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Blackpill "Just don't want what you want, bro!" is the basic premise of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

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If in today's society an individual has a fundamental need that can't be fullfilled, he will be either coerced, or down-right forced to participate in the institutionalized brainwashing of psychotherapy.
There he will be introduced to the four "healthy coping skills":

1) Coping with "problem solving" "Just do x/y/z , bro!"
2)Cognitive Reframing/Challenging "unhelpful thoughts" "[insert whatever is lacking in your life] is not that important anyway!"
3) Engaging in mood-boosting activities "Just do [insert cheap replacement for whatever is lacking in your life] bro!"
4) Coping with stress-relief-techniques "Just meditate, bro!"


Sooner or later the fundamental need that can't be fullfilled will be entirely dismissed, or even worse, misdiagnosed as "vulnerable narcissism" and the new "mental health patient" will be told that "nobody owes him anything".
His needs and desires will be interpreted as something bad which the "patient" should simply change.

At the end of the day it all comes down to the notion "Just don't want what you want, bro!"
But here's a hard-to-swallow pill for you:

"Man may be able to do what he wants, but he can't want what he wants" :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
-St. SchopenhauER

This quote basically means:
You can't change your fundamental needs and desires, no matter how hard you try.
They are just there, and you can't do anything about them.

There is no "positive re-intepretation" of life circumstances.
Our bodies and minds have evolved to interpret those circumstances negatively over millions of years, and 20 minutes of talk therapy a week can't make up for that.

You are also not a vulnerable narcissist for having needs.
While it is technically true nobody is owed anything, shaming people for their unchangeable needs is counterproductive or even downright harmful.

Therapy is useless at best.
I repeat, therapy is useless, ESPECIALLY if your life is so fucked up that you ended up on this forum.
If you want somebody to gaslight and shame you for your biological needs you are better off just paying a dominatrix.
Probably costs less than a fucking therapist.
 
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High IQ post but what's the alternative for us mentalcels?
 
I feel like for CBT to be effective you need to be good at lying to yourself. I can’t do that. Feels too fake.
 
Therapy is just gaslighting. Total scam.
 
incels need plastic surgery not therapy. psychology is something foids like doing for a living. lying to ugly men.
 
If in today's society an individual has a fundamental need that can't be fullfilled, he will be either coerced, or down-right forced to participate in the institutionalized brainwashing of psychotherapy.
There he will be introduced to the four "healthy coping skills":

1) Coping with "problem solving" "Just do x/y/z , bro!"
2)Cognitive Reframing/Challenging "unhelpful thoughts" "[insert whatever is lacking in your life] is not that important anyway!"
3) Engaging in mood-boosting activities "Just do [insert cheap replacement for whatever is lacking in your life] bro!"
4) Coping with stress-relief-techniques "Just meditate, bro!"


Sooner or later the fundamental need that can't be fullfilled will be entirely dismissed, or even worse, misdiagnosed as "vulnerable narcissism" and the new "mental health patient" will be told that "nobody owes him anything".
His needs and desires will be interpreted as something bad which the "patient" should simply change.

At the end of the day it all comes down to the notion "Just don't want what you want, bro!"
But here's a hard-to-swallow pill for you:

"Man may be able to do what he wants, but he can't want what he wants" :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
-St. SchopenhauER

This quote basically means:
You can't change your fundamental needs and desires, no matter how hard you try.
They are just there, and you can't do anything about them.

There is no "positive re-intepretation" of life circumstances.
Our bodies and minds have evolved to interpret those circumstances negatively over millions of years, and 20 minutes of talk therapy a week can't make up for that.

You are also not a vulnerable narcissist for having needs.
While it is technically true nobody is owed anything, shaming people for their unchangeable needs is counterproductive or even downright harmful.

Therapy is useless at best.
I repeat, therapy is useless, ESPECIALLY if your life is so fucked up that you ended up on this forum.
If you want somebody to gaslight and shame you for your biological needs you are better off just paying a dominatrix.
Probably costs less than a fucking therapist.
high iq
@Atavistic Autist
you are professional therapy debunker

I collected his threads here:

 
@Darth_Aurelius
@Darth Nihilus
@Govid_Dorious
@2002AryanMaxxed1488
@Puppeter
@Lv99_BixNood
@wereq
@CopeHarderNow
@Pancakecel
@Adolf Hitler
@FemoidsGTFO
@Nate Higgers
@nazianime
@murdermario
@AsiaCel
@BataviaCel
@Luzifer
@Rotter
@Blackpill Monk
@accelERationist
@Chudpreet
 
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@BlackCell_from_ZA
@SlavicPolishSub3
@DepravedAndDeprived
@Clown
@DepressedClown
 
100%

CBT proponents often talk about absurd ideas like 'external locus of control,' which ends up just substituting a fake perspective (where external phenomenon are under your control even if they aren't) for a realistic perspective. It doesn't solve the problems, just try to hide them so you don't notice.

Reminds me of that song by Fear Before the March of Flames:

If we give the horses blinders
They won't see the approaching ledge
Too much time and effort spent on just another bridge

We trust the local doctor
We trust the medicine
Our child gets a scratch
We give our child a brand new head
We eat what's on our plate
We drink what's in our cup
We like the shiny tv screen
It spits we lap it up...

And they fill our heads
With sugar coated shit
Cause there's no need to talk
When we have medicine

There's a pill for every fucked up thought
And a cure for every fucked up child
 
High IQ post but what's the alternative for us mentalcels?
All four of the “coping skills” in the post can be helpful. They just won’t eliminate fundamental needs, or change factors that are actually external, such as hypergamy.
 
read every word
There is a reason why people like hamza are so successfull despite having literally no qualifications:
Hamza majored in psychology.
He literally went to university to study CBT, the art of brainwashing and manipulation.

Make no mistake, those people are not just a bunch of well-intentioned idiots.
They know exactly what they're doing.
It takes a special kind of sociopath to systematically manipulate naive incels using CBT.
 
Therapy is useless at best.
I repeat, therapy is useless, ESPECIALLY if your life is so fucked up that you ended up on this forum.
If you want somebody to gaslight and shame you for your biological needs you are better off just paying a dominatrix.
Probably costs less than a fucking therapist.
Many of them probably at least give blowjobs and footjobs
 
There is a reason why people like hamza are so successfull despite having literally no qualifications:
Hamza majored in psychology.
He literally went to university to study CBT, the art of brainwashing and manipulation.

Make no mistake, those people are not just a bunch of well-intentioned idiots.
They know exactly what they're doing.
It takes a special kind of sociopath to systematically manipulate naive incels using CBT.
ah i dunno who is guy is but yeah
 
blowjob therapy would unironically be more effective than any psychological method
Exactly. That's why foid therapists who refuse to give sex to their clients are useless
 
Haha they really call that shit CBT
 
High IQ,

The families of ER victims should just not give a fuck about their loved ones. Let them try stoicism or some similar bullshit instead.
 
Nice post. It's very true, we can't change our nature.
 
Very true.

 
incels need plastic surgery not therapy. psychology is something foids like doing for a living. lying to ugly men.

Yep, psychology only works for toilets because all their problems literally only exists between their ears.
 
The two based subreddits lmao
Unfortunately even they aren't good enough. It is Reddit after all so you can't expect too much.
 
You're absolutely right.

But this isn't a bad thing. A lot of people here, they're only here because they subscribe to the love delusion. Love isn't real and it never has been. It's a fiction that is tied into a linguistic quirk of the English (and other) languages. Love is a huge equivocation, a conflation of many separate concepts that separate words don't exist for, and the failure to differentiate them results in self-destructive beliefs and desires.

If you wanted a unicorn as much as people are conditioned to want this fictitious thing called love, you would destroy yourself searching for what doesn't exist. This is where changing what you want is helpful. One should have realistic wants.

That said, fuck therapy. You can't trust another human being, a competitor, to fix your mind. You have to fix yourself internally. Other people are only interested in harming you, and the best way to do it is to get you to believe they're helping.
 
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If in today's society an individual has a fundamental need that can't be fullfilled, he will be either coerced, or down-right forced to participate in the institutionalized brainwashing of psychotherapy.
There he will be introduced to the four "healthy coping skills":

1) Coping with "problem solving" "Just do x/y/z , bro!"
2)Cognitive Reframing/Challenging "unhelpful thoughts" "[insert whatever is lacking in your life] is not that important anyway!"
3) Engaging in mood-boosting activities "Just do [insert cheap replacement for whatever is lacking in your life] bro!"
4) Coping with stress-relief-techniques "Just meditate, bro!"


Sooner or later the fundamental need that can't be fullfilled will be entirely dismissed, or even worse, misdiagnosed as "vulnerable narcissism" and the new "mental health patient" will be told that "nobody owes him anything".
His needs and desires will be interpreted as something bad which the "patient" should simply change.

At the end of the day it all comes down to the notion "Just don't want what you want, bro!"
But here's a hard-to-swallow pill for you:

"Man may be able to do what he wants, but he can't want what he wants" :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
-St. SchopenhauER

This quote basically means:
You can't change your fundamental needs and desires, no matter how hard you try.
They are just there, and you can't do anything about them.

There is no "positive re-intepretation" of life circumstances.
Our bodies and minds have evolved to interpret those circumstances negatively over millions of years, and 20 minutes of talk therapy a week can't make up for that.

You are also not a vulnerable narcissist for having needs.
While it is technically true nobody is owed anything, shaming people for their unchangeable needs is counterproductive or even downright harmful.

Therapy is useless at best.
I repeat, therapy is useless, ESPECIALLY if your life is so fucked up that you ended up on this forum.
If you want somebody to gaslight and shame you for your biological needs you are better off just paying a dominatrix.
Probably costs less than a fucking therapist.
broootal
 
The only CBT an incel should do is cock and ball torture, this just affirms my view further
 

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