Discussion Is casual sex really bad or is that a tradcuck lie?

[Nature's Villain]

Clearly sexual liberation had negative consequences for men in the west. But I find it hard to believe that Chad is harmed by sex with women. Do you really think that having strange women give you pussy leads to sadness, or do conservatives just knowingly lie about that to get young people to stay in church? Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

 

[Nature's Villain]

I am talking on a personal level here not society wide, alot of people make it sound like casual sex actually leads to low self esteem.

 

[Teru Mikami]

Yes!

 

[LWii]

Its tradcuck cope

 

[LWii]

Not having sex gave me schizophrenia

 

[starystulejarz]

Casual sex only leads to astray if you don't do anything other than having sex and work at life. When chad has some hobbies and goals he will do fine and casual sex will boost his self esteem by a ton. But at some point he may want to create family and have kids and that could ruin him as all foids are used up whores.

 

[allah]

Casual sex is disgusting in my opinion, not a tradcuck at all.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I'd imagine so. I certainly don't want to live in a society where everyone is just looking for their next hook-up to get a dopamine hit. I'm not sure about it 'ruining one's self esteem' though.

 

[Nature's Villain]

Casual sex is disgusting in my opinion, not a tradcuck at all.

But why is something that everyone naturally wants disgusting? If you were dropped off into the jungle to create a new society with a woman would you get down on a knee and start to court her? No, you would just hit her over the head with a stick and drag her into the hut when you get horny and want to make children. We only do this kind of thing to make society happy and prevent violence.

 

[Wrath]

you're asking the right people

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

Its good for the people who have it. Bad for those who don't.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

I am talking on a personal level here not society wide, alot of people make it sound like casual sex actually leads to low self esteem.

For women, unless they can use their holes to lock down Chad, then it harms her self esteem by giving up her holes.

For men, it seems like they can get caught up in chasing holes too much and then it fucks them up. I saw this pattern with the top Chadlites in my school, they ended up being the most blackpill people I met when dealing with women too much. And then there's those like my family members who could "betabux/oofy doof" their looksmatch and above, but they did so at the cost of everything. Wageslavery, debt, cheated on, abused, divorce and child support raped.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Its good for the people who have it. Bad for those who don't.

This

 

[Grodd]

Its good for the people who have it. Bad for those who don't.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I see it as the epitome of degeneracy and decadence.

 

[tacel]

I am talking on a personal level here not society wide, alot of people make it sound like casual sex actually leads to low self esteem.

With women, getting used as a fleshlight and tossed should logically lead to self esteem, but it seems most care more about the chad carousel than any self worth.

 

[four1298]

Its tradcuck cope

 

[curryboy420]

I don't want used women for that I can just get protitute

 

[ThePornographer]

Its good for the people who have it. Bad for those who don't.

This.

You do not need to think too much about it.

Every guy here would have a better life if they had casual non paid sex often.

Having a meaningful relationship is better, obviously.
But having sex is extremely important for mental health.

 

[Manlet_cel]

Clearly sexual liberation had negative consequences for men in the west. But I find it hard to believe that Chad is harmed by sex with women. Do you really think that having strange women give you pussy leads to sadness, or do conservatives just knowingly lie about that to get young people to stay in church? Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

Having a non degen family reigns supreme

 

[Lego Island 2]

 

[CelibacySurvivor21]

I don't want used women for that I can just get protitute

Have fun wasting $400 on 4 half hour escorts every month, if you even have enough to do that.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Casual sex is disgusting in my opinion, not a tradcuck at all.

Same opinion here

I'd much rather do that with one woman

 

[curryboy420]

Have fun wasting $400 on 4 half hour escorts every month, if you even have enough to do that.

Ok used woman

 

[Sir Waco]

bad in the sense that it ruins societies yea

 

[sub5_]

Clearly sexual liberation had negative consequences for men in the west. But I find it hard to believe that Chad is harmed by sex with women. Do you really think that having strange women give you pussy leads to sadness, or do conservatives just knowingly lie about that to get young people to stay in church? Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

It’s not inherently bad if done safely. And by safely I mean with std testing and using contraceptives.

Casual sex is something reserved for chads so I don’t like to think about it too much. Chads have sex with random hoes meanwhile the average sub 5 has to wageslave for 20 years and then become a betabux for a chance at getting 1 female partner after all is done.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Clearly sexual liberation had negative consequences for men in the west. But I find it hard to believe that Chad is harmed by sex with women. Do you really think that having strange women give you pussy leads to sadness, or do conservatives just knowingly lie about that to get young people to stay in church? Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

It's a sin. Sex belongs in marriage; this biblical value was once widely held. The tradition of so-called conservatives is based on it. Then the enemy came and began to undermine this value, or rather, this commandment, with his well-known agenda.

 

[kay']

 

[coping_manlet]

It’s degenerate imo.

And traditional relationships are also based. Gender roles used to exist for a reason

 

[spongysleight]

Too much casual sex leads to issues with pair-bonding later down the line, more pronounced in foids because they will be stuck pining for this greatest hits.

 

[ALifeWastedOnRot]

I am talking on a personal level here not society wide, alot of people make it sound like casual sex actually leads to low self esteem.

No it’s massive cope. Sex is a human need

 

[ALifeWastedOnRot]

Yes!

No, sex is a human need

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

That's unimportant, besides, they can pretend to you.
What matters is the day of reckoning, when we have to answer to our Creator.
By the way, those boring Chads get older, and their attitudes tend to change...

 

[reveries]

On a wide societal scale - yes, because everybody is a whore dopamine junkie and nobody has a family and nobody is happy and has a stable reason to live and work.
On a personal level - it's probably like any other drug, gives you a spike but leaves you empty afterwards, the more you chase it the less rewarding it becomes but you are already trapped.

 

[fastnbulbous]

It's the biggest cope ever conceived by subhuman non chad males that casual sex is bad or unsatisfactory. Casual sex is in fact the peak of animalistic pleasure. Casual sex with a stranger foid who is primally attracted to you and your biology is an ecstasy that incels will never get to experience. Casual sex is reserved for genetically gifted men or men who are low inhib criminals who don't care about rules that incels and normies follow. Casual sex is fulfilling your Monkey purpose of impregnating as many females as possible. When women want to have a casual encounter with you, you know that you are superior in all senses. This is the truth. Many incels delude themselves into only wanting a relationship and marrying. But that's a lie. Deep down every man knows he was made to animalistically claim as many females as possible and marking them with YOUR seed. Everything else is cope.

 

[Subhuman0ne]

I don’t think occasional casual sex is particularly harmful for an individual Chad. But when it comes to civilization as a whole, unrestricted sexual freedom is absolutely destructive. No society can thrive in the long run when instant gratification becomes the norm and sexual discipline is abandoned.

I recently came across an article about the sexual customs of Slavs ( https://m.joemonster.org/art/28469 ). It was basically constant orgies and total sexual freedom. The result? Primitive tribes, living in the woods, with no real civilization to speak of.

It wasn’t until Christianity arrived, bringing structure and moral limits, that these subhumans started building actual states, social order, and culture. And that’s no coincidence.

On an individual level, delayed gratification is a guaranteed path to success. On a civilizational level, it’s the key to building lasting societies. No culture in history ever achieved anything meaningful while drowning in hedonism. Sexuality must be subordinated to higher goals. Sublimating instinct is the foundation of any durable civilization (Freud).

Civilizations are built by people who know how to control themselves. Not by those who chase instant pleasure. And I think that's the point tradcons are making.

 

[AdExpress]

I don’t think occasional casual sex is particularly harmful for an individual Chad. But when it comes to civilization as a whole, unrestricted sexual freedom is absolutely destructive. No society can thrive in the long run when instant gratification becomes the norm and sexual discipline is abandoned.

I recently came across an article about the sexual customs of Slavs ( https://m.joemonster.org/art/28469 ). It was basically constant orgies and total sexual freedom. The result? Primitive tribes, living in the woods, with no real civilization to speak of.

It wasn’t until Christianity arrived, bringing structure and moral limits, that these subhumans started building actual states, social order, and culture. And that’s no coincidence.

On an individual level, delayed gratification is a guaranteed path to success. On a civilizational level, it’s the key to building lasting societies. No culture in history ever achieved anything meaningful while drowning in hedonism. Sexuality must be subordinated to higher goals. Sublimating instinct is the foundation of any durable civilization (Freud).

Civilizations are built by people who know how to control themselves. Not by those who chase instant pleasure. And I think that's the point tradcons are making.

Yeah the catch though is unlike in the past civilisations never had the access to such hedonism as we do today so the reality is I don't think humanity will ever willingly return to trad society unless an apocalypse happens on Earth somehow

 

[Subhuman0ne]

I am talking on a personal level here not society wide, alot of people make it sound like casual sex actually leads to low self esteem.

As I said in previous post: on personal level it doesn't seem hurtful but if you sum up all personal levels you ending at society level where things look different.

 

[guitarcel]

LIts tradcuck cope

It's the biggest cope ever conceived by subhuman non chad males that casual sex is bad or unsatisfactory. Casual sex is in fact the peak of animalistic pleasure. Casual sex with a stranger foid who is primally attracted to you and your biology is an ecstasy that incels will never get to experience. Casual sex is reserved for genetically gifted men or men who are low inhib criminals who don't care about rules that incels and normies follow. Casual sex is fulfilling your Monkey purpose of impregnating as many females as possible. When women want to have a casual encounter with you, you know that you are superior in all senses. This is the truth. Many incels delude themselves into only wanting a relationship and marrying. But that's a lie. Deep down every man knows he was made to animalistically claim as many females as possible and marking them with YOUR seed. Everything else is cope.

Its only detrimental to holes

 

[underballer]

It’s nice to have every now and then but it’s unfulfilling

 

[MRHK_57]

Casual sex is no doubt bad for societal integrity. Is this good or bad is up for your judgement.

 

[Extern]

Lot of experts here

 

[DutchCel01]

Clearly sexual liberation had negative consequences for men in the west. But I find it hard to believe that Chad is harmed by sex with women. Do you really think that having strange women give you pussy leads to sadness, or do conservatives just knowingly lie about that to get young people to stay in church? Personally I have met some chads at the gym and they just brag about their encounters with a smile on their face and show me pictures of their instagrams, they don't seem so broken to me.

Its obviously a cope by low quality men.

 

[Ricecel Sungnodius]

I see it as the epitome of degeneracy and decadence.

Casual sex is disgusting in my opinion, not a tradcuck at all.

 

[DPRKcel]

tradcuck lie by subhuman bottom of the barrel boomers who couldn't fuck even when women back then were opening their legs to what would be considered a today's sub5

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

Bullshit tradcuck cope.

It's the biggest cope ever conceived by subhuman non chad males that casual sex is bad or unsatisfactory. Casual sex is in fact the peak of animalistic pleasure. Casual sex with a stranger foid who is primally attracted to you and your biology is an ecstasy that incels will never get to experience. Casual sex is reserved for genetically gifted men or men who are low inhib criminals who don't care about rules that incels and normies follow. Casual sex is fulfilling your Monkey purpose of impregnating as many females as possible. When women want to have a casual encounter with you, you know that you are superior in all senses. This is the truth. Many incels delude themselves into only wanting a relationship and marrying. But that's a lie. Deep down every man knows he was made to animalistically claim as many females as possible and marking them with YOUR seed. Everything else is cope.

Lot of experts here

Its obviously a cope by low quality men.