Theory Men are always told they need deep, meaningful connections with others but often I don't think that's true

[Hoppipolla]

Back at school we used to play Counter-Strike. It was so fun

And... I wasn't even close friends with anyone in that room (that I remember? idk) but... just being part of a group and feeling I belonged made me feel really happy, I think.

This idea that someone needs deep meaningful connections to be happy I think is quite a feminine perspective. Men are the hunters. We're not having heart-to-hearts particularly we're out working together as a team to get results.

Anyway, it's just a theory that I wanted to share. Also, I'm an extrovert so I'm really not happy with a tiny little group I need lots of people in my life. And I think that's OK too.

 

[kay']

I was top fragger in cs at school everyone was trash and slow that i intentionally started making myself lose so they dont get mad

 

[Hoppipolla]

I was top fragger in cs at school everyone was trash and slow that i intentionally started making myself lose so they dont get mad

lol we had people who were so much better too!

One time we did 3 of us vs just him and he still won. The bastard!! XD