No, I live in Germany, and the combination ethnic man x white woman is definitely more common than the combination white man x ethnic woman. Do you live in Germany and observe the opposite? No? Then I think you are the one coping here.
Kind of annoys me that people always say whites have it easier when here it is more like the oppsite
It might also be related to the fact that most ethnics here are Muslims, who often don't want their daughters to be with a non-muslim, but I really think their "interestingness" and "exoticism" haloes ethnic men here, for femoids who are bored and seek new experiences.
Also the self-hatred is strong in some Germans, and having an ethnic friend with give leftist femoids social status.