Discussion It's hard to fantasize about things you think you have a low chance of getting?

[Hoppipolla]

Yeah I just find... the lower the chance I think I have of getting something, the harder it is to fantasize about at least long-term, because you start getting hopeless about it and focusing on other things, etc.

I guess it's natural. Otherwise you'd spend your whole life fixated on things that might never happen.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

For me I do not care about poontang or relationship, I would just like to find an IRL likeminded person outside of work to hang out with, apparently that is impossible for a nigga

 

[VitaminS]

I had a dream I feel asleep during a college lecture in my crush's arms. She comforted me and it was the best rest I had ever received. In that moment, all of my problems faded away. It was the closest thing I have ever gotten to being shown affection, being truly loved.

Later in the day I saw her. I said hi, she ignored me. Then I said hi once more in case she did not hear me, I knew she did, I was only a foot away. She said oh... hi in the most unenthusiast way possible. Then I joked and said "woah.. cold haha.". She shot me this blank sort of disgusted look and turned away from me.

It is soul crushing.

 

[RollD20]

Yes I automatically avoid anything I cannot have. Makes life more livable

 

[Epedaphic]

Yes I automatically avoid anything I cannot have. Makes life more livable

Yeah it’s too painful sometimes To focus on those things

 

[mknova]

I had a dream I feel asleep during a college lecture in my crush's arms. She comforted me and it was the best rest I had ever received. In that moment, all of my problems faded away. It was the closest thing I have ever gotten to being shown affection, being truly loved.

Later in the day I saw her. I said hi, she ignored me. Then I said hi once more in case she did not hear me, I knew she did, I was only a foot away. She said oh... hi in the most unenthusiast way possible. Then I joked and said "woah.. cold haha.". She shot me this blank sort of disgusted look and turned away from me.

It is soul crushing.

holy fuck why are they all like this