I’ve been living in Thailand for 6 years, AMA about anything

[bkk20189]

Why come to this site to do an ama?

anyway how are the whores when it comes to price and how they act?
Are the people assholes like they are in the west?

I stumbled across this site but a work friend of mine explained what an incel was first. I think I found this site through fit.misc the fitness forum. I looked around on here and just decided to make a thread about here to put some info out really. I’m not incel myself but just before I left to come here I was struggling with dating too in the West. The requirements of 5 out of ten girls that I spoke to were generally a man needs a house, car, good job etc..it’s got hard for any average guy nowadays also..most of the girls I was speaking to or dating were single mums also and wanted a lot from u but didn’t really have anything to offer back lol

 

[bkk20189]

Oh IC, that isn't something I can just emulate then. Been a jobless NEET for too long to interest a corporation that needs an expat there.

Yeh expat jobs here are very difficult to get, really decent jobs I mean. But anyone can probably get a job in education if you have at least a BA

 

[itsOVER]

True @ whale comment. I’ve honestly seen here though many many times evidence of money over riding looks. I’ve seen it with some of my ex colleagues who would be 3-4 out of ten nowadays in a western country. These guys honestly had sexy little girlfriends. Yes they were handing them money each month, which isn’t normal I agree, and they are basically prostituting themselves, but relationships here in many ways are very different to western countries, in many ways they are still old fashioned and the man is expected to pay for dinner and provide some support to his gf/wife whether she’s officially a hooker or just a normal girl who works in retail. Thais guys are doing the same. They still have the dowry system here, and a very large piece of relationships is what can you provide..what kind of lifestyle do you offer

My experience differs sharply in this regard, no girl has ever asked me for money there in 2 and a half years (unless I was buying hookers ofc but then it's expected).

Sure if you're rich you can betabux a hot girl but honestly I'd much rather have a looksmatched girl who's not just a live-in whore.

Looks is still everything. I don't believe in any normie copes like money, being NT, socialising, going to the gym etc. If you get girls it's because you're attractive to them, if you don't it's because you're ugly, simple as that.

 

[bkk20189]

My experience differs sharply in this regard, no girl has ever asked me for money there in 2 and a half years (unless I was buying hookers ofc but then it's expected).

Sure if you're rich you can betabux a hot girl but honestly I'd much rather have a looksmatched girl who's not just a live-in whore.

Looks is still everything. I don't believe in any normie copes like money, being NT, socialising, going to the gym etc. If you get girls it's because you're attractive to them, if you don't it's because you're ugly, simple as that.

Yep fair enough. I haven’t directly been asked for money either, but I have been encouraged to buy the odd gift here and there

 

[Miro Chad]

Fair enough. No employer covers that

How much is decent health insurance there? I heared it is like $50-$80?

 

[bkk20189]

How much is decent health insurance there? I heared it is like $50-$80?

I’m not sure actually, never looked into it

 

[Letting Go]

What percentage of young women in Bangkok have good enough English skills to be able to hold a conversation? Communicating was difficult with the last Thai woman I chatted with online because she didn't know much English.

 

[bkk20189]

What percentage of young women in Bangkok have good enough English skills to be able to hold a conversation? Communicating was difficult with the last Thai woman I chatted with online because she didn't know much English.

Quite a low percentage in Bangkok outside of tourist areas tbh. In tourist spots and places like Phuket it’s a lot higher

 

[theoldnick]

How do you ensure before going to bed that a girl is actually a girl, not a tranny?

adams apple
trannies are easy, girls will require some work
trannies are interesting/have passions
trannies smile when they cross your path, girls make bitch face

 

[Miro Chad]

I’m not sure actually, never looked into it

How hot are the girls in thailand? When I watched BKK Videos on youtube I saw a good number of bangable women but on Tinder there are a lot of ugly af sub 3s.

 

[Letting Go]

Quite a low percentage in Bangkok outside of tourist areas tbh. In tourist spots and places like Phuket it’s a lot higher

Good to know. I guess I can't be too picky, but would prefer someone that I could actually communicate with.

 

[bkk20189]

How hot are the girls in thailand? When I watched BKK Videos on youtube I saw a good number of bangable women but on Tinder there are a lot of ugly af sub 3s.

In general very good bodies..faces can be touch and go. Overall, hotter than western women overall nowadays

 

[bkk20189]

How hot are the girls in thailand? When I watched BKK Videos on youtube I saw a good number of bangable women but on Tinder there are a lot of ugly af sub 3s.

If you walk down the street here you will constantly see sexy women everyday, I’ve seen quite a few today

 

[Miro Chad]

In general very good bodies..faces can be touch and go. Overall, hotter than western women overall nowadays

Good to know, when I check a dating app here most girls are ugly af.
What about russian women? I heared a lot live in BKK.

 

[Miro Chad]

If you walk down the street here you will constantly see sexy women everyday, I’ve seen quite a few today

This is how I saw it in the videos too, but the question is how hard it would be to slay them.

 

[bkk20189]

Many girls here are at the least curious about foreign guys. I would say anyone has a muchhhhhhhhh better chance out here than in western countries of getting with a sexy girl. Do a google image search of Thai university girls..now they are nearly ALWAYS sexy, rarely will you see a fat girl etc

This is how I saw it in the videos too, but the question is how hard it would be to slay them.

 

[heroinfather]

I have always feared that soon the general ugly population will saturate thailand because it is so easy to get a girlfriend there...is there an increasing number of subhumans that come from the west just to get laid?

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Aren't Thai men starting to become very resentful of white tourists there? I know I would if roles were reversed.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Aren't Thai men starting to become very resentful of white tourists there? I know I would if roles were reversed.

that's why they limited the visas

on the other hand, every white guy thinks white are a majority worldwide, which is retarded, they're like 10% of the population at most, they're a tiny, tiny minority

so white guys will never "take over" SEA

 

[mylifeistrash]

How did you manage to get permanent resident or citizenship status? or do you need to travel back every so often which would be expensive?

if you find remote work for some company as a programmer you'd need to spend $15k on a thai elite visa
probably better just to go to PH where visas are unlimited

 

[Miro Chad]

if you find remote work for some company as a programmer you'd need to spend $15k on a thai elite visa
probably better just to go to PH where visas are unlimited

Or start a muhai thai course or thai language course or stay with tourist visas. Heared if you overstay you only have to pay like 500 bucks but might be different now.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Or start a muhai thai course or thai language course or stay with tourist visas. Heared if you overstay you only have to pay like 500 bucks but might be different now.

people who give this shit advice are like 50 year old men telling everyone to "just be confident"

your information is old and dangerous. they clamped down on those visas like 10 years ago.

you're only going to get 2-3 tourist visas (if 1st world) a year, a work visa, or a thai elite visa.

 

[Miro Chad]

people who give this shit advice are like 50 year old men telling everyone to "just be confident"

your information is old and dangerous. they clamped down on those visas like 10 years ago.

you're only going to get 2-3 tourist visas (if 1st world) a year, a work visa, or a thai elite visa.

I am very sure you can get a 1 year visa if you study 10 hrs a week thai, other than that I could just get a 3 month visa, go one day to Malaysia and get another 3 month visa. I'd just stay 6 months a year in Thailand and 6 Months in EE.

 

[UglyLoser]

I don't have any specific questions but just tell us a quick run down/ summary of what its been like.

 

[Deleted member 236]

Post pic of yourself.

 

[bkk20189]

I have always feared that soon the general ugly population will saturate thailand because it is so easy to get a girlfriend there...is there an increasing number of subhumans that come from the west just to get laid?

I don’t think the amount is increasing, but there’s definitely a large population who would admit themselves they’ve failed at life in western countries

 

[bkk20189]

Aren't Thai men starting to become very resentful of white tourists there? I know I would if roles were reversed.

Yes in some areas and in some ways, but everyone here also wants the income from these types of people

 

[bkk20189]

I don't have any specific questions but just tell us a quick run down/ summary of what its been like.

Sure. Overall it’s a good life here once you get used to it. The cost of living is very low, people are generally very friendly, and the women are overall very nice here too, although definitely simpler in many ways compared to western women. I’ve never had a deep conversation with anyone here, even the few I’ve met who were very good with English. On the down side it can be dangerous here, the roads are extremely dangerous and it’s also very very humid for most of the year

 

[mylifeistrash]

I don’t think the amount is increasing, but there’s definitely a large population who would admit themselves they’ve failed at life in western countries

easier to make money in the west and easier life, usually

but dating is a billion times harder

thailand has some cool shit but JFL if you try to get anything done there without knowing thai

 

[gentsupreme]

how much money do u need to live in Bangkok, in a decent safe neighbourhood?

consider the fact that one doesn't looks for "trips" or "traveling" but just meeting girls on a daily basis and fucking them

how much does it costs per month (incl. rent, food, healthcare etc.)

 

[mylifeistrash]

how much money do u need to live in Bangkok, in a decent safe neighbourhood?

consider the fact that one doesn't looks for "trips" or "traveling" but just meeting girls on a daily basis and fucking them

how much does it costs per month (incl. rent, food, healthcare etc.)

i'd say 1500 to not live a shitty life

but then you gotta get some health insurance, idk how much

then gotta pay for visas

honestly probably $2000

no fukkin way you can do it on $1000

 

[Narazz]

i wish i could go to japan instead of thailand. Problem is japan would be good for everything but getting laid

past getting income the big concern is the burning in Thailand. this one vegan youtuber i watch is leaving the place because of it. i'd hpe it's not that bad lol. i also hope the whole vegan thing isn't too brain washed into the culture as i feel it's cult. fresh fish and stuff like that would be tolerable

 

[Erenor]

Would I have a chance of finding employment there as a civil engineer (German with a mediocre degree), or are there a lot of thai people studying for that profession as well?

 

[UglyLoser]

Sure. Overall it’s a good life here once you get used to it. The cost of living is very low, people are generally very friendly, and the women are overall very nice here too, although definitely simpler in many ways compared to western women. I’ve never had a deep conversation with anyone here, even the few I’ve met who were very good with English. On the down side it can be dangerous here, the roads are extremely dangerous and it’s also very very humid for most of the year

What do you do for a living? Sorry if you already answered this. Do you mainly interact with locals or other foreigners like yourself?

 

[NeoRedPill]

Do black men have success with Thai women, or is it white only?

 

[Z-type EX-CEL]

10,000- 30,000B is what I’ve been told in general

You are giving good advice but it doesnt taste good when you are giving betabuxx tips, that isnt being wanted.

 

[BlackpilledTruecel]

yep. anyone here with a bachelors degree is a volcel. NO ONE can be incel in thailand. bachelors is the only thing holding me back, which im working on now

 

[Wettinghose]

If you walk down the street here you will constantly see sexy women everyday, I’ve seen quite a few today

Thats true and so painful because you are constantly reminded that you cannot have them. I have lots of good looking women in my office as well but the all treat me like shit

 

[Wettinghose]

yep. anyone here with a bachelors degree is a volcel. NO ONE can be incel in thailand. bachelors is the only thing holding me back, which im working on now

No white man can be incel in Thailand. Thats true.

 

[bigphil]

I saw this thread linked on /r/hapas, and I thought I'd register for the site and give my thoughts and ask for advice. I've been thinking about going to Bangkok for sex tourism. I'm from Australia and the standards women hold men to here are now insane. I am more blackpilled than incel, well, perhaps I am now incel seeing I no longer meet the ever rising standards these fat aussie pig women have for men down under, and that's just sex, to have a relationship with these women would be suicide.

Why Thailand? Well, I actually like some of those women and they can be really friendly, not sure if it's bullshit or if they're just that good at deception. I go and get a non-sexual Thai massage once a week to help me relax and I like the human contact and small talk some of these girls provide. No, I've never been to a hooker here and I wouldn't either, not because I can't afford it but these women charge way too much just for 1 hour and these Thai sex holidays seems you can have a, as archieluxury calls it, 'a total GFE'. Long time sounds much better than short time, and long time here in Australia would cost thousands, fuck that.

A few concerns I have about going:

Food. I've seen videos where meat is just left uncovered and unrefridgerated out in the open and being fussy about food standards, I'm unsure what to do food wise once there. The fuck do I eat without getting sick?

First time abroad. Well, I've never left Australia before, and I don't even know how you go about getting permission to enter another country. Do you just turn up or what? I read you don't need a Visa for tourist reasons, so does that just mean you book your flight and turn up as you please? I don't have a passport either, working on that though, problem is I don't have any friends so I don't have someone who can do the witness/co-sign part of the application, but I need to find someone otherwise I can't go. It's lame you need a non-family member to sign this stuff, I don't really want normie friends in the first place, don't have a job so there are no co-workers to sign for me, I really only have the dentist or my GP that I can ask to do this for me but I hate asking people to do things like this not related to the service they provide me, it's not like they are my friends or anything and I hate to impose on people, gives me anxiety just asking.

Any of you guys considered it? I'm not going there in the hope of finding love because I don't think that exists anywhere on the planet for the most part, and I sure as fuck would not bring one of them back, but if just going there to have a fun time, I think it is probably a safe bet provided one uses condoms, I'm too blackpilled to be conned into giving them financial support so no risk there either, just a GFE each day with a new woman would, at least I think, give me some happiness.