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I know that title sounds incredibly :soy: but hear me out...

By cuckoldry I don't mean the fetish kind like watching one's wife get fucked while wearing a cock cage. Rather like, a man lets his wife sleep around but tolerates it. However it should also be the other way around. A man can visit prostitutes and his wife should tolerate it. The children shouldn't find out about it and the wife can't get pregnant by another man. There are many societies that more or less practiced and still practice this, though often only the man is permitted to do it.

Of course faithful monogamy is the ideal, but for many if not the majority of married couples it's inevitable that one will lose attraction to the other. Currently when that happens, it usually results in a divorce and therefore the family is broken, the kids are scarred for life, the finances of everyone involved goes to shit, etc. It leads to an immense amount of damage which cascades to the larger society.

If couples could relieve their sexual tension outside of the marriage, while still being able to stay together and cooperate in raising a family, is this not preferable to divorce? More people would get married and children wouldn't have to deal with the separation of their parents. Essentially marriage becomes a duty to one's children and society rather than being based around sex and muh soulmate.

Or would it be pointless? Why marry a woman if she will just fuck other men? But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.
 
No, escortcelling while allowing a foid to basically go with whatever past Chad she wants for free and bond with them even further is the most cucked idea I've ever seen; the same betabuxxing, but you're just openly letting the post-wall degenerate now leech off of you and go with whoever she might want... :feelswhat:

She won't even consider, at that point, letting you ascend with her; what's the point of marriage, then, as you said? :feelsjuice:
 
No, escortcelling while allowing a foid to basically go with whatever past Chad she wants for free and bond with them even further is the most cucked idea I've ever seen; the same betabuxxing, but you're just openly letting the post-wall degenerate now leech off of you and go with whoever she might want... :feelswhat:

She won't even consider, at that point, letting you ascend with her; what's the point of marriage, then, as you said? :feelsjuice:
I think the minimum requirement is that she'll provide you with children. This is more aimed at couples who start out well but lose attraction. If she won't even fuck you to begin with, then yeah no point in it.
 
I think the minimum requirement is that she'll provide you with children. This is more aimed at couples who start out well but lose attraction. If she won't even fuck you to begin with, then yeah no point in it.
So you can then take care of them and pay for whatever they might need while she practically divorces you? :feelsugh:
 
But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.
Beat the shit out of them and choke them for getting uppity with you. Behavioral adjustment therapy.
Womens roles should be reserved to housekeeping and raising children. The only time sex should be on their mind is when either a) their husband wants to initiate it or b) she is wanting to bear another child for her husband.
 
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Obligatory cuck soyjak
 
So you can then take care of them and pay for whatever they might need while she practically divorces you? :feelsugh:
Yes the point is to continue to raise children together. Having both mother and father present is essential to a stable upbringing for the children in most cases. I'm bringing this up because I see how all the men in my family get divorced and as a result most of my siblings are dysfunctional. Honestly this doesn't really cure inceldom since escorting doesn't count, it's more about creating a stable society.
 
Yes the point is to continue to raise children together. Having both mother and father present is essential to a stable upbringing for the children in most cases. I'm bringing this up because I see how all the men in my family get divorced and as a result most of my siblings are dysfunctional. Honestly this doesn't really cure inceldom since escorting doesn't count, it's more about creating a stable society.
Monogamous families mog for that, you're still having foids go off and do whatever they please. :smonk:
 
Cheating is already pretty prominent. Even the olden days, men would sleep around women without their wife knowing, and vice versa with women sleeping around.

There was the Ashley Madison scandal, lots of married couples cheating on their spouses. Also, lots of married men visit prostitutes (like you've said).

This kind makes me less hopeful of relationships and marriages tbh. I'd like to have a traditional family life with a woman, but that's not going to happen.
 
lol that pic but I'm not some femdom faggot, I'm proposing that married men can hook up or escortcel at the same time, it's an equal transaction.
Femdom, cuckoldry, same shit:smonk:
 
Cheating is already pretty prominent. Even the olden days, men would sleep around women without their wife knowing, and vice versa with women sleeping around.

There was the Ashley Madison scandal, lots of married couples cheating on their spouses. Also, lots of married men visit prostitutes (like you've said).

This kind makes me less hopeful of relationships and marriages tbh. I'd like to have a traditional family life with a woman, but that's not going to happen.
That's what I mean. Of course a trad faithful marriage is best. But being aware of the blackpill, maybe it's best if most men accept that women will never be faithful to us, and we should try to live with it and still maintain society rather than burning everything to the ground because we can't have what Chad has.
 
Beat the shit out of them and choke them for getting uppity with you. Behavioral adjustment therapy.
Womens roles should be reserved to housekeeping and raising children. The only time sex should be on their mind is when either a) their husband wants to initiate it or b) she is wanting to bear another child for her husband.
Traditionally that's the way to keep women from being unfaithful. Problem is that once a society becomes advanced and secular enough, most men especially wh*tes turn into huge SIMPs who don't like the prospect of beating their wives into submission (or other men will lynch them for it). So for us, socially tolerated cheating is the only way to prevent collapse from runaway hypergamy.
 
That's what I mean. Of course a trad faithful marriage is best. But being aware of the blackpill, maybe it's best if most men accept that women will never be faithful to us, and we should try to live with it and still maintain society rather than burning everything to the ground because we can't have what Chad has.
Yeah, this is just the reality we live in.

Open relationships and polygamous stuff is happening, and increasing everywhere. It's actually the most popular among the LGBTQIA+ crowd, but this kind of stuff have spilled into straight monogamous relationships. Lots of women these days identify as "bisexuals" and are sleeping with other women too. Some will do the "bisexual" shit to please their Chad boyfriends and giving him threesomes, and such.

However for me, it's either one on one or I sleep with prostitutes (only either one of the extremes). I don't want to mix the two personally.
 
Yeah, this is just the reality we live in.

Open relationships and polygamous stuff is happening, and increasing everywhere. It's actually the most popular among the LGBTQIA+ crowd, but this kind of stuff have spilled into straight monogamous relationships. Lots of women these days identify as "bisexuals" and are sleeping with other women too. Some will do the "bisexual" shit to please their Chad boyfriends and giving him threesomes, and such.

However for me, it's either one on one or I sleep with prostitutes (only either one of the extremes). I don't want to mix the two personally.
@WorthlessSlavicShit
 
Easiest way to end up the whole catalogue of STDs.

I always remember the propaganda poster showing a slut and a row of men which said:

"If you've slept with her, you've slept with all these men too".
 
Open relationships and polygamous stuff is happening, and increasing everywhere.
I see it too especially among millenials and zoomers. I don't like it at all but if it at least results in stable marriages, there's no stopping it. Inb4 islam, even zoomers from muslim countries are becoming secular due to contact with western media and the internet.

Easiest way to end up the whole catalogue of STDs.

I always remember the propaganda poster showing a slut and a row of men which said:

"If you've slept with her, you've slept with all these men too".
I didn't even think of that. That's the one pro of being incel, we will never get sex-haver diseases.
 
Big redpill: how many men are infertile because of STDs alone...
 
Why marry a woman if she will just fuck other men? But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.
Why the fuck do you care when we're literally fucking incels so this doesn't even apply to us? One positive of being an incel is that you can't get cucked, which is the same reason it's so funny to me when it happens to a normie/chad.
 
A Open relationship doesn’t work out for average men like it does average women and to me this sounds like ya wanna sleep with a pornstar
 
Why the fuck do you care when we're literally fucking incels so this doesn't even apply to us? One positive of being an incel is that you can't get cucked, which is the same reason it's so funny to me when it happens to a normie/chad.
I don't really know. I suppose I don't want to see civilization fail because it still provides many good things. And sadly this may be the only feasible way to save it. Yes men rising up and forcing women to be faithful is another way, but it will never happen because most men are bluepilled.

A Open relationship doesn’t work out for average men like it does average women and to me this sounds like ya wanna sleep with a pornstar
The key would be to have a thriving prostitution industry, perhaps even subsidized by the government. If that weren't in place then I doubt most men would be on board.
 
Also this isn't quite the same as open relationships/polygamy. Cheating should still be taboo and kept a secret, but it does not mean the end of a marriage, and it may be accepted that it occurs, but it's not openly embraced. This is still how many marriages work in Japan and other countries. The crucial part is that the husband knows the children are his.

This isn't bluepilled logic. In fact it's an extremely blackpilled idea that to sustain the institution of marriage men have to abandon the idea of romance (which is a recent notion that only existed in Western Europe) and view marriage as a practical arrangement to raise children.
 
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Such pathetic thread
 
Then again, this may be too blackpilled an idea for normie men to accept. And if they were that blackpiilled they may as well just make adultery illegal. Maybe I'm retarded :feelstastyman:

Or it could be that this is what ZOG enforces to keep feminism from destroying society.
 
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Then again, this may be too blackpilled an idea for normie men to accept. And if they were that blackpiilled they may as well just make adultery illegal. Maybe I'm retarded :feelstastyman:

Or it could be that this is what ZOG enforces to keep feminism from destroying society.
A lot of guys don't want to put thought into this or try to be nuanced/objective with it.
 
@WorthlessSlavicShit
I've noticed that as well, though I'm really not sure how common it's going to eventually become. Just a few months ago, I'd just say that this is simply another stop on the prophetic slippery slope we've been going down by for the last couple of years, but with there now being something of an actual pushback against trannies (if only because they are negatively impacting women), I'm actually a bit skeptical of how far the crazier LGBTQIA+ stuff and anything associated with it is going to go.
 
@FamilyGuy1999 / @incelerated alt
 
ur wife belongs to my BBC
 
Not reading, cuckoldry will never be ok
 
Not reading, cuckoldry will never be ok

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I know that title sounds incredibly :soy: but hear me out...

By cuckoldry I don't mean the fetish kind like watching one's wife get fucked while wearing a cock cage. Rather like, a man lets his wife sleep around but tolerates it. However it should also be the other way around. A man can visit prostitutes and his wife should tolerate it. The children shouldn't find out about it and the wife can't get pregnant by another man. There are many societies that more or less practiced and still practice this, though often only the man is permitted to do it.

Of course faithful monogamy is the ideal, but for many if not the majority of married couples it's inevitable that one will lose attraction to the other. Currently when that happens, it usually results in a divorce and therefore the family is broken, the kids are scarred for life, the finances of everyone involved goes to shit, etc. It leads to an immense amount of damage which cascades to the larger society.

If couples could relieve their sexual tension outside of the marriage, while still being able to stay together and cooperate in raising a family, is this not preferable to divorce? More people would get married and children wouldn't have to deal with the separation of their parents. Essentially marriage becomes a duty to one's children and society rather than being based around sex and muh soulmate.

Or would it be pointless? Why marry a woman if she will just fuck other men? But I don't see any other way to reconcile female mating instincts with highly complex society, other than finding a way to breed it out of them.
this is the realpolitik of marriage in a nutshell.

until romantic TV soap operas and movies about "muh soulmate" became the formative cultural meme about relationships; and divorce laws were still a distant thing, men have always tolerated their wives lovers' and women have always tolerated their husband's affairs. It is just a fact that different people have different sex drives, and even if the sex drive is matched at marriage, it varies through one's life... male's sex drive peak at 25, and after the age of 30, foids have a sex drive higher than a male of the same age. So, a younger couple the husband would cheat, and an older couple the foid would cheat. This was all too commonplace.

In fact, in ancient rome it was often said that foids should be married while virgins, at 18, while men should wait for marriage until 36. What were men supposed to do during those 20-something years between puberty and marriage? Fuck their friends' mothers, who were in their late 30s and basically infertile, while the fathers would be near 50 and would have a very low sex drive to care. So, this type of cuckoldry was the norm.

What happened in the post-WW2 soyciety is that "romance" pulp fiction was taken to be normative statements about human behavior, and people tried to conform to these unrealistic standards --- unsuccessfully. Divorce was then normalized so people would break up their families for the benefit of the jews, in a supposed pursuit of "happiness", that is: finding other perfect people to be in a romantic relationship with. But it is never perfect, so they would break up again, and again, and again.

Every married couple experienced infidelity as a norm. The best a guy could do is make some babies quick before the foid found a lover, so that the kids he would raise would be his. Romantic love inaugurated the era of high expectations on lifelong fidelity. Of course it doesn't work like that anymore than "50 shades of grey" would work.


I wrote a bit about this here: https://incels.is/threads/my-female...yfriend-and-lo-and-behold.390013/post-9141429

and here https://incels.is/threads/cuckoldry-is-not-a-fetish-it-is-the-normal-human-sexual-behavior.364065/
 
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Absolute state of this forum. We have users promoting literally cuckoldry.
 
I've noticed that as well, though I'm really not sure how common it's going to eventually become. Just a few months ago, I'd just say that this is simply another stop on the prophetic slippery slope we've been going down by for the last couple of years, but with there now being something of an actual pushback against trannies (if only because they are negatively impacting women), I'm actually a bit skeptical of how far the crazier LGBTQIA+ stuff and anything associated with it is going to go.
A lot of women and actual lesbians don't want to have sex trannies because they always feel forced by them, and are disgusted by them.

The LGBTQIA+ will keep pushing what's abnormal and have to keep insisting to every normal/average people that this is "natural" and "normal."

They're really forceful and demanding in what they want, and there has been that MAP (minors attracted pedo shit).

It's definitely a slippery slope.
 
Cuckoldry is cucked, it's literally in the name
 

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