I've noticed time and time again, particularly from the past couple of years, that incels are a significant issue with a known cause that you're actually not allowed to acknowledge. Talking heads have collectively spent the past 5 or 6 years breaking down every element of societal inequality, every level of everything that could contribute to racism, sexism, classism, all the biases that people can have against each other.
Yet when it comes to us, it becomes uniquely individualistic. I've started to figure that they only don't do so because it's inconvenient. In the same way that most actors in Hollywood are silent on the topic of nepotism, most people refuse to acknowledge the incel crisis because they'd have to contend with the fact that they directly benefit from the behaviors that put us where we are. Just Shower Bro/Just Be Yourself are memes, but they're based in the utter reality that they can't possibly imagine a life where you simply didn't "get it" before it was actually too late.
And I speak from experience. I'm new to this forum, I'm 22 years old. Working a part time job, still live at home, into a bunch of nerd shit. One could say that it was over before it started, but I find that I was always extremely conscious of my surroundings as I descended further. You don't wanna let it itch at you, but you see happy couples in public, and it makes you wince. Even with the group I've found on Discord, there's always some underlying current of bluepill shit we have to collectively agree on so we know we're The Good Guys, and I don't know how long people can go with that cope.
And even offline, this shit's brutal. I've seen manlets at my job leech off women carefree, getting PS5s and Coach bags from pump-and-dump fucks they've got on speed dial. I got a sister three years older than me who's got a Rolodex of simps whom she just keeps happy, going out on dates every week just because she can. I got a mom who tells me that I'd oughtta just get used to rejection unless I wanna be lonely. And it's like, fuck all that. My first and only date was like 10 months ago, and the bitch texted me the next day saying that she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. And this was after about a month of talking. The way they can just TEASE you and just get let off the hook, like it never happened, and that's normal? In retrospect, it's kind of on me for gassing up what was ultimately a mid art hoe, but it kinda is what it is at this point. Even then, it's some actual nightmare shit to know that just because of a few misaligned genes or missed social cues, you can be so permanently fucked up and there's no one coming to help. And if they are, you're split between PMC women screeching at you about your privilege or retarded gymbros who spend every waking minute trying to dope you up on supplements and woman math and PUA shit.
How the fuck are we supposed to find success in this world? I think what cuts to my core is that everyone knows what it is, but it's taboo to acknowledge so many of these truths. I feel like I was gonna drive myself insane subscribing to so much of the bluepill shit I wanted to hang onto. And it's almost liberating in a way, realizing that being The Good Guy isn't gonna do shit but make women think you're even weaker, because that's not what they want. Every man I've met who spews that shit at me is two rejections or a breakup away from turning into Arthur Fleck, and every woman whose told me that is just trying to spare your feelings, because that's what they're taught to do .
But at least I got people who understand what this shit is all about now.
Yet when it comes to us, it becomes uniquely individualistic. I've started to figure that they only don't do so because it's inconvenient. In the same way that most actors in Hollywood are silent on the topic of nepotism, most people refuse to acknowledge the incel crisis because they'd have to contend with the fact that they directly benefit from the behaviors that put us where we are. Just Shower Bro/Just Be Yourself are memes, but they're based in the utter reality that they can't possibly imagine a life where you simply didn't "get it" before it was actually too late.
And I speak from experience. I'm new to this forum, I'm 22 years old. Working a part time job, still live at home, into a bunch of nerd shit. One could say that it was over before it started, but I find that I was always extremely conscious of my surroundings as I descended further. You don't wanna let it itch at you, but you see happy couples in public, and it makes you wince. Even with the group I've found on Discord, there's always some underlying current of bluepill shit we have to collectively agree on so we know we're The Good Guys, and I don't know how long people can go with that cope.
And even offline, this shit's brutal. I've seen manlets at my job leech off women carefree, getting PS5s and Coach bags from pump-and-dump fucks they've got on speed dial. I got a sister three years older than me who's got a Rolodex of simps whom she just keeps happy, going out on dates every week just because she can. I got a mom who tells me that I'd oughtta just get used to rejection unless I wanna be lonely. And it's like, fuck all that. My first and only date was like 10 months ago, and the bitch texted me the next day saying that she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. And this was after about a month of talking. The way they can just TEASE you and just get let off the hook, like it never happened, and that's normal? In retrospect, it's kind of on me for gassing up what was ultimately a mid art hoe, but it kinda is what it is at this point. Even then, it's some actual nightmare shit to know that just because of a few misaligned genes or missed social cues, you can be so permanently fucked up and there's no one coming to help. And if they are, you're split between PMC women screeching at you about your privilege or retarded gymbros who spend every waking minute trying to dope you up on supplements and woman math and PUA shit.
How the fuck are we supposed to find success in this world? I think what cuts to my core is that everyone knows what it is, but it's taboo to acknowledge so many of these truths. I feel like I was gonna drive myself insane subscribing to so much of the bluepill shit I wanted to hang onto. And it's almost liberating in a way, realizing that being The Good Guy isn't gonna do shit but make women think you're even weaker, because that's not what they want. Every man I've met who spews that shit at me is two rejections or a breakup away from turning into Arthur Fleck, and every woman whose told me that is just trying to spare your feelings, because that's what they're taught to do .
But at least I got people who understand what this shit is all about now.
