Being a chad, you need to constantly engage with normies and maintain an active lifestyle focused on gaining validation from them, both online and in real life.
This involves, for example, constantly posting updates about your "interesting" lifestyle across all of your social media. In contrast, incels live - or forced to live - a more secluded and solitary lifestyle, free from the pressure of constant social engagement.
Being a chad come with the burden of being obliged to excel in everything: careless/cool driving, swimming, pool ball, gambling, casino games, drinking, dancing, flirting, and even conforming to normie musical tastes. This lifestyle leaves little room for personal freedom, as societal expectations dictate your actions. On the other hand, as a shunned incel, there are no expectations for you to be good at anything. This lack of social pressure grants you more freedom to choose your hobbies and live life on your terms.
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”