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Venting Is a job a useless cope?

Is it cope?

  • Yes

    Votes: 10 40.0%
  • No

    Votes: 12 48.0%
  • Undecided

    Votes: 3 12.0%

  • Total voters
    25
The Chronicle

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The main reason I wanted college, a job, and a home is because of the cope, it’ll provide me the chance to have a girlfriend or a wife one day.

There’s no other motivator or reason
 
The purpose of a job is to make money
 
Its obviously useless in terms of getting a girlfriend if thats all you care about. Other than that i’d say its a good cope because it allows you to have the money to buy the things you want
 
who copes with job
 
The main reason I wanted college, a job, and a home is because of the cope, it’ll provide me the chance to have a girlfriend or a wife one day.
none of this happens in your life if you're actually incel
 
wageslaving at min wage yea is less helpful but a good paying job that you can live a good life off is a great cope.

id even say that min wage jobs are better than being NEET in most cases .
 
id even say that min wage jobs are better than being NEET in most cases .
Being a NEET isn't all it's cracked up to be, it's gotten boring as fuck after a while.

Then again I don't receive welfare so I'd probably be more satisfied if I did to spend on copes.
 
Then again I don't receive welfare so I'd probably be more satisfied if I did to spend on copes.
What would you actually buy, though? I have a job and most of my money just goes to junk food. It's not satisfying.
 
Being a NEET isn't all it's cracked up to be, it's gotten boring as fuck after a while.

Then again I don't receive welfare so I'd probably be more satisfied if I did to spend on copes.
copes like what?

most people do nothing besides rot when they neet tbh, the so called copes they even have ruin their lives so what's even the point of it.
 
how else are we affording full facial implants
 
What would you actually buy, though? I have a job and most of my money just goes to junk food. It's not satisfying.
copes like what?

most people do nothing besides rot when they neet tbh, the so called copes they even have ruin their lives so what's even the point of it.
Honestly probably not a lot now that I think about it, maybe besides PC components, expensive food copes, and maybe some hobbyist shit like instruments to spend time learning (which I don't have the money for). Tbh being a NEET has made me less of a consumer in material goods generally speaking, but I'd still want my own income and to be self dependent anyway since I still want to move out of my parents home.
 
like instruments to spend time learning
What are your coordination, fine motor skills and timing like in other aspects of life? If they are poor, learning an instrument is an awful cope that will only serve to make you more miserable. I've invested so much time into practicing guitar over the years and have little to show for it. I've plateaued hard and early because my natural technical ability is simply insufficient to get good. It's probably one of the most depressing "copes" I could have possibly pursued.
 
The main reason I wanted college, a job, and a home is because of the cope, it’ll provide me the chance to have a girlfriend or a wife one day.

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The main reason I wanted college, a job, and a home is because of the cope, it’ll provide me the chance to have a girlfriend or a wife one day.

There’s no other motivator or reason
A job can introduce you to people but you probably wont get a gf or wife from it BUT the money the job provides you can be saved for surgery's to help with your looks and get you a girlfriend
 
What are your coordination, fine motor skills and timing like in other aspects of life? If they are poor, learning an instrument is an awful cope that will only serve to make you more miserable. I've invested so much time into practicing guitar over the years and have little to show for it. I've plateaued hard and early because my natural technical ability is simply insufficient to get good. It's probably one of the most depressing "copes" I could have possibly pursued.
I think they're probably fine; I used to play violin during lockdown as a teenager, but I eventually gave up on it since I was too preoccupied with my retarded studies, and my mom gave it away to a relative. I'm more concerned over my own apathy and depression getting in the way than anything. I tend to hyperfocus on things, but my lack of routine and structure as well as my inclination towards rotting handicaps me.
 
Honestly probably not a lot now that I think about it, maybe besides PC components, expensive food copes, and maybe some hobbyist shit like instruments to spend time learning (which I don't have the money for). Tbh being a NEET has made me less of a consumer in material goods generally speaking, but I'd still want my own income and to be self dependent anyway since I still want to move out of my parents home.
the mentioned copes aren't much time taking and should benefit more along with a stable career.
 
It gives you money, so it's not a useless cope.
 
The Guys who voted No , are non Neets that dont have a Choice .

If your willingly Vote No , then yea i dont know if you truly " got it yet " :feelsclown:
 
depends if you enjoy it and get dopamine from doing it
 
It's not cope if your job makes you a lot of money but it's cope to think that you'll find a girlfriend at some subhuman McDonalds wage slave job
 
Job is cope and the fact that u being a workcel makes the chances of getting a girlfriend preety nonexistent and the sad part is you are also indirectly providing services to evil foids and obnoxious normies
The main reason I wanted college, a job, and a home is because of the cope, it’ll provide me the chance to have a girlfriend or a wife one day.

There’s no other motivator or reason
 

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