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Loneliness is very depressing, even for someone used to it.

Diomedes_1112

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I’m a guy in his early twenties who has always been a loner. And as a highly sensitive person, I’ve always felt an intrinsic need to be completely alone.

However, it is very depressing. I remember being 17 years old at high school feeling depressed over always being alone. After a long period of time, one starts to feel sad and/or depressed. How long have you been a loner for, if you are one yourself?
 
I’m a guy in his early twenties who has always been a loner. And as a highly sensitive person, I’ve always felt an intrinsic need to be completely alone.

However, it is very depressing. I remember being 17 years old at high school feeling depressed over always being alone. After a long period of time, one starts to feel sad and/or depressed. How long have you been a loner for, if you are one yourself?
I am the same, I am unwanted wherever i go yet i crave social contact, Ive been a shut in for almost 3 years after i quit my job of 7 years and finished college, When i got blackpilled i became a shut in NEET
 
I don’t even have my parents anymore. To me losing someone is much more painful than being alone.
 
I feel you. Although I'm in my mid-20s. What's the worst part about loneliness for you - no friends, no gf or something else?
 
How long have you been a loner for, if you are one yourself?
High school marked the beginning of complete social ostracization. Even the nerds were "too cool" for me. Being white did provide any benefit; I was jeered, mocked, and bullied by ricemen, curries, niggers, and normie tier whites. Never began for autistic birdcels :feelsrope:
 
I don’t even have my parents anymore. To me losing someone is much more painful than being alone.
Hugs brocel, That must be tough, Im not even gonna ask what happened bc i dont want to remind you of the pain, Were here for you :feelsaww:
 
Hugs brocel, That must be tough, Im not even gonna ask what happened bc i dont want to remind you of the pain, Were here for you :feelsaww:
thanks. I made a post about it around a year ago so it’s not a secret
 
I feel you. Although I'm in my mid-20s. What's the worst part about loneliness for you - no friends, no gf or something else?
All of those things, I would say. But I’d say not having friends is troubling; I don’t really have anyone to relate to. And coming from a Latino community, most Latinos aren’t like me: smart, intellectual type, reclusive, learned people. They’re the complete opposite.

Having a weird misshapen nose doesn’t help either. It just repels people, I think.

What’s the worst part about loneliness for you, if you don’t mind me asking?
 
All of those things, I would say. But I’d say not having friends is troubling; I don’t really have anyone to relate to. And coming from a Latino community, most Latinos aren’t like me: smart, intellectual type, reclusive, learned people. They’re the complete opposite.

Having a weird misshapen nose doesn’t help either. It just repels people, I think.
This sounds terrible.

What’s the worst part about loneliness for you, if you don’t mind me asking?
I don't mind at all, sorry that I didn't ask you too. For me it's that I have no woman to hug and I don't have an intimate connection to a gf. I basically only have myself IRL, nobody to talk to or do stuff with. No woman to sleep with. Even if I wanted in-real-life friends, which I don't, making them would be practically impossible.
I am very strange-looking and short.
 
This sounds terrible.


I don't mind at all, sorry that I didn't ask you too. For me it's that I have no woman to hug and I don't have an intimate connection to a gf. I basically only have myself IRL, nobody to talk to or do stuff with. No woman to sleep with. Even if I wanted in-real-life friends, which I don't, making them would be practically impossible.
I am very strange-looking and short.
Yeah. I also feel that desire as well.

P*rn becomes the main relief or pacifier after long periods of time being alone. When there’s no one there by your side to provide comfort or to become intimate with, what else can you really do, honestly?

My only real friend lives far away from me, and he’s someone mentally retarded.
 
Yeah. I also feel that desire as well.

P*rn becomes the main relief or pacifier after long periods of time being alone. When there’s no one there by your side to provide comfort or to become intimate with, what else can you really do, honestly?

My only real friend lives far away from me, and he’s someone mentally retarded.
:feelsbadman: :cryfeels:
 
I actually do have 'friends' but contact fell off.
And I'm too stubborn to be the one to get back in touch.
But I find that I no longer need them and in fact getting back in touch might be a painful reminder of what I've missed out. It's been a very long time.
 
I am the same, I am unwanted wherever i go yet i crave social contact, Ive been a shut in for almost 3 years after i quit my job of 7 years and finished college, When i got blackpilled i became a shut in NEET
 
I've been a neet for about a year now. I stay upstairs in my room all day and only have social contact with my mom and dad ocassionally.
 

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