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Serious Is College worse than High School?

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I can't speak for Americans, but in Europe you better have peaked in high school, because in College it gets worse. I witnessed the slow incelization of my neighbor, who was no Chad, but was nonetheless a nt party beast during our high school years and managed to have several girlfriends, and once, when we were out, I witnessed him being cold approached.

Fast forward: the last time I saw him romantically involved with a girl was exactly 5 years ago, coincidentally 5 years ago he enrolled in college.
 
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Everywhere is hell if you're an incel.
Especially in STEM fields though, you can't make friends there and there's virtually 0 women as well.
 
When foids are in school, they are new to dating and hypergamy as it's their first time but by the time they finish the school, they become proficient and well versed on them and then whatever they learned in school they apply all that in college As a result, dating become tougher in college.
 
its definitely harder to make friends in uni as youre just one of 40,000 students. at least in high school youre forced to socialize a bit
 
ReallyRice said:
Everywhere is hell if you're an incel.
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Except your house.
Last place of refuge for an inkell.
Monk of Failure said:
When foids are in school, they are new to dating and hypergamy as it's their first time but by the time they finish the school, they become proficient and well versed on them and then whatever they learned in school they apply all that in college As a result, dating become tougher in college.
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Teehee where is chad ?
> Seeks intensely.
 
In the USA, 100% yes!
In Europe Uni is no fun at all and just school, we don't have that hedonistic college culture her, so no.
 
If you are doing a good college course then you aren't a truecel as you have financial prospects in the future unlike truecel NEETS and wagecucks like me.

It has to be a good college course though as a lot of courses don't have good prospects either.
 
university is shit
 
CelticTruecel said:
If you are doing a good college course then you aren't a truecel as you have financial prospects in the future unlike truecel NEETS and wagecucks like me.

It has to be a good college course though as a lot of courses don't have good prospects either.
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It is all a lie to get you to go get indoctrinated.. all the jobs are taken and people with specialisations are more numerous nowadays than 50 years ago. A specialisation ceases to be special when every other cunt looking for a job has one.
 
CelticTruecel said:
If you are doing a good college course then you aren't a truecel as you have financial prospects in the future unlike truecel NEETS and wagecucks like me.

It has to be a good college course though as a lot of courses don't have good prospects either.
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%100 agree. If I was high IQ enough to get a good degree in college i wouldn't be here. I'm poor and I have to wagecuck till death. Plus I have deformed face and health problems. Life sucks.
 
Monk of Failure said:
When foids are in school, they are new to dating and hypergamy as it's their first time but by the time they finish the school, they become proficient and well versed on them and then whatever they learned in school they apply all that in college As a result, dating become tougher in college.
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In high school I've seen more looksmatched couples than anywhere else. In college there is only Chad-Stacie couplings, angry girls who won't settle for anything less than a Prince, and a sea of single men..
 
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CelticTruecel said:
If you are doing a good college course then you aren't a truecel as you have financial prospects in the future unlike truecel NEETS and wagecucks like me.

It has to be a good college course though as a lot of courses don't have good prospects either.
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muharremabi said:
%100 agree. If I was high IQ enough to get a good degree in college i wouldn't be here. I'm poor and I have to wagecuck till death. Plus I have deformed face and health problems. Life sucks.
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Holy fucking COPE.
For some guys it's over no matter what they do. And it's weird that you don't get this, when one of you has truecel in the nickname and the other has a deformity.
 
Rassimov said:
In high school I've seen more looksmatched couples than anywhere else. In college there us only Chad-Stacie couplings, angry girls who won't settle for anything less than a Prince, and a sea of single men..
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That's what I meant here. In school, they are new to dating and hypergamy, so they don't chase chad much since they aren't that much aware and go for looksmatch but when completed school, they had learned dating and hypergamy well and apply all that in college. As a result, you see less looksmatch in college.
 
After a certain age people expect men to be physically developed in an appropriate way.

In highschool when you're 16 or so you can go for less physically developed foids who dont care that you're a little bit behind. People don lt really care if you're having a twinkish stature as long as you're not ugly

But if you're college age and puberty barely touched you bone wise it is over
Atavistic Autist said:
Normalfags say "College is better than high school, high school is better than middle school, etc."

It's the exact opposite if you're an incel. Run away from what they say is good.
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College in the west is 1000% worse than highschool. Ppl in highschool left me alone but were decent when we had to interact like on projects, and they didn't go out of their way to be mean. I had 'friends' for a year BC a group needed a pity case. In uni one of my dorm mates also took me on as a pity case the first year but quickly dropped me when he found a group and established himself as a caring good guy by using me as prop. I was ignored whenever we went anywhere together, even by fellow men. I only ever saw 1 person who I mogged in my classes, and he was a curry but with a good friend group. All my dorm mates and classmates ignored me, never met my eyes and move far away from me when we were passing each other. I tried small talking multiple times but was either totally ignored or they would go quiet and give me a weird look. In projects I was talked down to, my ideas stolen, and made to do the dirty work. TAs treated me like a stupid kid whenever I needed their help. Id go weeks without saying anything but debit to the cashier. But yes... Just study inkwell. I dropped out.
 
ThisLifeKillsMe said:
After a certain age people expect men to be physically developed in an appropriate way.

In highschool when you're 16 or so you can go for less physically developed foids who dont care that you're a little bit behind. People don lt really care if you're having a twinkish stature as long as you're not ugly

But if you're college age and puberty barely touched you bone wise it is over
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Absolutely brutal. I did notice female infatuation with him started to wane as he hit his 20s. Before that he was the crush of girls between 12-16. JFL, he's not even balding. BUT, he looks like a twink.
 
Attend christard college to avoid SJW wingnuts.
 
tulasdanslos said:
Holy fucking COPE.
For some guys it's over no matter what they do. And it's weird that you don't get this, when one of you has truecel in the nickname and the other has a deformity.
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I have a fixable deformity. If I was rich, I would try surgery after I correct my deformity and at least have a normal face. That's impossible when you're broke. I wouldn't be incel if I had a normal face because I'm a realistic guy. I don't believe stupid theories like sub8 or height. Richcels are fakecels.
 
muharremabi said:
I have a fixable deformity. If I was rich, I would try surgery after I correct my deformity and at least have a normal face. That's impossible when you're broke. I wouldn't be incel if I had a normal face because I'm a realistic guy. I don't believe stupid theories like sub8 or height. Richcels are fakecels.
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Its sub 5 buddy boyo. Its the ultimate cutoff. I don't know which deformity you have but if you cant at least look average facially youre doomed
 
Never went because i didn't want to find out. High school was bad enough i was getting beat up by retarded kids, and Black kids would just assault me for no reason at all out of nowhere.
 
ReallyRice said:
Everywhere is hell if you're an incel.
Especially in STEM fields though, you can't make friends there and there's virtually 0 women as well.
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I know it's over for incels, but I've seen guys who did relatively well with girls in hs to become sexless loners in college. Which is frustrating.
 
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there is a reason at my high school alot of kids who graduated would still come back after they did to """""""""hang out""""""""" with their friends there while they themselves are in uni. theres a reason these """""""""chads"""""""""" from high school still go to high school parties instead of uni. because in high school theyre a somebody, while in uni they are an absolute nobody that doesnt really stand out. yes, it gets much harder in uni. however, if you were the cope type of person then its better in the sense you get a bit more freedom.

id say if you are one of the rare late bloomer cases, if you gymcel you could definitely have a better time in uni than you did hs though.
 
Monk of Failure said:
When foids are in school, they are new to dating and hypergamy as it's their first time but by the time they finish the school, they become proficient and well versed on them and then whatever they learned in school they apply all that in college As a result, dating become tougher in college.
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True
 
Modern females seem to change their attitude toward dating between highschool and college. In highschool they find a guy they like & have chemistry with(aka the normal way).

Then in college they turn into like some herd animal with dominant Chads who have harems. And most women not willing to settle for normal men.

There is something about these cities & places with tens of thousands of people in general like a college that just alters the normal mating pattern. Basically a transition from pair bonding to the herd animal dynamic.
 
It's way worse.
 
college in america is pretty that bad, with the new feminist movement allot of people are coming with that gay shit and trans shit and we have to cope around there " pronouns" and address them by there nouns or we can face being kicked out or harassed by there friends
 
No, but will be lonelier and more boring, at least in my experience. Prepare to be lonely.
 
Rassimov said:
I can't speak for Americans, but in Europe you better have peaked in high school, because in College it gets worse. I witnessed the slow incelization of my neighbor, who was no Chad, but was nonetheless a nt party beast during our high school years and managed to have several girlfriends, and once, when we were out, I witnessed him being cold approached.

Fast forward: the last time I saw him romantically involved with a girl was exactly 5 years ago, coincidentally 5 years ago he enrolled in college.
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In Highschool nobody tries as hard so the competition is way more intense in college. If you were a studyCel in Highschool, you have 2 choices: give up all of your free time or watch your grades plummet as Chad and Stacie dominate. Also, the social isolation is far worse since you do most of your work outside of class. The main consolations for me were more freedom and access to pot/alcohol at 21.

I agree that it is harder for incels to ascend in college. For many of us, the gap widens as other young adults get houses, jobs and travel the world. Social isolation and discouragement lead to more ostracism which causes a vicious cycle, making us play catchup.
 
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ReallyRice said:
Everywhere is hell if you're an incel.
Especially in STEM fields though, you can't make friends there and there's virtually 0 women as well.
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Better for no foids than to be surrounded by foids who wish you were dead cause of your subpar looks tbh.
 
Rassimov said:
In high school I've seen more looksmatched couples than anywhere else. In college there is only Chad-Stacie couplings, angry girls who won't settle for anything less than a Prince, and a sea of single men..
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My experiance is the same. Are you from east-central Europe by any chance?
 
College is 10x more brutal than hs. In highschool people take time out of their day to appreciate how much of a looser you are. In college you can go a whole semester without saying a word to anyone including the teachers. Its when you will start to realize isolation is the worst thing in the world. its harder to make friends because your classes can have up to 200 people. And foids arent restricted by dress codes so they dress even more slutty practically butt ass naked sometimes and you better not look or your going to jail. college is the worst place to be as an incel because it shows you first had everything your missing out on in your youth and you will never be able to have it.
 
yeah obviously college differs a lot from highschool, as an incel with no friends you are going to suffer.
 
High school > college > middle school tbh.
 
Uther said:
My experiance is the same. Are you from east-central Europe by any chance?
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Near the mediterranean. College is as exciting as evening school here.

LitVirgin said:
College is 10x more brutal than hs. In highschool people take time out of their day to appreciate how much of a looser you are. In college you can go a whole semester without saying a word to anyone including the teachers. Its when you will start to realize isolation is the worst thing in the world. its harder to make friends because your classes can have up to 200 people. And foids arent restricted by dress codes so they dress even more slutty practically butt ass naked sometimes and you better not look or your going to jail. college is the worst place to be as an incel because it shows you first had everything your missing out on in your youth and you will never be able to have it.
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In the first year this shocked me. I thought college would be something of a 1980s coming of age film, involving meeting new people, networking , partying, building a social circle big enough to maybe, just maybe, ascend with a cute girl. I was in for a massive let-down.
 
High school never ends.
 
I personally prefer high school over college. I wasn’t one of the popular kids or anything in high school (a few of my friends were, they live far away now). I just liked how simpler it was and how you can make friends more easily, and you knew everyone at school. At community college I’m lonely as hell and I envy those Greek life people at 4 year universities. Social hierarchies don’t end after high school, they’re around in college too
 
CelticTruecel said:
If you are doing a good college course then you aren't a truecel as you have financial prospects in the future unlike truecel NEETS and wagecucks like me.

It has to be a good college course though as a lot of courses don't have good prospects either.
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Money means jack shit anyway. It doesn't work on foids unless you're tremendously rich (and even then you'll get cucked) and the quality of life/buying power is so fucking shit these days. Mediocre jobs had more buying power a few decades ago that half of the current stemcel jobs of today.
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My experiance is the same. Are you from east-central Europe by any chance?
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It's not about geographical location. It's about women never wanting to date down except in some special cases. So whatever their standards were in hs or the first time they had a bf, they've been raising the bar ever since. So by the time they get in college nearly every chick expects chad.

You gotta think like a foid. If a fat, mediocre looking chick gets banged by chad one night (because he was too drunk or there was no one else to fuck) she doesn't think to herself oh I got lucky, oh he just wanted a fuck and was desperate. No. She thinks I seduced him, I'm good enough for him, I deserve no less than him, I need to be in a relationship with a guy like him.

Everything below the best they've experienced is a fucking insult to them, it's unfair, it's like someone stole something from them.
 
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Gymcelled said:
You gotta think like a foid. If a fat, mediocre looking chick gets banged by chad one night (because he was too drunk or there was no one else to fuck) she doesn't think to herself oh I got lucky, oh he just wanted a fuck and was desperate. No. She thinks I seduced him, I'm good enough for him, I deserve no less than him, I need to be in a relationship with a guy like him.

Everything below the best they've experienced is a fucking insult to them, it's unfair, it's like someone stole something from them.
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Girls notion of attractive also seem to drastically change at the between the ages 14-18. I've seen this happen with my cousin. At 14 she had a obsessive crush on classmate of mine who was a skinny rocker type with a broken nose, cute, but by no measures a Chad, as he looked like a failed pretty boy. By the time she reached 18 her preferences became uniform: tall, broad shouldered, athletic white guy with a compact midface and a buzzcut.
 
At least I had friends in high school. In college is complete lonelinness
 
Rassimov said:
Girls notion of attractive also seem to drastically change at the between the ages 14-18. I've seen this happen with my cousin. At 14 she had a obsessive crush on classmate of mine who was a skinny rocker type with a broken nose, cute, but by no measures a Chad, as he looked like a failed pretty boy. By the time she reached 18 her preferences became uniform: tall, broad shouldered, athletic white guy with a compact midface and a buzzcut.
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Maybe it's hormonal idk. I've also noticed that hs girls don't always go for the super tall, super broad, strong looking guys. Sure they're attracted to them but they'll also go for skinny, average height and framecel guys if they're pretty enough.

But later on you have to mog physically in some way, not just be pretty.
 
Rassimov said:
In the first year this shocked me. I thought college would be something of a 1980s coming of age film, involving meeting new people, networking , partying, building a social circle big enough to maybe, just maybe, ascend with a cute girl. I was in for a massive let-down.
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Lol foids rights kinda ruined that. Chad fucks a lot of foids though but sub 8’s don’t get much and if they do they get the dregs.
 
College is way worse: parties,chad territory, more couples everywhere,stacies are way more fucking irritating, and you LDAR in your room all day when not in class, its a complete hellhole. At least in high school I had a small group of incel friends, and people to play games with.
 
I would say they're equal for different reasons. College has more freedom to do what you want but also has WAY more normies, chads, stacies running around. High school has a large incel population, even if you don't have friends you can at least blend into the crowd. Should also note I only spent a couple months in college before dropping out.
 
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