I am just gonna be brutally honest here..... It's guys like you that really piss me the fuck off and give all of us a bad name.
I have done everything right in life. I came from a dirt poor family and, with no help from them, government, affermative action, ect. I obtained a college education in a worthwhile field and made something of myself, all while keeping physically fit, taking care of a sick parent, and helping the community. But, unless you are playing captain save a hoe for a slut with 3 kids from 3 men, or betabuxxing for a golddigger, looks are 95% of what femoids care about today, so all my achievements meant shit when it came to getting the one thing I truely wanted:. A family of my own.
Then we have assholes like you. You make excuses about muh anxiety and muh personaliteh like a whiny, spoilt femoid or a IT interloper. You obviously haven't made much effort in life if you are 28 and can't even start an apprenticeship installing elevators, welding, plumbing, as an electrician, or any other number of decent paying vocations that are understaffed and don't require a college degree. And you won't even own up to it and accept the blame, despite the fact that you know these are things you could fix yourself. Yet, as shitty of a person as you sound like you are, you can still use dating sites like Tinder, get matches that aren't bots or literal prostitutes, and whine that they aren't good enough for your lazy ass. You have all you need to get laid now, and with a modicum of effort you could get your own place and get. Laid 10X easier. But no, let's join an incel group, pretend our average/above average looks are to blame, and shitpost so that we can further fuel the hate groups like IT and the feminist media at large.
Assholes like you get no sympathy from me. You sound like you would be a better fit at IT, so go cry to them about how your personality and laziness keep you from slaying. We dont want to hear it.