So, I got recommended this video.
Two girls are having lunch, one was/is (no idea, I watched just the first few seconds to grab those screenshots) bullied in school, the other is popular. Since looks obviously don't matter and it's all about personality
, you obviously just need a single look at them to instantly know which one's personality sentenced her to be bullied and dread going to school, and which one was inevitably popular and not even aware that there are people terrified of attending school, regardless of what they did.
Predictably, the comment section, absolute jfl at it btw, is filled with people saying what a fantastic personality the bullied girl has and what a great friend the people there missed out on because they couldn't see past her looks.
This is a much more brutal blackpill then it looks at first glance, tbh. We hear this a lot. "Looks only matter for first impression, then your personality takes over. Looks might help you establish a connection, but it takes your personality that builds it and makes it last." We hear this kind of stuff, saying that your looks have only a temporary effect and your personality is what people truly judge you on a more permanent basis.
The video is just a bit over 10 minutes long. Obviously, those two girls are sharing those ten minutes and neither is speaking too much, so I'd assume about 5 minutes of speaking time for each of them (as I said, I dnw.) Now, look at those comments. Those people are saying that just the 5 minutes that she had for speaking was enough for them to see that the bullied girl is a great, funny and kind human being whom they'd happily take for a friend. And those aren't some random comments. The comments saying this have thousands of upvotes, with the top one having 20 thousand upvotes, meaning that, yes, thousands of people agree that just 5 minutes of her speaking were enough for them to start liking the bullied girl.
Think about what this means. In South Korea, a high school takes three years, with it being common for students to be in school for 12 hours a day. For 12 hours a day, every workday, for three years, this girl was going into a school ,armed with her charming pErSoNaLiTy, strong enough to make people like her after 5 minutes of talking, and her shit looks. The result? For all that time, her "incredible personality" was completely fucking useless. Not a single time during those 12 hours of every workday of three years was enough for any of those she was in close proximity to during that whole time to look past her looks and see her personality.
In fact, let me do the math. Assuming 260 workdays in a year and that this girl only needed five minutes to let her personality shine, we get:
260*12*60=187 200
During the three years of high school, this girl had 187,200 possibilities to let her personality shine and befriend people, if only she was given a single one of them. Instead, she wasn't given a single one of those 5-minute chances, and her schoolmates never looked past her looks during those three years.
Now, looking at this, I'm supposed to believe that women are able to completely look past the looks of any man that asks them out, nah, scratch that, any man they see, and unfailingly scan his personality to determine whether he is worthy of a romantic relationship? I'm supposed to believe that the same normies who never look past people's looks in high school and so on completely stop caring about it the moment they leave that environment, despite it being well-known that stuff like bullying never really goes away with age, and that, sure, the women you approach will see your looks first, but the moment you talk or speak that impression of you will be erased as your personality will either shine or stink through?
It would be comical if it wasn't so cruelly sad.
@Epedaphic @OutcompetedByRoomba @Subhuman0ne @To koniec @night-20
Two girls are having lunch, one was/is (no idea, I watched just the first few seconds to grab those screenshots) bullied in school, the other is popular. Since looks obviously don't matter and it's all about personality
, you obviously just need a single look at them to instantly know which one's personality sentenced her to be bullied and dread going to school, and which one was inevitably popular and not even aware that there are people terrified of attending school, regardless of what they did.Predictably, the comment section, absolute jfl at it btw, is filled with people saying what a fantastic personality the bullied girl has and what a great friend the people there missed out on because they couldn't see past her looks.
This is a much more brutal blackpill then it looks at first glance, tbh. We hear this a lot. "Looks only matter for first impression, then your personality takes over
. Looks might help you establish a connection, but it takes your personality that builds it and makes it last." We hear this kind of stuff, saying that your looks have only a temporary effect and your personality is what people truly judge you on a more permanent basis.The video is just a bit over 10 minutes long. Obviously, those two girls are sharing those ten minutes and neither is speaking too much, so I'd assume about 5 minutes of speaking time for each of them (as I said, I dnw.) Now, look at those comments. Those people are saying that just the 5 minutes that she had for speaking was enough for them to see that the bullied girl is a great, funny and kind human being whom they'd happily take for a friend. And those aren't some random comments. The comments saying this have thousands of upvotes, with the top one having 20 thousand upvotes, meaning that, yes, thousands of people agree that just 5 minutes of her speaking were enough for them to start liking the bullied girl.
Think about what this means. In South Korea, a high school takes three years, with it being common for students to be in school for 12 hours a day. For 12 hours a day, every workday, for three years, this girl was going into a school ,armed with her charming pErSoNaLiTy, strong enough to make people like her after 5 minutes of talking, and her shit looks. The result? For all that time, her "incredible personality" was completely fucking useless. Not a single time during those 12 hours of every workday of three years was enough for any of those she was in close proximity to during that whole time to look past her looks and see her personality.
In fact, let me do the math. Assuming 260 workdays in a year and that this girl only needed five minutes to let her personality shine, we get:
260*12*60=187 200
During the three years of high school, this girl had 187,200 possibilities to let her personality shine and befriend people, if only she was given a single one of them. Instead, she wasn't given a single one of those 5-minute chances, and her schoolmates never looked past her looks during those three years.
Now, looking at this, I'm supposed to believe that women are able to completely look past the looks of any man that asks them out, nah, scratch that, any man they see, and unfailingly scan his personality to determine whether he is worthy of a romantic relationship? I'm supposed to believe that the same normies who never look past people's looks in high school and so on completely stop caring about it the moment they leave that environment, despite it being well-known that stuff like bullying never really goes away with age, and that, sure, the women you approach will see your looks first, but the moment you talk or speak that impression of you will be erased as your personality will either shine or stink through
?It would be comical if it wasn't so cruelly sad.
@Epedaphic @OutcompetedByRoomba @Subhuman0ne @To koniec @night-20
