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Discussion Maybe she actually likes me?

Sex her then, and never come back here again.
 
>Last Seen: Nov 17, 2023
Looks like he did it kek
 
Nah it was much more, the amount of attention she gave me... Was unordinary.

BTW we (a small group) just had a night out with a few of our schoolmates from uni. We had a few drinks and she was there with his BF, and I dominated that useless pathetic piece of shit. Her BF is nothing.

Now that I have seen her BF, I hold myself much higher than I thought I would do.
Now I have a newfound need of her. I want her to be mine. But I have to be better than that trash guy. And I need her to know that I am better.
Taking sloppy seconds is kinda cucked ngl
 
50% - Bragging
OK so update time:
We still not fucking yet. LOL.

Last time I logged in was like about 8 months ago maybe. I've been feeling like shit lately so decided to come back here. Anyway... Almost 1 year has passed since we've known eachother with this girl. In 2 weeks, we will start our 3rd semester at uni. Since my last post, my experience with this girl didn't change. She did the same fucking shit I wrote about before. Here's a list of what she did:
  • She texted me almost everyday for the worst fake reasons imaginable (very obvious alibi) during schooltime (in the months where we attended uni, not summer/winter break)
  • She sat next to me whenever she could
  • In maths class, she couldn't sit next to me because I was sitting in the back of the lecture hall with my friends and because of this she would usually sit in the first row instead (30 meters from me maybe). Then by the end of the semester she lost the habit of this and said fuck it, and she deliberately sat in the row right in front of me for the rest of the year
  • She complained about how her project teammates all were a piece of shit, and in the following project classes she wants to be in a team with me
  • She always smiled when she saw me
  • She was constantly looking up my exam scores and asking how it went, while she knew exactly how it went
  • During subject admission (where we select what courses we wanna take in the next semester), we have subjects that are not mandatory, but selectable. Usually short and easy ones. I chose one course (something about economics) and she chose another, and when she found out what I chose, she immediately changed her course to mine.
Remember, this girl is ultra hot. The best in my programme of ~120 people. Totally unobtainable by any mortal, let alone someone who looks as ugly as I do... And here I am, not knowing what the fuck is going on and it just makes me wanna log out, focus on my studies and I want her to leave me alone because it is absolutely impossible for us to be together and I don't want to continue this with her. I want to keep distance from her but she keeps hanging on me. It hurts because I want to forget her, because when she is around me, I get feelings which are never going to be satisfied. I'd rather she didn't even exist. I tried ignoring her but she didn't care, plus I got guilty of myself because she is always very kind to me and doesn't deserve to be ignored.

...But her phone has a background of her and his boyfriend together...
...And they text all the time during classes...
...And she wears a ring that she got from him on Valentine's day...

I don't know what to do.
 
>Last Seen: Nov 17, 2023
Looks like he did it kek
NOPE

OK so update time:
We still not fucking yet. LOL.

Last time I logged in was like about 8 months ago maybe. I've been feeling like shit lately so decided to come back here. Anyway... Almost 1 year has passed since we've known eachother with this girl. In 2 weeks, we will start our 3rd semester at uni. Since my last post, my experience with this girl didn't change. She did the same fucking shit I wrote about before. Here's a list of what she did:
  • She texted me almost everyday for the worst fake reasons imaginable (very obvious alibi) during schooltime (in the months where we attended uni, not summer/winter break)
  • She sat next to me whenever she could
  • In maths class, she couldn't sit next to me because I was sitting in the back of the lecture hall with my friends and because of this she would usually sit in the first row instead (30 meters from me maybe). Then by the end of the semester she lost the habit of this and said fuck it, and she deliberately sat in the row right in front of me for the rest of the year
  • She complained about how her project teammates all were a piece of shit, and in the following project classes she wants to be in a team with me
  • She always smiled when she saw me
  • She was constantly looking up my exam scores and asking how it went, while she knew exactly how it went
  • During subject admission (where we select what courses we wanna take in the next semester), we have subjects that are not mandatory, but selectable. Usually short and easy ones. I chose one course (something about economics) and she chose another, and when she found out what I chose, she immediately changed her course to mine.
Remember, this girl is ultra hot. The best in my programme of ~120 people. Totally unobtainable by any mortal, let alone someone who looks as ugly as I do... And here I am, not knowing what the fuck is going on and it just makes me wanna log out, focus on my studies and I want her to leave me alone because it is absolutely impossible for us to be together and I don't want to continue this with her. I want to keep distance from her but she keeps hanging on me. It hurts because I want to forget her, because when she is around me, I get feelings which are never going to be satisfied. I'd rather she didn't even exist. I tried ignoring her but she didn't care, plus I got guilty of myself because she is always very kind to me and doesn't deserve to be ignored.

...But her phone has a background of her and his boyfriend together...
...And they text all the time during classes...
...And she wears a ring that she got from him on Valentine's day...

I don't know what to do.
 
Confront her. If you get shot down then you will no longer care, If not your fakecel GrAY self will save time
 
NOPE

OK so update time:
We still not fucking yet. LOL.

Last time I logged in was like about 8 months ago maybe. I've been feeling like shit lately so decided to come back here. Anyway... Almost 1 year has passed since we've known eachother with this girl. In 2 weeks, we will start our 3rd semester at uni. Since my last post, my experience with this girl didn't change. She did the same fucking shit I wrote about before. Here's a list of what she did:
  • She texted me almost everyday for the worst fake reasons imaginable (very obvious alibi) during schooltime (in the months where we attended uni, not summer/winter break)
  • She sat next to me whenever she could
  • In maths class, she couldn't sit next to me because I was sitting in the back of the lecture hall with my friends and because of this she would usually sit in the first row instead (30 meters from me maybe). Then by the end of the semester she lost the habit of this and said fuck it, and she deliberately sat in the row right in front of me for the rest of the year
  • She complained about how her project teammates all were a piece of shit, and in the following project classes she wants to be in a team with me
  • She always smiled when she saw me
  • She was constantly looking up my exam scores and asking how it went, while she knew exactly how it went
  • During subject admission (where we select what courses we wanna take in the next semester), we have subjects that are not mandatory, but selectable. Usually short and easy ones. I chose one course (something about economics) and she chose another, and when she found out what I chose, she immediately changed her course to mine.
Remember, this girl is ultra hot. The best in my programme of ~120 people. Totally unobtainable by any mortal, let alone someone who looks as ugly as I do... And here I am, not knowing what the fuck is going on and it just makes me wanna log out, focus on my studies and I want her to leave me alone because it is absolutely impossible for us to be together and I don't want to continue this with her. I want to keep distance from her but she keeps hanging on me. It hurts because I want to forget her, because when she is around me, I get feelings which are never going to be satisfied. I'd rather she didn't even exist. I tried ignoring her but she didn't care, plus I got guilty of myself because she is always very kind to me and doesn't deserve to be ignored.

...But her phone has a background of her and his boyfriend together...
...And they text all the time during classes...
...And she wears a ring that she got from him on Valentine's day...

I don't know what to do.
Fuck, and here i was hoping you had your happy ending tbh
 
About what? Exactly?
maybe ask about her boyfriend or just consistently make moves until her motive is clear. If you initiate conversation and she takes it well then you’re fine.
 
Just be interested in bro
 
Fuck, and here i was hoping you had your happy ending tbh
Absolute chad. Will let you know if it happens.

maybe ask about her boyfriend or just consistently make moves until her motive is clear. If you initiate conversation and she takes it well then you’re fine.
I have promised myself when I was 17 that I would NEVER initiate with a girl. As in initiation, I mean attempting to approach her in that way. And I will never tell my feelings for anyone unless they confess to me first. And that never happened obviously.

But funnily enough back in October (or maybe November) I did offhandedly ask her for a quick morning coffee after an early class because I was tired and needed a boost of caffeine. I asked if she wants a coffee, nothing intentional. And that, she might have mistaken for an attempt because after a brief brain processing time of 2 seconds she smiled at me in such a way that I will never forget. She smiled directly at me in that hallway for about 10 seconds not knowing what to say. UNDER NORMAL CIRCUMSTANCES THIS WOULD BE A DEAD GIVEAWAY unless I was aware of my situation..... my looks... my age... and the existence of her boyfriend....

Just be interested in bro
what?
 
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I have promised myself when I was 17 that I would NEVER initiate with a girl. As in initiation, I mean attempting to approach her in that way. And I will never tell my feelings for anyone unless they confess to me first. And that never happened obviously.

But funnily enough back in October (or maybe November) I did offhandedly ask her for a quick morning coffee after an early class because I was tired and needed a boost of caffeine. I asked if she wants a coffee, nothing intentional. And that, she might have mistaken for an attempt because after a brief brain processing time of 2 seconds she smiled at me in such a way that I will never forget. She smiled directly at me in that hallway for about 10 seconds not knowing what to say. UNDER NORMAL CIRCUMSTANCES THIS WOULD BE A DEAD GIVEAWAY unless I was aware of my situation..... my looks... my age... and the existence of her boyfriend....
If she smiled at that then you are seriously underestimating your looks. You can probably ascend with her or at least find a becky
 
If she smiled at that then you are seriously underestimating your looks. You can probably ascend with her or at least find a becky
Maybe she has a kink for ugly guys, idk... No girl was ever this nice to me ever before. She is confusing me so much. And as far as I can tell, she doesn't give a fuck about any other guys in this programme. I don't see her walking up to any other guy. Basically she is just like "meh" with everyone else. I am trying my best not to make myself believe but these signs are confusing as hell.
 
Maybe she has a kink for ugly guys, idk... No girl was ever this nice to me ever before. She is confusing me so much. And as far as I can tell, she doesn't give a fuck about any other guys in this programme. I don't see her walking up to any other guy. Basically she is just like "meh" with everyone else. I am trying my best not to make myself believe but these signs are confusing as hell.
Eh, there are always outliers. If thats the case though, and you are the only guy she treats well its either because of extreme sympathy (youd have to be a very obvious failure) or because she is interested. Its worth the risk of pursuing tbh. If she isnt interested she will make it clear once you pursue
 
Maybe she has a kink for ugly guys, idk
Yeah that would explain it. As far as i know, there are surprisingly a lot of girls who are into this shit.
 
Up until this point I followed my previous plan, which is to remain friends with her and keep contact. Afterall, it is beneficial for both of us to communicate because there's a lot of valuable studying related info going around at the uni. But that's it. I will not start convos with her on Messenger, and I will sit at my usual places during classes. If she texts me, I will reply and have a small chat. I will remain kind and helpful to her, like I have been so far. I will accept her sitting beside me, but no initiation from my part. Keep it professional, like at a workplace or something. That's my plan.

I know I can resist. But I was also curious about you guys, and your opinions of what I should do. I feel trapped.
 
I want to keep distance from her but she keeps hanging on me.
sue her for SA and get her jailed

she should respect ur personal space, she is basically a rapist
 
Fuck, and here i was hoping you had your happy ending tbh
who cares, it's some GrAY

you shouldn't get emotionally invested in GrAYs, if they were valuable people then they would have a higher postcount

it's probably just a LARP anyway, since a GrAY wrote it
 
This is what I call foid-fishing. She is using you as a betoid friend and attention provider, wake up you idiot!
 
Okay so I have received a 50% warning from moderation staff, reason: Bragging
Apparently asking fellow unexperienced men for help about me not knowing what to do in a situation where a female is having verbal contact with me counts as bragging.

This was my last post, it's been fun.
Cheers.
 
Too long, didn't read.
 
Wow, here I am almost 2 years in university & the most I have interacted with a foid is a handful of words one time.
 
It's been 8 months. Stop with the redpill shit and just ask her whats going on ffs
 

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