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98GoinOnDead

98GoinOnDead

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The thought just came to me because my stepdad is having an argument with my mother yet again. They have been together for nigh on two decades, and yet manage to manifest conflict out nothing. Every relationship I witness ranges from dead and lifeless to absolutely awful. I don't think I have ever in my life witnessed a happy couple. Maybe this has always been the case, or more likely, modern 'culture' and way of life is just antithetical to a healthy relationship and family, just as it is also counter to the formation of healthy communities. As subsequent generations are becoming more vapid, egotistical and neurotic, these issues will only continue to increase. Now of course I would have liked to have had a gf at one point, to satiate my curiosity and so that I could experience the heady joy of a blooming young romance, but I have to ask myself- where would it lead? Likely by middle age I would be trapped in a loveless marriage, now too dependant on it to ever leave despite the misery. My kids would be getting ruined by modern society and the internet, and I'd be guilty of bringing sentient life into this terrible world. Even the happiest normies will succumb to this misery in the end. Many "happy normies" are just putting on a front anyway.

There exist two problems for us incels. Firstly, we must overcome the FOMO of missing out on young love. Secondly, and most importantly, we must find meaning and contentment in our lives. We will not find this through wageslaving, and coping with anime and videogames only goes so far. So what else is there? Do we wageslave to support ourselves but put all of our spare time into pursuits and hobbies? Do we become monks? Do we move innawoods and become self-sufficient hermits? I don't know the answer. I do, however, think that through sheer force of will and some mindfulness, think that it is possible for any of us to find a good path in life- and to truly transcend inceldom and become a volcel who doesn't spare a thought about foids any more.
 
but they had sex
 
but they had sex
Ok they had sex but they are also trapped in a relationship they hate, unable to get a moment's peace in life, unable to pursue things independently as they wish. They will never be able to dedicate themselves to master something like art or martial arts. They will have to spend all their time and effort betabuxxing a foid and dealing with her bullshit, her irrationality. If they have kids, they will witness them become simps and whores. I think the tradeoff is too much.
Cope but largely true.
Yeah I probably should have labelled the thread as cope to be fair.
 
Ok they had sex but they are also trapped in a relationship they hate, unable to get a moment's peace in life, unable to pursue things independently as they wish. They will never be able to dedicate themselves to master something like art or martial arts. They will have to spend all their time and effort betabuxxing a foid and dealing with her bullshit, her irrationality. If they have kids, they will witness them become simps and whores. I think the tradeoff is too much.

Yeah I probably should have labelled the thread as cope to be fair.
When I play College Kings, if you purposely bomb the game and play as badly as possible, his worst moments are 1000X greater than anything I could ever experience if I lived to 1000.

This is to say stupid drama is a small price to get sex if you can actually have sex
 
but they had sex
When I play College Kings, if you purposely bomb the game and play as badly as possible, his worst moments are 1000X greater than anything I could ever experience if I lived to 1000.

This is to say stupid drama is a small price to get sex if you can actually have sex
Surprised you haven’t escortcelled yet
 
The thought just came to me because my stepdad is havingEvery relationship I witness ranges from dead and lifeless to absolutely awful. I don't think I have ever in my life witnessed a happy couple.
Me neither
Maybe this has always been the case,
I don't think so. When couples ran productive entreprises (farms, shops) and hierarchy was clear, there was far less bickering.

or more likely, modern 'culture' and way of life is just antithetical to a healthy relationship and family, just as it is also counter to the formation of healthy communities.
Yes. That is also what I think.

As subsequent generations are becoming more vapid, egotistical and neurotic, these issues will only continue to increase. Now of course I would have liked to have had a gf at one point, to satiate my curiosity and so that I could experience the heady joy of a blooming young romance, but I have to ask myself- where would it lead? Likely by middle age I would be trapped in a loveless marriage, now too dependant on it to ever leave despite the misery. My kids would be getting ruined by modern society and the internet, and I'd be guilty of bringing sentient life into this terrible world. Even the happiest normies will succumb to this misery in the end. Many "happy normies" are just putting on a front anyway.
Yes

There exist two problems for us incels. Firstly, we must overcome the FOMO of missing out on young love.
Actually, "young love" is a sham. It does not really exist. Rene Girard explains why very well.

Secondly, and most importantly, we must find meaning and contentment in our lives. We will not find this through wageslaving, and coping with anime and videogames only goes so far. So what else is there? Do we wageslave to support ourselves but put all of our spare time into pursuits and hobbies? Do we become monks? Do we move innawoods and become self-sufficient hermits? I don't know the answer. I do, however, think that through sheer force of will and some mindfulness, think that it is possible for any of us to find a good path in life- and to truly transcend inceldom and become a volcel who doesn't spare a thought about foids any more.
I am pursuing a spiritual/religious path, although neither the words "religion" or "spiritual" are really appropriate.

Check out these threads:

Yeah I probably should have labelled the thread as cope to be fair.
Cope is an unavoidable part of every human life. That is the idea behind the concept of Credit Masturbation
 
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Ok they had sex but they are also trapped in a relationship they hate, unable to get a moment's peace in life, unable to pursue things independently as they wish. They will never be able to dedicate themselves to master something like art or martial arts. They will have to spend all their time and effort betabuxxing a foid and dealing with her bullshit, her irrationality. If they have kids, they will witness them become simps and whores. I think the tradeoff is too much.

Even if you just sit on the couch for 8 hours watching a tv show, the same applies. As an incel it's no problem, but if you live with someone you would sometimes feel guilt, irrationally, I might add.
 

Most relationships are miserable. In the Long run, potential for a happy life is greater in Incels.​

Agree with the first part
 
Agree with the title. There are worse things than being alone. Most sex, for ugly and short men, isn't worth the price attached. If you need to get laid, see a hooker. Don't marry some settling ass betabux whore, or you WILL regret it! Most plain looking married men are fucking miserable. The only men who are still happy in their marriage years later are the good looking guys, and there's a damn good reason for that.
 
Eventually every relationship goes to hell, but they experience all parts of relationships not just bad, there are many good parts of relationships.
 
Firstly, we must overcome the FOMO of missing out on young love.
Who the hell has a fear of missing out of missing out of young love?!

Fakecels, that's who.
 
Good point - if I had been a normie all my life, I would've been bluepilled enough to become a betabux cuck eventually so I might have dodged a bullet this way. Even as an abomination, my naïve ass managed to stay bluepilled for a long time, so I wouldn't be surprised.

I'd still rather be a single normie than a single subhuman, but there's no point in daydreaming. :feelsbadman:


Who the hell has a fear of missing out of missing out of young love?!

Fakecels, that's who.
It's much easier to succumb to FOMO when you've never been given a chance to experience something yourself regardless of how much blackpill theory you read, just like it's much easier to take something for granted if you have easy access to it. If anything, FOMO is a truecel trait.
 

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