Muh bullies have low self-esteem.

[NorthernWind]

It's just another myth made by normgroids who secretly feel sympathy for the bullies. 'You can't be so harsh on bullies because they also are victims in some sense ( have low self-esteem ).
This is false. Bullies usually have high self-esteem. I don't know origins of this table but its seems very accurate unlike those false claims 'poor bully just had bad childhood and suffering from low self-esteem'.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

It's just another myth made by normgroids who secretly feel sympathy for the bullies. 'You can't be so harsh on bullies because they also are victims in some sense ( have low self-esteem ).
This is false. Bullies usually have high self-esteem. I don't know origins of this table but its seems very accurate unlike those false claims 'poor bully just had bad childhood and suffering from low self-esteem'.

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Re: Bullying is not cool,its serious

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#150249495Saturday, November 22, 2014 10:35 PM CST Alright. While it's certainly accurate that "Bullying" is a rather persistent problem that certainly does requires awareness and management to appropriately handle the problem, creating a thread on an internet forum such as this certainly won't provide a solution to the problem and it's likely going to cause aggressive and unnecessary arguing. If you want to reduce the quantity of "Bullying" occurring then I would suggest that you communicate with people outside of a screen and utilize a website oriented towards problems such as this as it's a significant more effective strategy.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Re: [ Content Deleted ] AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #153258496Sunday, January 04, 2015 1:10 PM CST "Bullying" is entirely capable of affecting an individual for many years afterwards as the individual themselves will recall the events eventually. The degree of psychological damage depends on the kind of bullying and how the individual perceives the situation; Recurrent bullying will eventually alter the psychological state of the targeted individual, regardless of the extremity due to the simple fact that the person is consistently enduring psychologically harmful reminders of how the individual(s) bullying them perceive the person, the degree of psychological effect increases once you consider the individual's actual perception of the bully and the social circumstances toppled with the duration of time the individual is bullied. Many individuals who suffer a sufficient quantity of bullying during childhood often develop psychologically instability as the "Painful" memories eventually begin to dominate their perception of other humans with effects ranging from vendettas against socially-adapt and "Accepted" humans in general and development of narcissistic personality traits(Nearly always the eventual result of an inferiority-complex), to a significant degree of self-perceived inferiority that can result in the inability to psychologically connect with adjacent individuals due to fear of disapproval stemming from irrational thoughts and trigger the development of usually lifelong disorders such as "Depression".

Re: i found a solution to bullying in the public school system. AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #153978381Thursday, January 15, 2015 10:50 AM CST "no, only if its self defense. and allowing the ability would discourage bullies from bullying." There's various ways that this can be abused/taken out of proportion. Although I can understand why you would believe that this could interfere with the issue of bullying, It significantly increases the likelihood that if a battle begins, that one of students involved could be severely injured or killed. This can easily lead to retaliation from acquaintances of the individuals involved and intensify the severity of the situation.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Re: i always find a way to feel dissapointed in myself.

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#154412912Wednesday, January 21, 2015 10:03 PM CST "WHY DO YOU LET YOURSELF BE AN EASY TARGET FOR PEOPLE" Although the following statements may appear as patronizing or otherwise negative, I'm not trying to insult you, I'm merely trying to help you rationalize the situation. In society, 'acceptance' is a necessary aspect beginning from the very critical durations of cognitive development, failure to feel accepted by other individuals has some degree of influence on your psychological state, though this varies on an individual basis. These other individuals, who are targeting you, are likely targeting you simply because you aren't accepted in their clique and thus harassing you is a mechanism for the individuals involved to gain support from other members of their Social-Circle without being ridiculed as many people tend to avoid sources they're uncertain and thus uncomfortable with. I'm assuming, then, that you're feeling insecure due to the consistent insults you've received and perceive yourself as inferior, which would be completely incorrect. Though this may certainly be difficult to comprehend at the current duration of time, each individual has characteristics that vary from another person, the people bullying you are likely attempting to make their "Friends" perceive them as 'good' as a method of increasing self-confidence that they may be lacking. I'd highly suggest that you communicate with someone you trust about the situation and attempt to adapt how you perceive the issues involving yourself, although you may be receiving insults, you certainly aren't inferior and shouldn't consistently be aggressively criticized.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[wei#3959]

Use violence on your bullies

 

[frmentalcel]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[sadcel05x.r]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[Incedel]

Bulliying is just something that bored people who enjoy conflict do, usually they have to have positive traits like strength or charisma to do it otherwise the other person would fight back or ignore it. Can't be verbally bullied by an autist with no idea about social norms and cna't beaten by weaklings. Bullies are in the upper echelon of societal culture

 

[huaus]

This.
"bullies have low self-esteem"
I fucking hate when normalfaggots say that

 

[huaus]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[ThebegottenSon]

Bullies usually have high self-esteem.

Facts high self esteem mean they’re more likely to bully others with low self esteem. And others with low self esteem aren’t likely to bully

 

[ThebegottenSon]

Bulliying is just something that bored people who enjoy conflict do, usually they have to have positive traits like strength or charisma to do it otherwise the other person would fight back or ignore it. Can't be verbally bullied by an autist with no idea about social norms and cna't beaten by weaklings. Bullies are in the upper echelon of societal culture

Or looks all of this can be summed up into looks or size

 

[AshamedVirgin34]

Even if bullies had low self esteem (which is obviously false), they get laid a lot, that's ALL that matters. Confidence means nothing, it won't give you money, maybe it might give you sex, in that case confidence is just a mean, the end is to get you sex desires satisfied.

Confidence is just a stupid feeling, it doesn't bring real value to your life, and it's narcissistic since you have to lie to yourself into insisting you're something you're not yet in order to get it.

 

[Cletus Longthing]

Bullies should be all killed idc how old they are
Even as kids they are trash that needs to be exterminated for a bettER world

 

[NorthernWind]

Bullies should be all killed idc how old they are
Even as kids they are trash that needs to be exterminated for a bettER world

We need bully extERmination squad ( in video game ).

 

[dOOmerbOI]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Use violence on your bullies

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

Bullies should be exterminated in camps and burned alive (in real life)

 

[kek1]

Incels should bully normies and foids

 

[ULTRAMAN]

"in a few more years you will be the boss of them."

 

[The Raper]

Incels should bully normies and foids

You can't. Incels are few and crap at confrontation and normies are the exact opposite.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Its probably true that very high status individuals don't see the need to bully others, because punching down a lot would be seen as cowardly. Also very low status individuals don't compete with status with these Chads and Stacies of society so there's no need for them to do it.

Its also proven that women reward male bullies with sex. Men don't really reward women for bullying other women, which is why female bullying tends to be more about smearing others reputation so its more covert

 

[kek1]

You can't. Incels are few and crap at confrontation and normies are the exact opposite.

There are ways to sabotage them insidiously and secretly. For example, secretly discriminating against normies and foids, secretly giving preference to incels. Lying to them. Saying stuff they want is out of stock, betraying their trust. Preaching the bluepill to them while being blackpilled. Hanging out with incels, keeping foids out of conversations and lying to foids.

 

[The Raper]

There are ways to sabotage them insidiously and secretly. For example, secretly discriminating against normies and foids, secretly giving preference to incels. Lying to them. Saying stuff they want is out of stock, betraying their trust. Preaching the bluepill to them while being blackpilled. Hanging out with incels, keeping foids out of conversations and lying to foids.

Normies have no respect for incels. Your petty attempts at macchiavelianism won't even be noticed. You affect them the same way a bedbug affects your sleep.

 

[NorthernWind]

Its also proven that women reward male bullies with sex. Men don't really reward women for bullying other women, which is why female bullying tends to be more about smearing others reputation so its more covert

Men also don't reward women who try to subjugate other women while females date men who show their superiority to other men by taking commanding roles.
Many men would date a waitress at McDonald's if she is nice and good-looking even if they themselves are highly educated or successful businessmen.
While women often date powerful men with ability to oppress average men. Thus increasing problem of bullying.

 

[Thaway]

Chads are hunter gatherer slayers. Normies are pastoralist steppe herders. Incels are berry pickers.

 

[Thaway]

Bulliying is just something that bored people who enjoy conflict do, usually they have to have positive traits like strength or charisma to do it otherwise the other person would fight back or ignore it. Can't be verbally bullied by an autist with no idea about social norms and cna't beaten by weaklings. Bullies are in the upper echelon of societal culture

Exactly. Bullying only works if you have the resources to back it up. Like any other conflict, really.