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Blackpill It' time to come to terms with fact that your life will not get drastically better

RopeMaXXer

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I don't think anyone here is hoping for some miracle, or deluding themselves into thinking something like that will happen.
However many are mostly blocking out the part of brain that thinks 5 years into future.
As for me, at 24 years old my trajectory is firmly in place. It will be slow burning misery with couple of faint hopes that get crushed immediately. The signs were all there in retrospect. I find it more unbelievable how I thought it might end up as anything other than what I am now. It just makes so much sense.
I wonder if blue pilled simps ever get this nagging feeling or feel like things make no sense. Not for me.
 
Life gets worse for 99.999% of men as they age

It's called getting older
 
It's indeed over for many here.
 
You're all in for an anti-treat when you pass 30.
 
You're absolutely right. I'm 38 now and can say that nothing gets any better as you age. If you get a career going, life gets a little more comfortable, but nothing changes in terms with your inceldom and lack of social life. Those only get worse. At least that's been my experience.
 
You're absolutely right. I'm 38 now and can say that nothing gets any better as you age. If you get a career going, life gets a little more comfortable, but nothing changes in terms with your inceldom and lack of social life. Those only get worse. At least that's been my experience.
I keep constantly falling victim to my natural tendencies. And it's not about self improvement. It's just way I feel compelled to act that fucks me up. Not even talking about inceldom here. I just keep repeating the same patterns and results keep being the same.
 
As for me, at 24 years old my trajectory is firmly in place. It will be slow burning misery with couple of faint hopes that get crushed immediately. The signs were all there in retrospect.
It's funny how normies try to gaslight you. You do what they tell you in god faith and you still fail. The only thing they can come up with then is "EH you don't really want it!11!!"

I mean there was the chance for something to change for me as I have a good genetic basis for surgery etc, but magically getting healed from mental problems clearly was off my hands. It's like normies are somehow dense or intellectually handicapped idk. It's not that hard to extrapolate the future based on diagnosis and rl observation.

WDYM with the last sentence? You mean feeling like they should have succeeded?
 
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It's funny how normies try to gaslight you. You do what they tell you and you fail. The only thing they can come up with then is "EH you don't really want it!11!!"

I mean there was the chance for something to change, but it wasn't clearly in my own hands. It's like normies are somehow dense or intellectually handicapped idk.
There's probably some over motivated cuck reading these posts and thinking I am defeatist. It's much more complicated and nuanced than that. I am aware of what I am, I wouldn't call it being content, but I just take it as matter of fact.
Having to constantly fight what you are is just exhausting.
 
I keep constantly falling victim to my natural tendencies. And it's not about self improvement. It's just way I feel compelled to act that fucks me up. Not even talking about inceldom here. I just keep repeating the same patterns and results keep being the same.

You can't change who you are. I still hear shit like, "you just need to get some confidence in yourself" People don't understand that my natural tendencies are to be socially awkward, nervous, and to avoid people because of it. It's kinda what you're saying, I act the same way time after time again and again and can't change it. It's not a conscious decision on my part to be how I am, it's just who I am. I wish I could change and act and be different, but it's not a choice.
 
You can't change who you are. I still hear shit like, "you just need to get some confidence in yourself" People don't understand that my natural tendencies are to be socially awkward, nervous, and to avoid people because of it. It's kinda what you're saying, I act the same way time after time again and again and can't change it. It's not a conscious decision on my part to be how I am, it's just who I am. I wish I could change and act and be different, but it's not a choice.
You can force it, you can pretend and you can make it into a habit that you're able to keep up with.
But it's effort, stress and exhausting.
And what good is it anyway
 
You can force it, you can pretend and you can make it into a habit that you're able to keep up with.
But it's effort, stress and exhausting.
And what good is it anyway

If you have to force it and the habit doesn't become natural and truly the new you there is no point. If some people here can fake it till they make it I say good for them and I'd be happy for them. But for me, I've never been able to do it. I've never been able to beat myself so to speak.
 
Yup and that’s why these a good chance i will die in the 2020s
 
You can't change who you are. I still hear shit like, "you just need to get some confidence in yourself" People don't understand that my natural tendencies are to be socially awkward, nervous, and to avoid people because of it. It's kinda what you're saying, I act the same way time after time again and again and can't change it. It's not a conscious decision on my part to be how I am, it's just who I am. I wish I could change and act and be different, but it's not a choice.
Meanwhile women and physically more attractive men don't have to change a damn thing about themselves. This world is forever a joke.
 
It doesn't get any better than this!
it gets worse
much worse
very slowly

 
this thread is too brutal :cryfeels:
 
It's too late for me to suyrgerymaxx before it's too late, and I'll never be able to afford it anyway.

Fuck living to 30 like this though, trying to live with an ugly face while knowing you'll never get surgery is the lowest IQ shit ever.

Anyone who who needs a lot of surgery to look human but is over 25 and too poor to afford it... You know what to do... Every time you look in the mirror, that decision gets a little easier to make...

When you finally make that decision, you'll be glad you did.

It's better to be free than be bound to an ugly face and a worthless life.
 
I have already passed my prime.And it wasn't even good
 
ill probably die before im 30.
i cant live like this for the rest of my life.
 
Meanwhile women and physically more attractive men don't have to change a damn thing about themselves. This world is forever a joke.
This. They just say this to low status ugly men to keep them running in circles instead of finding out the truth and going ER
 
just sorted of accepted my fate , ldar when im not working and enjoying my copes
 
Will not get better*
 
Some people are dealt shit cards from birth and never recover. That's life.
 
my life,cuteness, and overall intelligence peaked at around 7 or 8, from then its all downhill,
remembered the days when I can finish a 400/600 page novel in my mother's tongue (high school/college level) per day starting at age 5 ,
now I can barely understand half of what is written on this site, granted my English became my dominant language at age 15 or so.
 
Nah I'm ascending next year. Work on leaving the west instead of accepting a life of shit
 
all I see for my future is suicide or going insane and if I was being honest I am not sure if I could call my self sane now as I think I might be losing it, the depression is getting worse and all I do is sit around fantasizing about revenge or having disturbing daydreams and the sense of overwhelming failure is just so damn strong. sometimes I wish you could buy a gun in aus so I could just blow my fucking brains out.
 
yup, I'll be a loner forever,
 
The only people who have truly accepted that it won't get better have roped
 
We were born as slaves
 
I was OPs age 20 years ago, you feel lonelier, even more socially isolated and like a 98 year old in a hospice waiting to die in my case.

I wish my sex drive would vanish though, still wanting foids and not being able to resist fapping like some horny teen is depressing af.
 
I was OPs age 20 years ago, you feel lonelier, even more socially isolated and like a 98 year old in a hospice waiting to die in my case.

I wish my sex drive would vanish though, still wanting foids and not being able to resist fapping like some horny teen is depressing af.
Jesus christ, 1st paragraph is brutal suifuel, is it impossible to make friends at this age? Are you always a loner or did your friends fade away as you age?

Maybe if you joined a hobby community? Im sure theres a lot of lonely divorced oldcels with a lot of time on their hands.

Shit thought sex drive would be halved at least on my 40s...
But surely you got more money to scort now?
 
Jesus christ, 1st paragraph is brutal suifuel, is it impossible to make friends at this age? Are you always a loner or did your friends fade away as you age?

Maybe if you joined a hobby community? Im sure theres a lot of lonely divorced oldcels with a lot of time on their hands.

Shit thought sex drive would be halved at least on my 40s...
But surely you got more money to scort now?

I tried making new friends, but it's hard and it seems people need more of a reason to bother with you, eg. can you help them get a better job or promotion? Are you part of a social circle with a woman they're interested in? If not then why bother making a useless loser friend like me?

I had a couple of old school friends but they drifted away at the end of my 20s. I tried joining groups but I was treated with suspicion, like they had girlfriends and wives or had in the past at least with kids and decent jobs and own places, while I was basically a blank slate.

I only get minimum wage, I could get an escort I guess but don't want to and its easier to fap to take care of the daily urges.
 
it is truly over for many men
 
I've come to accept that I'm now a consumer npc and I'll cope with soy and beta shit untilI I rope. I am what I am.
 
My life ended when my sperm fused with my egg. Its been getting worse ever since.
 
good for you, whitecel
what race are you? if you havent tried asian dating apps / spoofing location on tinder to asia, then volcel.
 
I don't think anyone here is hoping for some miracle, or deluding themselves into thinking something like that will happen.
However many are mostly blocking out the part of brain that thinks 5 years into future.
As for me, at 24 years old my trajectory is firmly in place. It will be slow burning misery with couple of faint hopes that get crushed immediately. The signs were all there in retrospect. I find it more unbelievable how I thought it might end up as anything other than what I am now. It just makes so much sense.
I wonder if blue pilled simps ever get this nagging feeling or feel like things make no sense. Not for me.

Fuck living a life like this I will never come to terms with it.

I can come to terms with existence and try to find reason and deeper meaning to it but I will never come to terms with this shit world and society ANYBODY WHO ACCEPTS THIS SOCIETY AND COMES TO TERMS WITH THIS IS CUCKED BEYOND BELIEVE. How can you come to terms and accept being treated like trash for reasons beyond your control? Fuck that. No way.
Nah I'm ascending next year. Work on leaving the west instead of accepting a life of shit

Yeah man I wanna live in SEA. I even starting to learn mandarin or some shit but I already broke my routine because I'm fucking useless so I have to pick that shit up again FUCK WHY CAN'T I FUCKING EVER COMMIT TO SOMETHING FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK
 
My life has been absolutely tortorous for the past 5 years. It will continue to be so unless i do something about it. Ascention or death. It must be.
 

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