The failed normies that populate the subreddits and websites that exist purely to bully us have no desire to actually attempt to understand anything, they'd rather just trawl sites looking for things to get them le ebin upvote. They are arrogant and selfish to extreme degrees and utterly fail to have an interesting or educated perspective on the Incel community.
They will gladly and willingly ignore any well formulated or passive Incel post because it would require them to think about our perspective, they'd rather just find a comment of someone saying "Go do an ER" so they can screencap it and then start circle-jerking over how they disagree with spree killing because they're all such wonderful people.
Don't bother trying to reason or debate with people on IT or other bullying sites, they have zero interest in being anything above callous failed normies that try to put us down because they think they're some group of brave warriors fighting some retarded internet battle. They are obsessed with trying to virtue signal about how they're the gallant knights defending female honour and holding back the tide of us mean Incels. They love living in the little fantasy world they created where the cherrypicked comments they post and pseudo-intellectual echo-chamber ramblings are anything other than cyberbullying and hardcore virtue signalling.
They are sanctimonious children than descend from their ivory towers to suck each other off for holding the most painfully politically and socially safe views. They are devoid of any real substance.
