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Is it actually possible or realistic for incels alcoholics to become sober?

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If you look at most recovered alcoholics they usually have a place in the community and a partner even, and a supportive social network, as an incel you have none of these things, and alcohol and even drugs are the only thing that give you a respite from the constant agonizing about how lonely, autistic and ugly you are and how much people instinctively just hate you on sight because of your differences, is it actually genuinely possible for people like that to be successfully sober? and by successfully sober I mean sober and at peace, not sober and constantly tormented by the thoughts with nothing to shut them down, just clawing your way through the day daily existence
 
It is extremely difficult to give up the bottle when it is the only thing keeping you company
 
No
Reason why I don't use drugs or alcohol to cope
 
i never want to be sober
 
No, just reduced dozing
 
No, just reduced dozing
Everyone says moderation is impossible tho, I can somewhat get behind it cuz I'm not satisfied until I can't see straight
 
Everyone says moderation is impossible tho, I can somewhat get behind it cuz I'm not satisfied until I can't see straight
I went from heavy liquor to heavy liquor 3/4 of previous dosage and I drink later at night for sleeping
 
Alcohol sucks, its not even enjoyable
 
Drinking makes me feel better and when I have time to kill at night it's the only thing giving me relief. Plus I am fucking lazy. I can't imagine going my whole life with NO relief whatsoever just so I can live a few more years in my 60s or 70s.
 
Inkwells have nothing to live for so it's much harder to get sober rather than numbing oneself with alcohol
 
The short answer is no.
 
I can usually stave off alcohol for about a week. I'm not sure, since i usually drink a beer or have some wine every day or two. I just can't muster up the willpower to stop honestly my copious amount of drinking paired with my inability to find a job is sorta the reason why I'm not on here as much. Also drinking alcohol makes me feel like a king.
 
Alcohol is boring to me now it doesn't do it for me anymore
 
Yes it’s very possible but only if you are genuinely dedicated to becoming sober and find something that is worth living for. And that doesn’t have to be a glorious purpose but could be something as simple as a pet.
 
It is if you don’t make your happiness dependent on finding a foid.
just don't make your happiness dependent of finding a foid
or a job
or getting material things
or interacting with people
or getting a career
or food
or money
or a house
bro is that easy, you can be happy without 99% of what this world has
 
It is if you don’t make your happiness dependent on finding a foid.
Just find something worth living bro it doesn't matter that you can't get anything bro
 
just don't make your happiness dependent of finding a foid
or a job
or getting material things
or interacting with people
or getting a career
or food
or money
or a house
bro is that easy, you can be happy without 99% of what this world has
Well statistically there is indeed a correlation between being better looking/taller and excelling at these things. But it is very possible and actually quite easy to get the mentioned things even as a sub 5. No one stops you from going to college, starting a business or getting a job. Depending on how disaffected you are when it comes to looks some social situations will be harder for you than for others but what people like you do is sink into total self pity. You might have made a couple bad experiences and now your brain filters out every positive one and makes it look like the world is against you constantly all the time.

Dating is actually hard when you’re bad looking. But I’ve had more sub 5 bosses in my life than chads or htn’s.
 
Well statistically there is indeed a correlation between being better looking/taller and excelling at these things. But it is very possible and actually quite easy to get the mentioned things even as a sub 5. No one stops you from going to college, starting a business or getting a job. Depending on how disaffected you are when it comes to looks some social situations will be harder for you than for others but what people like you do is sink into total self pity. You might have made a couple bad experiences and now your brain filters out every positive one and makes it look like the world is against you constantly all the time.

Dating is actually hard when you’re bad looking. But I’ve had more sub 5 bosses in my life than chads or htn’s.
ban this bluepilled infiltrator
 
ban this bluepilled infiltrator
I’m not an infiltrator. I am a short baldcel and it’s brutal. As I said dating is actually very hard if you’re ugly but it’s just not true that you can’t work a job or find any kind of fulfillment as a sub5.
 
Being completely sober is honestly neurotic in a World like this . You die anyways , who cares just dont be to retarded about it :feelsclown: @VersoffenerAssi @TheGrayWolf @TooSomething
 
It is extremely difficult to give up the bottle when it is the only thing keeping you company
Legit, I'm experiencing the bottle right now
 
Being completely sober is honestly neurotic in a World like this . You die anyways , who cares just dont be to retarded about it :feelsclown: @VersoffenerAssi @TheGrayWolf @TooSomething
I just smoked some good weed, so.
 
mogs me for getting weed . to you have aquaintances ? or are you able to buy it in your location ?
maybe it’s legal in his country/state. even if it’s illegal, u should be able to deliver it to ur apartment (but i’m not sure how safe it is). or just buy the seeds and grow it urself for a few months bro
 
maybe it’s legal in his country/state. even if it’s illegal, u should be able to deliver it to ur apartment (but i’m not sure how safe it is). or just buy the seeds and grow it urself for a few months bro
Im in the same country as his , but yea just curious
 
q
mogs me for getting weed . to you have aquaintances ? or are you able to buy it in your location ?
Can't say, but it was very good, organic weed.
 
Being completely sober is honestly neurotic in a World like this . You die anyways , who cares just dont be to retarded about it :feelsclown: @VersoffenerAssi @TheGrayWolf @TooSomething
The thing is, if you drink for years, you not only deteriorate physically, but alcohol also stops giving you as much as it used to.
The high doesn't make you as euphoric as it used to.
I feel awful more often than I feel good. It used to be different when I was drunk back then. The withdrawal symptoms are also awful.
 
eat mushrooms and weeds
 

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