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But not acted on it because of extremely high innhib etc

Does it mean that it can happen again, even if you are 30+ and it happened in your 20s and before?

Also take into consideration that the person in question is a neet with no career. So nothing to offer, and no experience.

But probably it’s over, isn’t it.
 
Yes

if it happened once it can happen again
 
Take the agepill
 
If you don't have women overtly making it clear to you, approaching you. It's over for you
 
Every day that goes by you get uglier and uglier by definition (no makeup) etc
 
no, its over

1. You might have misinterpreted it as interest when it wasn't
2. Aging is not kind
 
If you don't have women overtly making it clear to you, approaching you. It's over for you

There was one 7 years ago, in fact more than one, when I went to a school to better my grades. I was still in my 20s. The problem was that, the one example was not a class where I would see her constantly, but a single day where we had some lab stuff and never saw each other again. She didn’t ask me out of course, but it was very clear.

The other one was friends with my sister, I’m 100% positive she was attracted. Another was in class, at first it seemed ok but my extreme ND shined through and it was over. But this one could have been also nothing serious. The other 2 tho, I’m sure.

And some examples from HS. But between HS and the 7 years ago, I LDARed. And then also LDARed since those 7 years. No motivation.

But like said, I’m in my 30s now.

Other posters agree that it’s over.
 
Would this be included: reciving a message for roleplay, but the woman is already married, and I never posted my face.
 
There was one 7 years ago, in fact more than one, when I went to a school to better my grades. I was still in my 20s. The problem was that, the one example was not a class where I would see her constantly, but a single day where we had some lab stuff and never saw each other again. She didn’t ask me out of course, but it was very clear.

The other one was friends with my sister, I’m 100% positive she was attracted. Another was in class, at first it seemed ok but my extreme ND shined through and it was over. But this one could have been also nothing serious. The other 2 tho, I’m sure.

And some examples from HS. But between HS and the 7 years ago, I LDARed. And then also LDARed since those 7 years. No motivation.
what makes you think they liked you? what were the signals exactly?

there's many forum posts here where users are just brainrotted by loneliness into thinking that a woman being nice to them means anything

if they really did i think you might still have a chance, men certainly don't age like wine but its still not too bad if you're in your early 30s
 
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what makes you think they liked you? what were the signals exactly?

there's many forum posts here where users are just brainrotted by loneliness into thinking that a woman being nice to them means anything

I know the difference between that and being nice, I’m not that delusional. I know someone smiling and saying hi don’t mean they like you.

I have also experienced a girl hating me for no reason, and was bullied at hs, so what do I know. Maybe it is as you say.
 
There was one 7 years ago, in fact more than one, when I went to a school to better my grades. I was still in my 20s. The problem was that, the one example was not a class where I would see her constantly, but a single day where we had some lab stuff and never saw each other again. She didn’t ask me out of course, but it was very clear.

The other one was friends with my sister, I’m 100% positive she was attracted. Another was in class, at first it seemed ok but my extreme ND shined through and it was over. But this one could have been also nothing serious. The other 2 tho, I’m sure.

And some examples from HS. But between HS and the 7 years ago, I LDARed. And then also LDARed since those 7 years. No motivation.

But like said, I’m in my 30s now.

Other posters agree that it’s over.
The things you are describing are absolute cope by your brain to keep you from roping, if that's what you're considering, i myself got asked out one time in 7 or 8th grade, and once in 12th by two different girls. These are just copes. It were not actually true genuine attraction. When a women is feeling you, she will let you know. And when one women finds you attractive, others should too and if that's not the case for you, you don't get approached every now and then, then it's a clear sign, it never began
 
The things you are describing are absolute cope by your brain to keep you from roping, if that's what you're considering, i myself got asked out one time in 7 or 8th grade, and once in 12th by two different girls. These are just copes. It were not actually true genuine attraction. When a women is feeling you, she will let you know. And when one women finds you attractive, others should too and if that's not the case for you, you don't get approached every now and then, then it's a clear sign, it never began

Probably. Tho such thoughts just makes me more depressed, not really coping with it.
 
The things you are describing are absolute cope by your brain to keep you from roping, if that's what you're considering, i myself got asked out one time in 7 or 8th grade, and once in 12th by two different girls. These are just copes.
Interesting. Is this a cultural thing?
I had an impression at some point that zoomers and alphas sometimes go on play dates that mean nothing.
Too many times I've seen at the mall food court what looked like the class loser and the class stacy sitting in a booth together, alone but with no real chemistry.
 
Interesting. Is this a cultural thing?
I had an impression at some point that zoomers and alphas sometimes go on play dates that mean nothing.
Too many times I've seen at the mall food court what looked like the class loser and the class stacy sitting in a booth together, alone but with no real chemistry.
The thing is, women sometimes for no reason, to make fun of someone, would ask our as a joke. You're a fool you think it's legit while your interaction with other women say otherwise
 

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