none of this happens in your life if you're actually incel
Being a NEET isn't all it's cracked up to be, it's gotten boring as fuck after a while.
What would you actually buy, though? I have a job and most of my money just goes to junk food. It's not satisfying.
copes like what?
Honestly probably not a lot now that I think about it, maybe besides PC components, expensive food copes, and maybe some hobbyist shit like instruments to spend time learning (which I don't have the money for). Tbh being a NEET has made me less of a consumer in material goods generally speaking, but I'd still want my own income and to be self dependent anyway since I still want to move out of my parents home.
What are your coordination, fine motor skills and timing like in other aspects of life? If they are poor, learning an instrument is an awful cope that will only serve to make you more miserable. I've invested so much time into practicing guitar over the years and have little to show for it. I've plateaued hard and early because my natural technical ability is simply insufficient to get good. It's probably one of the most depressing "copes" I could have possibly pursued.
A job can introduce you to people but you probably wont get a gf or wife from it BUT the money the job provides you can be saved for surgery's to help with your looks and get you a girlfriend
I think they're probably fine; I used to play violin during lockdown as a teenager, but I eventually gave up on it since I was too preoccupied with my retarded studies, and my mom gave it away to a relative. I'm more concerned over my own apathy and depression getting in the way than anything. I tend to hyperfocus on things, but my lack of routine and structure as well as my inclination towards rotting handicaps me.
the mentioned copes aren't much time taking and should benefit more along with a stable career.
