he definitely is.
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Hey when I was a younger teen I got into arguments and shit, two times my dad had to restrain me during a family blow up. That shit is not happening ever again, I did t even stand up for myself properly at that time either mate, it was just neuroticism. I ain't going down that road again, I don't care how much mum thinks he is ribbing me to the point of it annoying her
What kind of jokes?
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This so called disrespect will strengthen my mind, should've been tougher long ago and this is helping me so you and my mum better shut up. I told mum nicely that this is what makes do
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Just mild put downs, or saying I look like something like a monkey or that I'm a this or that. Hard to describe, just ribbing
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Stuff to get a rise out of me is all
Fuck your mom in front of him
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No fuck off. I hear them doing that shit and I don't want to fricken get into that, that's my mum jerk
He really was successful into making you think that abusing you mentally is mandatory to "strengthen your mind"
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Hey it's just jokes turd, abuse is hitting and yelling, my folks sometimes argue but no abuse at each other and no hitting. He did not do any abuse
Learn to read
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This especially since he's not even your biological father apparently.
lol you gotta be trolling
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I can read
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I'm not, besides negative emotions build you up in the end, make you tougher at least
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He is my father whether we aren't related or not. And no, it's just jokes
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The jokes are him ribbing me or whatever and mum can't take it cos she is a beta personality
I mean, if you don’t mind it just be direct with her that it’s nothing personal, it doesn’t bother you, and you enjoy the banter. Hopefully it’s not too hard to convey you’re not a mentally weak redditor type.
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That's would I'll do. I've tried to do that and mums shut me down. Look at times it bothers me, but mostly no, especially if mum is around it doesn't cause I know if I react she will get annoyed. I will try to convey I'm not mentally weak
say that he gave you his monkey genes
obviously not
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He's not related to me
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Very nice
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Stop reposting that it ain't true
How old are you 12 or something Jfl, grow a fucking pair lad
He’s a cuck raising another man’s kid
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Not my fault
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Mum needs to stop getting pissed at us it isn't helping anything
If he gets too out of line, you can use that line.
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Which line
Kids.is
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I don't know buddy, it might be a subconscious way of saying that he's pissed you're a reminder of her original husband aka your biological father. Are you sure it's just "Bros being bros?". How long has he been in your life to build that familiarity with you?
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Funny
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9 years. I've known him. Maybe it's just him getting some energy out
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