I'm just pointing out that they take it for granted. There's a song (some retarded pop song) where the lyrics are, "tonight I'm fucking you" - some foid at an after-work party made a comment about how she was gonna pick a guy to fuck, just like the song. That's literally what she said, that it was like the song.
That's the world they live in. They take it for granted and think nothing of scanning a room and just deciding, "that's the dude I'm having sex with tonight."
It's like how you might be in a mall food court and look around and decide, "I'm gonna get lunch at the panda express" - you can say "food is important to me" but that statement isn't properly expressing your relationship to food. A person who is starving in some famine-ravaged country would watch in awe as you just casually decide, "I'm getting panda express."
If you want to have a conversation about sex being, or not being, submissive, you have to take into account women's relationship to the act of sex. And the truth is, they take it for granted.
I'm sure they *also* like acting submissive. I'm sure they enjoy getting choked out and pissed on by chad. But that's them playing a role. The act of sex itself is, for them, no big deal.