But as I observed, a lot of people here are so fake and delusional. They use many reasons to excuse their lack of motivation, and the ability to find a relationship, without every trying.
I agree that they sometimes literally live in their own delusions, but they typically categorise those individuals as having mental illnesses that are typically brought on by some degree of neurodiversity or another mental illness; unless a doctor has officially diagnosed you with one of those conditions, you are not ND or anything similar.
And don't get me started on their personal rating scale. If many people here are really incel, then why do they call an attractive person, an average looking person?
Yes, a lot of us tend to rate men and ourselves than we actually are. In terms of height, for example, the average is roughly 5'9" according to poll data. This is inline with the average height in like the US, Canada, UK and some other western countries.
Obviously, we don't know about facial attractiveness this isn't looksmaxx, and it's better if incels don't post their faces. The data is always self-reported, and even with faces, each person has their own biases about what features are attractive, so you tend to have to gather several ratings and just average them out.
Why be hateful towards other people for their looks, and not their actions? Lookism is literally everywhere, even here.
It's mainly out of envy and jealousy, a lot of us simply hate society and just normies as a whole from the way we've been treated and insulted by usually a few. We envy chads and even normies for living pleasurable lives and having relationships while we are damned to loneliness and rejection.
Me personally, I only tend to judge people by their actions but you're right about lookism being everywhere even here. It's just kinda flipped on its head about having the least attractive features to be a truecel, it's like a culture of just fighting over who is more trucel than one person or the other then just constant fakecel accusations. Like I said earlier especially with delusions you get this sense of paranoia also where you think you're the only trucel among all fakecels.
A lot of them are Stacy-only, as I observed. Most foids in my country, are way uglier, than what they call to be "ugly"
True, even E.R. was stacy only his narcissism and belief he was the best gentleman deserving of the most beautiful woman, I looked through some of his social media posts on forums and some women did find him somewhat attractive but he just ignored them.
Again like i said earlier biases exist within all of us I don't think you can like objectively rate someone tbh, you could be very close but every person would have their own like slight deviation based on what they find attractive.
But you're realistically not gonna pull them without being a giga betabuxxer. Hypergamy not only derives from instinctive behaviour, but also first-wave feminism and many societal changes.
Even before if we look at our parents, grandparents on how they married a good portion did it because the woman needed well security, stability and just a roof over their head really so they married our fathers and grandfathers to get that I mean how else would ugly men be able to reproduce if it wasn't through that because then we'd all be dead a long time ago if women didn't want to mate with us.
Nowadays, women don't need men anymore and often just don't care about dating like at all they wanna focus on their careers and other things than actually just having a partner.
I'm not 100% sure on the nuaince on that stuff it's above my paygrade so I wouldn't know.
Too many volcels here, I agree. They think they're eugenic, but imagine wanting a Stacy, and your genes just ruin her genes. You will still give birth to a future incel.
Yeah, pretty much linking back what I've said before just eugenic, it's basically as the same as a foid wanting a chad kek. It doesn't make you any better than them but I believe a good portion of us accept our looksmatch at least.