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Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
 
Well that's the thing, 2 different realities. Like a rich man never conceives of the struggles of a poor man, an incel is oblivious to what normies do.
 
Do people watching in bars.
 
Well that's the thing, 2 different realities. Like a rich man never conceives of the struggles of a poor man, an incel is oblivious to what normies do.
 
I have no clue how casual sex and hook ups work either, tbh.

Maybe I am more ND than I was told.

While I can chat with foids, I have no idea how to tell that I would like to fuck her other than telling her straight up.

That non verbal communication is a mystery to me.
 
I also have no idea. I recall back in the uni I once had a casual talk (about studying-related issues) with an older girl who transfered to our faculty. I was like "Huh? A woman can talk to me friendly, without being passive-aggresive for no reason, without camouflaged mockery and insults, without bitching about my "icks" Really?"
That alone was a zingy experience.
Having casual sex for me is incomprehensible.
 
They live in a completely different realm
 
The concept of sex is completely foreign to me
 
He lusts over her, she lusts over him, they both want a quick dopamine release and they just start making out and eventually fucking
 
He lusts over her, she lusts over him, they both want a quick dopamine release and they just start making out and eventually fucking
True, it is bizarre how they just fuck like rabbits sometimes in the same night (one-night stands). Like there is a hidden playbook for this I just havent gotten around to discovering yet.
The playbook isn't "be confident and have social skills", Chad just has that sauce really. It is a combination of many different things Chad has that allow him to get away with this
 
Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
At any given second of any day, anywhere from 2 to 45 million people worldwide are having sex according to ChatGPT. That's crazy.

Like, I can't even fathom sex at all, casual or not. The other day I was thinking "I can't believe that people actually get naked and have sex together." That's so far outside of my experience. It seems SO awkward to get naked with another person in the same bed and have sex. Like I can't even imagine doing that. I've never ever done anything like that with another person. That's what 40+ years of KHHV does to a dude.

But I also have never had any idea where to get weed either (illegal where I live recreationally). So there are some things like "where to get weed" and "how to have sex with someone" that normies just know automatically and naturally somehow.
 
How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Yes, but you need the minimum level of looks, i.e., Chadlite, for that.
 
Well that's the thing, 2 different realities. Like a rich man never conceives of the struggles of a poor man, an incel is oblivious to what normies do.
Really...
 
Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
Casual sex is only available to Chads.It is not surprising that women have sex with attractive men without any hesitation, it is their biological programming
 
Casual sex is what Chads do to practice before they turn to competitive sex.
 
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Casual sex is for Chads/Chadlites/HTNs only.
 
hookup culture is for Chads/Chadlites/HTNs only.
 
theese niggers should have their balls cut or their vagina shut.
 
The concept of sex is completely foreign to me
I'd agree. I'd say casual sex is even more foreign because I just don't know how it works. (I'm also against casual sex, but that's a topic for another time.)
 
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Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
PEOPLE HAVE SEX CASUALLY

CASUALLY LIKE GOING TO GET A COFFEE

ONLY THEY HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER RIGHT AFTER MEETING
 
I WANT TO SHOOT MYSELF IN THE FUCKING HEAD BECAUSE PEOPLE HAVE CASUAL SEX
 
I think lust fuels the first times, then after that there's a normalization effect. When a person believes something to be normal, it will be a lot easier to continue doing it, even if it is morally objectionable. This is true both in terms of one's personal history and their social environment. Everybody in Chad's world believes fucking random women makes you a winner. Even many women are told that having high body counts is a win (LOL), and failing that, they at least believe that getting Chad to fuck you makes you a winner. "Everybody" else is doing it, and you've done it in the past, so why wouldn't you, when you are a normie driven by your flesh and the world?
 
At any given second of any day, anywhere from 2 to 45 million people worldwide are having sex according to ChatGPT. That's crazy.

Like, I can't even fathom sex at all, casual or not. The other day I was thinking "I can't believe that people actually get naked and have sex together." That's so far outside of my experience. It seems SO awkward to get naked with another person in the same bed and have sex. Like I can't even imagine doing that. I've never ever done anything like that with another person. That's what 40+ years of KHHV does to a dude.

But I also have never had any idea where to get weed either (illegal where I live recreationally). So there are some things like "where to get weed" and "how to have sex with someone" that normies just know automatically and naturally somehow.
I think about this a lot, too. I want to smoke weed, but I have no idea how to get it locally. I don't want to order drugs online, it's sketchy as fuck, especially in my country.
I guess normies just know a lot of people, and there's always a guy who knows a guy. I don't have friends so I'm basically locked out of many normalfag activities.
There's a guy in my apartment building who smokes weed every day, and I'm tempted to ask him for weed, but I don't know him at all and I don't want to scare him or anything, or get in trouble (I think he's an actual criminal.)
I've read somewhere that around 30% of young people in my country regularly smoke weed. Drugs are everywhere apparently, and I can't get my hands on them.
 
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PEOPLE HAVE SEX CASUALLY

CASUALLY LIKE GOING TO GET A COFFEE

ONLY THEY HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER RIGHT AFTER MEETING
That's something I can't understand.

Like you meet a girl, chat with her, go somewhere and you have sex. As simple as that.

HOW AND WHY IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO GET THAT
 
Regular casual sex is probably not as common as we think, especially in non-western countries. I think it's mostly reserved for genuinely attractive men, and there are a bunch of females who share the same 5 - 10% of men. It's a different world, and it's best not to to think about it.

Normie (non-Chad) sex is different, and is usually within the context of a long-term relationship, especially in Asia and Africa. Sure, millions of people have sex every day, but most of that is beta bux relationships, jeets, chinks and other third worlders in arranged marriages and forced relationships where the female hates her disgusting dicklet partner, but needs a roof over her head.
Millions of little brown and yellow men are having sex as we speak.
 
All casual sex is just foids giving into their urges to be whores instead of lying about it. Only certain men(attractive) can have such dynamics otherwise they expect mid-tier normies to work hard for it via relationships and betabuxxing. No foid is innocent. JFL at anyone who believes they'll ever find an actual virgin woman.
 
Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
bratha a girl looked at me without being digusted I got hard every week from thinking about it idk how people just do it
 
He lusts over her, she lusts over him, they both want a quick dopamine release and they just start making out and eventually fucking
No-one ever lusted over me
 
Well I can't say I've ever had sex using my looks as currency. It's always been cash but having sex with escorts is pretty damn casual just not like what chad gets simply by existing.
 
I have no clue how casual sex and hook ups work either, tbh.

Maybe I am more ND than I was told.

While I can chat with foids, I have no idea how to tell that I would like to fuck her other than telling her straight up.

That non verbal communication is a mystery to me.
Chad can just be direct . Everyone else has to " beat around the Bush " and then some ( monetary reasons mostly )
 
I have no clue how casual sex and hook ups work either, tbh.

Maybe I am more ND than I was told.

While I can chat with foids, I have no idea how to tell that I would like to fuck her other than telling her straight up.

That non verbal communication is a mystery to me.
 
casual sex is a fried brain activity with the most fucked dopamine receptors (or just average foid behavior)
 
Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
Women want looks, status, and money and the very best men get laid with ease.

For example, take a famous and handsome soccer player or NBA star or actor like Brad Pitt in his prime.

Women know of them because of their fame. Women are drawn to them because they check all three boxes in spades.

For those men, I’m sure it became a cakewalk getting young beautiful women to have sex with them.

For the vast majority of us, now that historical regulations on the dating and sex market have been removed (due to the idiocy and genuine rock bottom retardation of boomers and people on levers of power who “got theirs” and have no understanding of history or why those regulations were in place to begin with) , the situation is ruined downstream of the sexual revolution and online dating/social media made the whole thing exponentially worse since it’s trivial for horny young hotties to find Chad when they get the itch.

Most men aren’t even on the table for their consideration, simple as. Of course I’m just telling you what you already know.

But knowing this and understanding the way things are means nothing. We can’t seem to change anything and unless the strong majority of young man turn into extremist taliban types that organize to fix the inequality nothing will happen. Sadly there are reasons why that kind of thing is unlikely, at least near term, and what it would take to set things right would probably land a lot of fellows in jail and they’d be slandered and crucified by the media, you know how it goes. If there are realistic solutions, I don’t know what they are — some “average” men do eventually get a ran through woman to settle for them but usually that’s once the woman’s value has cratered off a cliff and she couldn’t secure the Chad’s and typically the guy is doing some major heavy lifting and winds up a betabux in a dead bedroom (since his wife isn’t actually attracted to him and can divorce rape him whenever she feels like it teehee).

It’s a lot of suffering and pain and constant rage to understand what’s wrong and what needs to be done but being powerless to do anything. Young men are an extremely oppressed group: wage slaves that are forced to work shitty dead end jobs to make some other guy richer and to fund boomer pensions (richest generation ever by the way), going to uni saddles you with massive debt, getting a home saddles you with massive debt, prices are so high wages are peas by comparison, no family of our own, bitchy shitty entitled women who wouldn’t care if we died in a gutter, one starts to understand why in historical cycles the young men eventually revolted and went through to agony of war to try to set things right.

And yeah, it is soul destroying when I see young gorgeous women knowing I would just piss them off if I approached (have tried hundreds of times and learned women do not want to be cold approached, at least not by us) and they’re putting the goods out there for a narrow subset of us and want nothing to do with you or me. Knowing I will probably die without ever smashing some young hot babe causes a kind of aching pain I’m sure you understand. And prostitution is illegal where I live (and even if it wasn’t it’s not a great solution since condoms to prevent STDs kinda ruins it in theory, but I digress).

And nobody seems to notice, nobody seems to care. Women certainly don’t and when women are given power they don’t take care of men they parasite off of men (whereas men with power actually do care for women and make sure they have a place and a family in society, we’re not the same at all). Shits fucked man.
 
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Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
These are blood sucking whores
 
Like, I often go this place in my uni full of women, dressed like complete whores. I can see the outline of their tits clearly as they dont wear bras for some reason. So many of them are actually hot and pretty, damn :feelscry:
I feel desire for them

I just stopped to think about "hookup culture" and "casual sex", like... how does that even work??? How do people even do that??? Do they just talk and have sex???
Are there people out there who are actually living that life? Yes there are, they brag about it all the time.
All these women I saw, Chads and chadlites and even htn are hooking up with them and fucking them casually like it is a normal thing for them to do. They get all the girls I've ever wanted and more.
They flip from woman to woman, woman to woman, meeting up with them, getting attracted, having sex and then moving with their lives as nothing happened. And then they just go on with their lives and never see each other again? Or the woman feels hurt and used and lashs out at Chad? But then comes back to him eventually?

How does Chad do this? How can he fuck a different girl every weekend with no problem? His life is just so way beyond my comprehension it is like an ant trying to understand a dog, it just doesnt work.
Me and Chad are fundamentally different species, operating on a completely different plane of reality. He operates on a completely diferent frequency of existence. I can't even begin to comprehend what Chad's life is like. It feels surreal
I cannot even begin to imagine how that is like. All I have is my lonely life with no pussy or teen love :feelsrope:
Get out of UNI and get yourself a Job. UNI is PEAK SUICIDE FUEL, EVERY DAY, EVERY DAY, TITS AND ASS, SLUT CLOTHING, FRAGRANT HAIR AND CREAMY SKIN, ALL PRETTY AND BEAUTIFUL GIRLS IN THEIR PRIME FOR FUCKING.

NOPE NOPE NOPE

Save your mental health and get out of UNI!!!
 

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