Just posted this in another thread, but seems pertinent. Junior year of college I was still in denial that I was Asian, and 6'1 135lbs. Met another asian girl in one of my classes who was actually pretty hot. I'd say legit 7/10 face with a slim body and a nice ass for an asian girl.Very white washed, but still a good student, and had some stereotypical asian likes, like Anime club. One of the few girls who I ever went out drinking with her, buying her drinks, thinking maybe because she was Asian too I had a chance. She seems interested, so I pay for her first couple drinks. Eventually, while mid sentence, she sees a chadlet frat guy with biceps as big as my waist at the bar, and yells "Mike, is that you!" and puts her arms around his neck and pushing her tits up agaisnt him, completely ignoring me. He then literally just smiles and says "make out with me", and they start kissing. After what felt like 4 minutes of him grabbing her ass and kissing her, she turns around and says "oh yeah, this is my friend Csian". The smirk on the Chadlets face still stings. He knew what had just happened. He went home with her almost immediately after, leaving me with a good 40 dollar bar tab (a lot for when i was a student). I haven't approached any girl more than a 4 since then.
What makes matters worse is I was substancially taller than him. Face and being white> all. Being tall doesn't help when you're asian or not facially good looking. A 5'7 manlet white guy will still fuck the girl you like with little difficulty.