ItheIthe
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[First off, this is coming from someone going volcel, so you over at Inceltears should actually read this before writing it off as jealousy].
We live in a society which not only approves of, but applauds long-term "dating". Actually, many people advise doing a series of "LTRs" over actual marriage. However, whenever I hear the terms "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" I think of degeneracy.
Let's call these things for what they are: Marriage without the paperwork. Sure, you may not OFFICIALLY be together. But you are emotionally bonded. You are physically bonded. You share possessions, money, and experiences. You are wholly interdependent. You are, for all intents and purposes, "married".
However, with dating, one has the ability to sift in and out of relationships without the paperwork. If an LTR is marriage, then a "breakup" is divorce. This is why dating is an extremely degenerate concept. Most people probably date around 5-7 people before they get OFFICIALLY "married". However, all those LTR spoil the very concept of a true "marriage". A person who has had 6 boyfriends prior to their husband has, for all intents and purposes, been married 7 times. The OFFICIAL "marriage" now has far less meaning since emotional bonds with other people exist and sifting in and out of relationships is a habit. That husband is no longer a true love and a one and only, rather, he is just another guy. This very process of heartbreak after heartbreak will harden a person's heart to the point that they will not be able to fully appreciate their spouse.
Not only will someone struggle to full appreciate their spouse after dating many people, but it is actually adultery. "Dumping" someone is betraying them, and is the same as divorce since you are breaking a SPIRITUAL commitment (A commitment without the papers). IF you doubt anything I've said, compare today's divorce rate t that of the 1940's when prolonged dating wasn't as prevalent, but divorce was still legal.
Want to see what some certified anti-degenerates think of this @RopeForSluts @Lookismisreal @Anonymous
We live in a society which not only approves of, but applauds long-term "dating". Actually, many people advise doing a series of "LTRs" over actual marriage. However, whenever I hear the terms "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" I think of degeneracy.
Let's call these things for what they are: Marriage without the paperwork. Sure, you may not OFFICIALLY be together. But you are emotionally bonded. You are physically bonded. You share possessions, money, and experiences. You are wholly interdependent. You are, for all intents and purposes, "married".
However, with dating, one has the ability to sift in and out of relationships without the paperwork. If an LTR is marriage, then a "breakup" is divorce. This is why dating is an extremely degenerate concept. Most people probably date around 5-7 people before they get OFFICIALLY "married". However, all those LTR spoil the very concept of a true "marriage". A person who has had 6 boyfriends prior to their husband has, for all intents and purposes, been married 7 times. The OFFICIAL "marriage" now has far less meaning since emotional bonds with other people exist and sifting in and out of relationships is a habit. That husband is no longer a true love and a one and only, rather, he is just another guy. This very process of heartbreak after heartbreak will harden a person's heart to the point that they will not be able to fully appreciate their spouse.
Not only will someone struggle to full appreciate their spouse after dating many people, but it is actually adultery. "Dumping" someone is betraying them, and is the same as divorce since you are breaking a SPIRITUAL commitment (A commitment without the papers). IF you doubt anything I've said, compare today's divorce rate t that of the 1940's when prolonged dating wasn't as prevalent, but divorce was still legal.
Want to see what some certified anti-degenerates think of this @RopeForSluts @Lookismisreal @Anonymous