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Reddit is not completely cucked. There are times when seldom, posts like these actually support and understands our suffering and point of view...
I'm in my mid 20's. In the most upbeat physicial prime in my life.
After achieving and doing what most of society told me since I was child; hereby, become an accomplished man, be a kind listener, be a good christian, complete your education, find a job, be attentive, caring and patient, be supportive, gentle and respectful to all individuals,etc...
Dress up nicely, socialize, get out and meet people, be yourself, the best version of yourself, both physically and mentally, don't be shy, spend time on a hobby,etc...
After spending years to improve on social and personal scale and doing all of this, I thought that maybe, just maybe, that would be enough to one day have a partner....and yet after asking out girls multiple times and socializing with them, getting rejected; me being frustrated and angry is COMPLETELY my fault because somehow I am an asshole?
Yet, plenty of men who've got nothing going for themselves and got the shittiest personality get dates and laid all the time...
Yes, my fault.
I'm in my mid 20's. In the most upbeat physicial prime in my life.
After achieving and doing what most of society told me since I was child; hereby, become an accomplished man, be a kind listener, be a good christian, complete your education, find a job, be attentive, caring and patient, be supportive, gentle and respectful to all individuals,etc...
Dress up nicely, socialize, get out and meet people, be yourself, the best version of yourself, both physically and mentally, don't be shy, spend time on a hobby,etc...
After spending years to improve on social and personal scale and doing all of this, I thought that maybe, just maybe, that would be enough to one day have a partner....and yet after asking out girls multiple times and socializing with them, getting rejected; me being frustrated and angry is COMPLETELY my fault because somehow I am an asshole?
Yet, plenty of men who've got nothing going for themselves and got the shittiest personality get dates and laid all the time...
Yes, my fault.