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willystroker
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I know that title sounds incredibly but hear me out...
By cuckoldry I don't mean the fetish kind like watching one's wife get fucked while wearing a cock cage. Rather like, a man lets his wife sleep around but tolerates it. However it should also be the other way around. A man can visit prostitutes and his wife should tolerate it. The children shouldn't find out about it and the wife can't get pregnant by another man. There are many societies that more or less practiced and still practice this, though often only the man is permitted to do it.
Of course faithful monogamy is the ideal, but for many if not the majority of married couples it's inevitable that one will lose attraction to the other. Currently when that happens, it usually results in a divorce and therefore the family is broken, the kids are scarred for life, the finances of everyone involved goes to shit, etc. It leads to an immense amount of damage which cascades to the larger society.
If couples could relieve their sexual tension outside of the marriage, while still being able to stay together and cooperate in raising a family, is this not preferable to divorce? More people would get married and children wouldn't have to deal with the separation of their parents. Essentially marriage becomes a duty to one's children and society rather than being based around sex and muh soulmate.
Or would it be pointless? Why marry a woman if she will just fuck other men? But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.
By cuckoldry I don't mean the fetish kind like watching one's wife get fucked while wearing a cock cage. Rather like, a man lets his wife sleep around but tolerates it. However it should also be the other way around. A man can visit prostitutes and his wife should tolerate it. The children shouldn't find out about it and the wife can't get pregnant by another man. There are many societies that more or less practiced and still practice this, though often only the man is permitted to do it.
Of course faithful monogamy is the ideal, but for many if not the majority of married couples it's inevitable that one will lose attraction to the other. Currently when that happens, it usually results in a divorce and therefore the family is broken, the kids are scarred for life, the finances of everyone involved goes to shit, etc. It leads to an immense amount of damage which cascades to the larger society.
If couples could relieve their sexual tension outside of the marriage, while still being able to stay together and cooperate in raising a family, is this not preferable to divorce? More people would get married and children wouldn't have to deal with the separation of their parents. Essentially marriage becomes a duty to one's children and society rather than being based around sex and muh soulmate.
Or would it be pointless? Why marry a woman if she will just fuck other men? But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.