Is self hatred bluepilled

[Pikacel]

It’s mostly genetics and upbringing anyway

Also has just world fallacy vibes where you blame yourself for not trying le hard enough. I’m guilty of this tbh

 

[amiannoying]

I hate everything

 

[pure]

Yes, why would you blame yourself for the world being unfair

 

[She Does Not Exist]

I’m guilty of this tbh

Why? you had ANY saying on women not wanting you?

You should hate yourself if you CAN change things, if you have control over the situation.

Don't mistake frustration with hate.

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Depends on if you blame yourself for your situation or if you just dislike what you are

 

[goyim next door]

Only for things out of your control I guess.

 

[Pikacel]

Why? you had ANY saying on women not wanting you?

You should hate yourself if you CAN change things, if you have control over the situation.

Don't mistake frustration with hate.

Not because of muh wamen but my life in general

I take too much disrespect, lack balls + lazy as shit

 

[goyim next door]

Not because of muh wamen but my life in general

I take too much disrespect, lack balls + lazy as shit

I mean, maybe a hot take, but changing your tolerance and hardening yourself is miles more harder than people think.Simply because lacking balls and taking disrespect is something which was drilled in your head from childhood, making it hard to overcome and finally grow the spine. It's like someone who got traumatized from early age and developed weirdly.

 

[Pikacel]

I mean, maybe a hot take, but changing your tolerance and hardening yourself is miles more harder than people think.Simply because lacking balls and taking disrespect is something which was drilled in your head from childhood, making it hard to overcome and finally grow the spine. It's like someone who got traumatized from early age and developed weirdly.

It’s something you need to fix at a young age or ur fucked

 

[She Does Not Exist]

Not because of muh wamen but my life in general

I take too much disrespect, lack balls + lazy as shit

Then stand up, don't anything stupid like yell but counter their opnions, stand firm on what you believe, you will still be mocked but they know they won't change your opnion by bullying / disrespect.

As for lazy as shit it is common, our motivation is tied to how much we achieved in life, if we didn't achieve anything it drops.

I won't call you bluepilled for giving up on not taking care of yourself, is the natural fate of the Incel.

 

[nihilum]

I hate my life.

 

[goyim next door]

It’s something you need to fix at a young age or ur fucked

Yeah once it's set in stone, it's usually over, unless in some cases. Also having backbone and fighting is also somewhat genetic alongside taught. Sub-5 men often get born to meek, weak parents which studied their whole lives, never fighting back.

 

[SewerGoat]

There are things i do not like about me. These are all things in my control though, like my drinking problem. More or less.

No point in hating something outside your control. It happens often with ethnics. Sad, but happens through the impact of other people. Nobody wakes up in the morning and decides, i am gonna hate myself for being an ethnic.

 

[She Does Not Exist]

I mean, maybe a hot take, but changing your tolerance and hardening yourself is miles more harder than people think.Simply because lacking balls and taking disrespect is something which was drilled in your head from childhood, making it hard to overcome and finally grow the spine. It's like someone who got traumatized from early age and developed weirdly.

Only age can fix that, I went from sad to numb over the years, there is a reason forums like these are filled with 20 year olds.

Is the age we are in need of affection if we failed in our teens, and there is also a reason not many wizards post, because most 20 year olds end finding someone thus leaving the forum, either that or roping due to hidden suicide statistics.

 

[parbate2025]

It’s mostly genetics and upbringing anyway

Also has just world fallacy vibes where you blame yourself for not trying le hard enough. I’m guilty of this tbh

Yes because most of your health or behavioral issues are genetical.
So there was no chance that you would have turned out to be better than your current self