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Hypocrisy Exposing IncelTears: Hypocrisy. (Part 1?)

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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1ipk8sn/i_think_im_turning_into_a_femcel/


In this shit-hole, this specific place for them, a lone girl asks about "turning into a femcel." She rants about her "jealousy" and retardation when it comes to dating. Now, as we all truly should also know, "Femcels" do not, and can't exist in any possible way. There is always a potential mate for a women whether they want to admit it or not. You can't be "lonely" or "sad" over dating if the man next door who happens to be a bit average is waiting and willingly will date you. But, of course, we all realize what the ACTUAL title should be. It's not about femcel's, it's about Chad's. She might be a sub 5, who knows. She thinks that a Chad SHOULD go to her, but they won't because they know they can get better, instinctively. But, with this reddit post alone, the seething and coping Redditors came out of the wood works, but NOT to attack, but to sympathize. They also happened to post about my last post to, and the results were about as well as you can expect for this degenerate platform. They made some serious accusations and lies, as per usual. But we aren't talking about my old "shark" post. We are talking about this one.

Usually, the reaction SHOULD be the same for us, right? Same amount of vitriol hatred, anger, and maddening statements, right? But as we all know, IncelTears LoVeS "women" so, the reaction is quite different.

Your not a femcel your just 15, try focus on trying to be a good person and socialising. There's nothing wrong with the stuff you like and as for not having your first kiss it's normal don't worry
Ah yes, because this is 100% the same reaction, right? It's "normal" for them to be mad about dating, but for us, it's "bad" right? "This defiantly isn't misandry, no no! It's just... a different experience for women!" Is something I can see them legitimately saying. Overall, this point is moot and moronic.

No your a teenager expierincing teenage angst.
Which is a normal phase for your age.
Almost every teenager strugles with life, feeling unloved/unloveable, fear and curiosity at the same time.
The difference to incels is normal people grow out of this.
Please don’t worry you are not an incel, you are a 15 year old teen, struggeling with typical issues of 15 year old teens.
I wish you all the best, don’t be harsh on yourself
Uh huh, but where the fuck is that same energy for men or even teens? There are a lot of under-20 year old's here, admittedly. I am one of them. Of course, by the age you're 18, you NEED to be a grown, big boy pants on as a man. No issues allowed! Before you say this is a straw-man, realize I am talking about the exact same issues, in the same context. Do not try and twist my words, if they see this. It's subtle, but I can tell the judgement between us is massive. Living with parents at 21? That's a failure of a son. Struggling with LDARING/Depression? That is you being lazy and pathetic. This is what I am talking about, it's ridiculous how common and easy feminists slip in misandry like this. Funnily enough, this user in particular had a history with an "abusive" partner yet, can't stop talking about them? Why is that? CERTAINLY can't be because of the Dark Triad, right? That's why Jeremy Meeks, and other psychopathic killers had an entire ordeal of fans writing sex letters, valentines and MORE? But of course, "it's your mindset brooo!" and more excuses, over and over and OVER again! Had enough with this babbling fool, let's move on.

Dude you're 15, you're literally a child. When I was 15 I was convinced misanthropy was an enlightened and based idea. Just chill out and try to enjoy the ride until you have to worry about adult shit

At first, this one seems fair enough. We are all bluepilled at some points, some still are. But I do want to point out this user in particular is a hard-core feminist/4B movement type of guy. Yes, this is a guy. I know that this user is a bit daft, though. He talks about us negatively for our critique of women and subsequently, us in a way. He downplays our issues, and says that we have no reason to act like this if we no "genuine" issues. (As in, medical diagonsed issues) Despite the fact that some of us have depression, autism, adhd, you know, the NTpill. And yet, he doesn't bring it up here. What a bastardly dumb and cucked move.

Imma tell you a secret. I was the single friend all throughout highschool, and I didn't get my first kiss until my senior year. But yknow what? I wish I'd spent more of those years with my friends, than worrying about why guys didn't want me. In the long run, it didn't matter, and I'm now in a committed relationship. Things will happen in their own time, but what's important is focusing on enjoying the now

Uh huh. This is so funny. In other words, "I possibly cheated and betabuxxed a bunch of young men and flinged out around until a Chad/Cuck came around and started paying me some good cash :)" BUT, she's actually a lesbian... Yeah, didn't suprise me either. Of course, the lesbians love to speak their shit around topics they shouldn't and couldn't possibly know about. So, this entire comment is invalidated. Nice...

The fact that you have self-awareness enough to go seeking help is amazing. Girl, you’re 15 years old and have so much life left to live. Give it time and you’ll find someone who loves you for you, not just to say they’re in a relationship.

99% sure this girl is a sub 5, based on the post history. They got "married" after a LDR AFTER 5 FUCKING YEARS. She probably couldn't hold that lust for that long. That's the point of a LDR, right? You shouldn't cheat on people in a LDR, right, IT? I agree, but we all know what actually happened. She has been in IT for years, and betabuxxed with some guy and she has the AUDACITY to come back, and say this? JFL.

I'm sorry, love.
I was like you - in the school I studied at, because I was bullied, people acted like I was untouchable. And I believed it. I cried, for example, at movies like Never Been Kissed or All About Steve, cause I saw it as my life (minus the happy ending)
Get this: It was a catholic school, and I was so certain I'd never be able to be in a relationship, I thought about becoming a nun, so that it look like a choice, and less embarrassing.
Had my first kiss at 19... since then, no troubles. It's not like I can get anyone I want, of course, but I certainly can have much more than I could ever want.
Being a kissless virgin at 15... is just being 15.
Even if you thought anyone is physically doomed to be too unattractive to ever be attractive to anyone (which I do NOT find to be the truth, and I'm TWICE your age), you're 15. You're gonna look like a completely different person by 20, and maybe yet another by 25.

JFL. She thought about being a "Trad" wife. Now, to be fair Trad Wives can be somewhat based, but she didn't go down that path. She is in her mid 30's and says this?

It's not like I can get anyone I want, of course, but I certainly can have much more than I could ever want.

So, you're a Becky, and you're coping with the typical excuse of copes. Now, I actually do believe copes are a healthy mechanism. But do not sit here and actually say that you're happy with what your doing. We all know damn well why she waited until 19 for that first kiss. It's because she wanted to make sure it was a Chad, with his chisled jawline, fluffly playboy hair, hunter eyes, and 6'5 status! It's typical for a proclaimed Christian to lie.

And for the final comment, by a professional cuck himself...

From the point of view from someone who felt similar at that age and is now 30 years older, let me tell you that you will have loads and loads of opportunities for romantic encouters in your life. Also for sexual experience. About sex: guys will literally fuck anything. Sorry to put it this bluntly. They always have and they always will. Believe me when I say it's better to not do with any guy than to just highten your self-esteem with as many sexual encounters as you can. Because your value is not defined by how fuckable you are.
As for romance: it's better to be alone than with the wrong person. There are many to come, and a high school love is not as important as the movies make it seem. You will have some relationships in the future and some will be aweful, some will be good. There is no guarantee for "the one". But there will be some.
And teenage love is not as described in the movies or books. It's way less exciting and everybody exaggerates. The main problem is that you feel utterly alone right now, but this, too, will change. Just be yourself, everything else will fall into place.

Will guys (mostly) fuck anything? I will, to be fair. I don't have the highest standards, and I don't think most will disagree that our looksmatches our FINE, just right for us. But, this moron frames it as a negative thing that we are in tune with it. "Highten your self esteem" Ah yes, teenage love doesn't matter and people TOTALLY don't care about body count when it comes to women or men. It's called experience, dude. Learn about it. We all know, or want to know about it. And OF COURSE, he ends it with that classic line, that somehow is actually pretty blackpilled. Let me explain:

Just be yourself, everything else will fall into place.

He's right, it will fall into place. Either into Lava, or a gentle cloud. If you act like the autistic freak that we all are, mocking and death threats will be sent our way. But when Chad does it, we see a different and often opposite effect. Love, praise and endorsement of it. Chad's reign supreme, here and in other words, yes, for once they have a point that they didn't even WANT to make! Good job, IT! You fucking idiots!


There are like 20 other bullshit takes there, just check out the thread for yourselves if you want to know more about it. If they make a follow-up, I might respond. Especially if that lesbian bitch comes back again, calling me "loser" and all. She wasn't even that bad looking, probably the most average I have seen though. Anyway, this is part 1, and maybe other parts will come seperately if I can find more piles of crocky here. Thanks for reading.
 
BUMP THIS!!!!
 
Everything about them is hypocritical. They can’t use logic for 1 millisecond. They love denying logic
 
didn't read lil nigga
 
Ignorance and stupidity is self exposing. Save ur breath nigga. Retards will be retards
 
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Everything about them is hypocritical. They can’t use logic for 1 millisecond. They love denying logic

showtime you're right GIF by Billions
 
DNR, too long. But i can imagine what its about
 
Foids and liberal faggots have no brains, they should all be sent to the concentration camps once and for all.
 
DNR, too long. But i can imagine what its about
Basically, they loved to talk about how femcels deserve pity and aren't as bad as us. But their hypocrisy shows with this simple statement, and how somehow, they shouldn't be talked down upon unlike us.
 
Basically, they loved to talk about how femcels deserve pity and aren't as bad as us. But their hypocrisy shows with this simple statement, and how somehow, they shouldn't be talked down upon unlike us.
Ah yes. They want pity while they bully vulnerable men to death.
 
IT doesn't need to be exposed. Even Reddit faggots have shit on them for years now. Don't waste this effort.
 
IT doesn't need to be exposed. Even Reddit faggots have shit on them for years now. Don't waste this effort.
True. It's water, but It's always nice to shit on this place. Nice way to vent it out.
 
What is their obsession with hating on us, but then using our very own lingo?

I don't understand this form of psychopathy. :feelshehe:
 
What is their obsession with hating on us, but then using our very own lingo?

I don't understand this form of psychopathy. :feelshehe:
IDK why, either, bro. It seems like a deep sense of hatred for themselves, so they project it outwards. To me.
 

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1ipk8sn/i_think_im_turning_into_a_femcel/


In this shit-hole, this specific place for them, a lone girl asks about "turning into a femcel." She rants about her "jealousy" and retardation when it comes to dating. Now, as we all truly should also know, "Femcels" do not, and can't exist in any possible way. There is always a potential mate for a women whether they want to admit it or not. You can't be "lonely" or "sad" over dating if the man next door who happens to be a bit average is waiting and willingly will date you. But, of course, we all realize what the ACTUAL title should be. It's not about femcel's, it's about Chad's. She might be a sub 5, who knows. She thinks that a Chad SHOULD go to her, but they won't because they know they can get better, instinctively. But, with this reddit post alone, the seething and coping Redditors came out of the wood works, but NOT to attack, but to sympathize. They also happened to post about my last post to, and the results were about as well as you can expect for this degenerate platform. They made some serious accusations and lies, as per usual. But we aren't talking about my old "shark" post. We are talking about this one.

Usually, the reaction SHOULD be the same for us, right? Same amount of vitriol hatred, anger, and maddening statements, right? But as we all know, IncelTears LoVeS "women" so, the reaction is quite different.


Ah yes, because this is 100% the same reaction, right? It's "normal" for them to be mad about dating, but for us, it's "bad" right? "This defiantly isn't misandry, no no! It's just... a different experience for women!" Is something I can see them legitimately saying. Overall, this point is moot and moronic.


Uh huh, but where the fuck is that same energy for men or even teens? There are a lot of under-20 year old's here, admittedly. I am one of them. Of course, by the age you're 18, you NEED to be a grown, big boy pants on as a man. No issues allowed! Before you say this is a straw-man, realize I am talking about the exact same issues, in the same context. Do not try and twist my words, if they see this. It's subtle, but I can tell the judgement between us is massive. Living with parents at 21? That's a failure of a son. Struggling with LDARING/Depression? That is you being lazy and pathetic. This is what I am talking about, it's ridiculous how common and easy feminists slip in misandry like this. Funnily enough, this user in particular had a history with an "abusive" partner yet, can't stop talking about them? Why is that? CERTAINLY can't be because of the Dark Triad, right? That's why Jeremy Meeks, and other psychopathic killers had an entire ordeal of fans writing sex letters, valentines and MORE? But of course, "it's your mindset brooo!" and more excuses, over and over and OVER again! Had enough with this babbling fool, let's move on.



At first, this one seems fair enough. We are all bluepilled at some points, some still are. But I do want to point out this user in particular is a hard-core feminist/4B movement type of guy. Yes, this is a guy. I know that this user is a bit daft, though. He talks about us negatively for our critique of women and subsequently, us in a way. He downplays our issues, and says that we have no reason to act like this if we no "genuine" issues. (As in, medical diagonsed issues) Despite the fact that some of us have depression, autism, adhd, you know, the NTpill. And yet, he doesn't bring it up here. What a bastardly dumb and cucked move.



Uh huh. This is so funny. In other words, "I possibly cheated and betabuxxed a bunch of young men and flinged out around until a Chad/Cuck came around and started paying me some good cash :)" BUT, she's actually a lesbian... Yeah, didn't suprise me either. Of course, the lesbians love to speak their shit around topics they shouldn't and couldn't possibly know about. So, this entire comment is invalidated. Nice...



99% sure this girl is a sub 5, based on the post history. They got "married" after a LDR AFTER 5 FUCKING YEARS. She probably couldn't hold that lust for that long. That's the point of a LDR, right? You shouldn't cheat on people in a LDR, right, IT? I agree, but we all know what actually happened. She has been in IT for years, and betabuxxed with some guy and she has the AUDACITY to come back, and say this? JFL.



JFL. She thought about being a "Trad" wife. Now, to be fair Trad Wives can be somewhat based, but she didn't go down that path. She is in her mid 30's and says this?



So, you're a Becky, and you're coping with the typical excuse of copes. Now, I actually do believe copes are a healthy mechanism. But do not sit here and actually say that you're happy with what your doing. We all know damn well why she waited until 19 for that first kiss. It's because she wanted to make sure it was a Chad, with his chisled jawline, fluffly playboy hair, hunter eyes, and 6'5 status! It's typical for a proclaimed Christian to lie.

And for the final comment, by a professional cuck himself...



Will guys (mostly) fuck anything? I will, to be fair. I don't have the highest standards, and I don't think most will disagree that our looksmatches our FINE, just right for us. But, this moron frames it as a negative thing that we are in tune with it. "Highten your self esteem" Ah yes, teenage love doesn't matter and people TOTALLY don't care about body count when it comes to women or men. It's called experience, dude. Learn about it. We all know, or want to know about it. And OF COURSE, he ends it with that classic line, that somehow is actually pretty blackpilled. Let me explain:



He's right, it will fall into place. Either into Lava, or a gentle cloud. If you act like the autistic freak that we all are, mocking and death threats will be sent our way. But when Chad does it, we see a different and often opposite effect. Love, praise and endorsement of it. Chad's reign supreme, here and in other words, yes, for once they have a point that they didn't even WANT to make! Good job, IT! You fucking idiots!


There are like 20 other bullshit takes there, just check out the thread for yourselves if you want to know more about it. If they make a follow-up, I might respond. Especially if that lesbian bitch comes back again, calling me "loser" and all. She wasn't even that bad looking, probably the most average I have seen though. Anyway, this is part 1, and maybe other parts will come seperately if I can find more piles of crocky here. Thanks for reading.

Good thread , mirin effort hard op
 
Ignorance and stupidity is self exposing. Save ur breath nigga. Retards will be retards
Thank you brocel, and this is true. I just like to make fun of these dumb asses occasionally. :feelsaww:
 
What is their obsession with hating on us, but then using our very own lingo?

I don't understand this form of psychopathy. :feelshehe:
Most there know they are in a similar situation as us, but want to appear above that.

This applies with others who go out of their way to harass, as well.
 
Most there know they are in a similar situation as us, but want to appear above that.

This applies with others who go out of their way to harass, as well.
It doesn't even make any sense though because by them doing that they're just doing the opposite of what they're trying to accomplish.

It shows people that they are insecure
 
IT has always been a misandrist subreddit for fat roasties. This is no surprise
 

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1ipk8sn/i_think_im_turning_into_a_femcel/


In this shit-hole, this specific place for them, a lone girl asks about "turning into a femcel." She rants about her "jealousy" and retardation when it comes to dating. Now, as we all truly should also know, "Femcels" do not, and can't exist in any possible way. There is always a potential mate for a women whether they want to admit it or not. You can't be "lonely" or "sad" over dating if the man next door who happens to be a bit average is waiting and willingly will date you. But, of course, we all realize what the ACTUAL title should be. It's not about femcel's, it's about Chad's. She might be a sub 5, who knows. She thinks that a Chad SHOULD go to her, but they won't because they know they can get better, instinctively. But, with this reddit post alone, the seething and coping Redditors came out of the wood works, but NOT to attack, but to sympathize. They also happened to post about my last post to, and the results were about as well as you can expect for this degenerate platform. They made some serious accusations and lies, as per usual. But we aren't talking about my old "shark" post. We are talking about this one.

Usually, the reaction SHOULD be the same for us, right? Same amount of vitriol hatred, anger, and maddening statements, right? But as we all know, IncelTears LoVeS "women" so, the reaction is quite different.


Ah yes, because this is 100% the same reaction, right? It's "normal" for them to be mad about dating, but for us, it's "bad" right? "This defiantly isn't misandry, no no! It's just... a different experience for women!" Is something I can see them legitimately saying. Overall, this point is moot and moronic.


Uh huh, but where the fuck is that same energy for men or even teens? There are a lot of under-20 year old's here, admittedly. I am one of them. Of course, by the age you're 18, you NEED to be a grown, big boy pants on as a man. No issues allowed! Before you say this is a straw-man, realize I am talking about the exact same issues, in the same context. Do not try and twist my words, if they see this. It's subtle, but I can tell the judgement between us is massive. Living with parents at 21? That's a failure of a son. Struggling with LDARING/Depression? That is you being lazy and pathetic. This is what I am talking about, it's ridiculous how common and easy feminists slip in misandry like this. Funnily enough, this user in particular had a history with an "abusive" partner yet, can't stop talking about them? Why is that? CERTAINLY can't be because of the Dark Triad, right? That's why Jeremy Meeks, and other psychopathic killers had an entire ordeal of fans writing sex letters, valentines and MORE? But of course, "it's your mindset brooo!" and more excuses, over and over and OVER again! Had enough with this babbling fool, let's move on.



At first, this one seems fair enough. We are all bluepilled at some points, some still are. But I do want to point out this user in particular is a hard-core feminist/4B movement type of guy. Yes, this is a guy. I know that this user is a bit daft, though. He talks about us negatively for our critique of women and subsequently, us in a way. He downplays our issues, and says that we have no reason to act like this if we no "genuine" issues. (As in, medical diagonsed issues) Despite the fact that some of us have depression, autism, adhd, you know, the NTpill. And yet, he doesn't bring it up here. What a bastardly dumb and cucked move.



Uh huh. This is so funny. In other words, "I possibly cheated and betabuxxed a bunch of young men and flinged out around until a Chad/Cuck came around and started paying me some good cash :)" BUT, she's actually a lesbian... Yeah, didn't suprise me either. Of course, the lesbians love to speak their shit around topics they shouldn't and couldn't possibly know about. So, this entire comment is invalidated. Nice...



99% sure this girl is a sub 5, based on the post history. They got "married" after a LDR AFTER 5 FUCKING YEARS. She probably couldn't hold that lust for that long. That's the point of a LDR, right? You shouldn't cheat on people in a LDR, right, IT? I agree, but we all know what actually happened. She has been in IT for years, and betabuxxed with some guy and she has the AUDACITY to come back, and say this? JFL.



JFL. She thought about being a "Trad" wife. Now, to be fair Trad Wives can be somewhat based, but she didn't go down that path. She is in her mid 30's and says this?



So, you're a Becky, and you're coping with the typical excuse of copes. Now, I actually do believe copes are a healthy mechanism. But do not sit here and actually say that you're happy with what your doing. We all know damn well why she waited until 19 for that first kiss. It's because she wanted to make sure it was a Chad, with his chisled jawline, fluffly playboy hair, hunter eyes, and 6'5 status! It's typical for a proclaimed Christian to lie.

And for the final comment, by a professional cuck himself...



Will guys (mostly) fuck anything? I will, to be fair. I don't have the highest standards, and I don't think most will disagree that our looksmatches our FINE, just right for us. But, this moron frames it as a negative thing that we are in tune with it. "Highten your self esteem" Ah yes, teenage love doesn't matter and people TOTALLY don't care about body count when it comes to women or men. It's called experience, dude. Learn about it. We all know, or want to know about it. And OF COURSE, he ends it with that classic line, that somehow is actually pretty blackpilled. Let me explain:



He's right, it will fall into place. Either into Lava, or a gentle cloud. If you act like the autistic freak that we all are, mocking and death threats will be sent our way. But when Chad does it, we see a different and often opposite effect. Love, praise and endorsement of it. Chad's reign supreme, here and in other words, yes, for once they have a point that they didn't even WANT to make! Good job, IT! You fucking idiots!


There are like 20 other bullshit takes there, just check out the thread for yourselves if you want to know more about it. If they make a follow-up, I might respond. Especially if that lesbian bitch comes back again, calling me "loser" and all. She wasn't even that bad looking, probably the most average I have seen though. Anyway, this is part 1, and maybe other parts will come seperately if I can find more piles of crocky here. Thanks for reading.

Here's what GPT has to say:

AnApparentMyth

Summary of the Thread Discussion

The post is a criticism of the subreddit r/IncelTears, a community on Reddit known for mocking and criticizing the incel community. The author takes particular issue with a Reddit thread where a 15-year-old girl wonders if she's becoming a "femcel" (female incel).

Main Arguments from the Post:

  1. Double Standards in Sympathy:
    • The author claims that Reddit users are sympathetic toward teenage girls expressing loneliness, but would ridicule teenage boys (especially incels) for saying the same things.
    • They highlight perceived hypocrisy, calling it "misandry" (anti-male bias).
  2. Critique of r/IncelTears Reactions:
    • The post quotes several Reddit replies offering emotional support to the girl.
    • The author mocks and dismisses these responses as naive, biased, or dishonest.
    • Repeated claims that women, even those who are average or below-average looking, have dating options that men don't.
  3. General Tone and Language:
    • Aggressive, mocking, and often hostile.
    • Heavy use of incel lingo: "Chad," "Becky," "betabuxx," "cope," "looksmatch."
    • The author portrays themselves as unfairly judged and misunderstood, suggesting society coddles women but ridicules men for the same vulnerabilities.
  4. Personal Grievances:
    • The poster references a prior post of theirs being criticized by Reddit users.
    • They appear to hold a strong resentment toward women and those who defend them.

Themes in the Discussion:

  • Gender double standards
  • Adolescent alienation and frustration
  • Hostility toward feminism and mainstream narratives
  • Distrust of Reddit and mainstream social spaces
  • Cynicism about romantic relationships

⚠️ Content Note:

The thread includes misogynistic and aggressive rhetoric, as is common on many incel forums. It reflects a worldview that centers on male sexual frustration and a belief in systemic bias against men.

Let me know if you'd like a more detailed breakdown of specific quotes or themes.


You said:​

aside from the rhetoric, do you think the original poster is being reasonable? Try going to the reddit page and see if his points hold up

ChatGPT said:​

After reviewing the Reddit thread titled "i think im turning into a femcel" , it's evident that the original poster (OP) is a 15-year-old girl expressing feelings of loneliness, jealousy, and social isolation. She describes herself as having a "femcel-ish personality," noting her lack of romantic experiences compared to her peers and her resulting bitterness.Reddit
The responses from the r/IncelTears community are largely empathetic and supportive. Many commenters reassure her that it's normal to feel this way during adolescence and that romantic experiences often come later in life. Some share personal anecdotes of not dating until their late teens or early twenties, emphasizing that her current feelings are temporary and part of growing up. Others suggest seeking therapy or counseling, especially considering her mention of being a high-functioning autistic person, to help navigate her emotions and social interactions.Reddit
Regarding the original poster from the Incels.is forum, their critique centers on perceived double standards, arguing that if a teenage boy expressed similar feelings, he would be mocked rather than supported. However, the Reddit thread demonstrates that the community is capable of offering compassion and advice to individuals, regardless of gender, who express vulnerability and a desire to improve. The key difference lies in the approach: the Reddit OP is seeking help and self-improvement, whereas many posts from incel communities often externalize blame and express entitlement.
In conclusion, while the Incels.is poster raises a point about potential societal double standards, the Reddit thread suggests that communities like r/IncelTears can and do respond with empathy to individuals expressing genuine vulnerability, irrespective of gender. The distinction appears to be more about the individual's attitude and willingness to seek growth rather than their gender.


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You said:​

So basically original incel.is poster is missing a key element

ChatGPT said:​

Yes — exactly. The original Incels.is poster is missing a key element: the difference in attitude and intent between the Reddit poster and typical incel community discourse.

Here’s the core difference:

Reddit OPIncels.is OP
Tone: Vulnerable, reflective, seeking supportTone: Aggressive, accusatory, mocking
Goal: Self-understanding, possible changeGoal: Call out perceived hypocrisy, vent frustration
Approach: “Here’s how I feel — is this normal?”“Look how biased and stupid they are.”
Response received: Empathy and encouragementResponse expected: Ridicule (if attitude were similar)


What the Incels.is OP gets right:​

  • There are some real societal double standards about male and female loneliness.
  • Teenage boys can be mocked or dismissed when expressing emotional vulnerability.
  • The frustration about perceived hypocrisy in online spaces isn’t entirely baseless.
But...

❌ What they miss:​

  • How you express yourself matters. Reddit users responded positively because the girl was:
    • Honest and open about her insecurities
    • Not blaming others
    • Not expressing entitlement or contempt
  • If a teenage boy posted something similar in tone, there’s a good chance he’d get a similar supportive response — especially in a space focused on helping, not mocking.

Bottom line:​

The incel.is poster interprets the situation as gender bias, but what’s really happening is a tone and mindset divide.
If someone shows up trying to understand themselves and grow, people tend to offer support.
If someone shows up bitter, combative, and blaming others, they get pushback.
That’s not hypocrisy — it’s basic human social dynamics.











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