Theory Incels will never be satisfied

[ThePornographer]

I have a theory about guys like us, incels.

Let’s say you’re not a good-looking man — a sub5.

Would you date your looks match? Would you really be satisfied with a sub5 woman?

I often see guys with overweight, unattractive women. It’s really disgusting, and I feel zero envy toward them.

So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?

Today in a park, as always, I saw couples. One of them was an overweight couple — both obese. The woman was acting very needy, kissing his neck and so on.

When he saw me looking, he pushed her hands away. He seemed pissed off — and I know why.

> "Why can’t I just have a whale as a woman? If she wasn’t a whale, she wouldn’t be with me. I know it deep down — that whale is disgusting, and it’s all I can have in this life."



Call me a volcel, but I’ve realized that even if I met a woman who’s my looks match or below — and even if she genuinely loved me (yeah, let’s use our imagination lol) — I would still be deeply unsatisfied, especially when I see other men with better-looking women.

Being an incel means being deprived for so long that you destroy your brain with porn and fantasy for years. You become unable to feel satisfied. Some guys might still be able to — but I know I’m not one of them, and I’m pretty sure many here are like me.

We’ve seen, through the internet, what real love looks like. We’ve seen too many attractive women to ever be satisfied with below-average women.

I’m not saying incels want a 10/10 Stacy — we all do — but most of us would be fine with an average woman.

But if we think about it: if we’re sub5 and our looks match is a sub5 woman, satisfaction will never come.

 

[McFlurryCel]

baiT?? you an IT infiltrator??

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

Yes I would

 

[leafblown]

Fat whores are still whores. If you smell really bad I can't be around anyway

 

[DeathSigil]

Try to actually blend in.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Would you date your looks match? Would you really be satisfied with a sub5 woman?

Yes.

I often see guys with overweight, unattractive women. It’s really disgusting, and I feel zero envy toward them.

I do envy them, because they have affectionate relationships with my looksmatches.

So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?

Yes.

Call me a volcel,

If you insist.

but I’ve realized that even if I met a woman who’s my looks match or below — and even if she genuinely loved me (yeah, let’s use our imagination lol) — I would still be deeply unsatisfied, especially when I see other men with better-looking women.

Eh, I wouldn't, I just want someone to genuinely love me.

Also, I never really understood this kinda mindset. Like, 99% of men can see men in relationships with better-looking women than their girlfriends/wives as long as they simply use public transport and look at the people they pass by, that doesn't mean that 99% of men are unhappy in their relationships.

Being an incel means being deprived for so long that you destroy your brain with porn and fantasy for years.

Porn being "harmful" to brains is just a common fantasy of rightwingers and radical feminists. You can tell by the fact that they never say that to women despite a lot of women happily consuming porn as well.

You become unable to feel satisfied.

Nah.

We’ve seen, through the internet, what real love looks like. We’ve seen too many attractive women to ever be satisfied with below-average women

I would.

But if we think about it: if we’re sub5 and our looks match is a sub5 woman, satisfaction will never come.

It would.

 

[LWii]

Least obvious ITfag

 

[D. B. Gooner]

Why is this getting hate? He's right and that's the true blackpill. Your sub5 self and your sub5 wife would, after some years, begin to resent each other. It will be constant nagging, bickering, retarded attitudes. Sure it's better than complete isolation, it's still pure misery. It's like giving a homeless guy 100 bucks. Ugly women are still always going to crave attractive men.
You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.
Hypergamy sucks but it isn't your main issue. If you are ugly, you won't be happy, it's just that hopeless and cutthroat.

 

[thisgoodlife]

I would, but it would not work the other way around. How could I, as an incel, still have standards? Beggars can’t be choosers. But the opposite does not apply. Suppose I’m a two out of ten, with a looksmatch who is also two out of ten. The male party will be satisfied because he is fulfilling his biological imperative to reproduce. But the female party will be unsatisfied due to the fact that he is her looksmatch. It does not work both ways. She will want something attractive, by her nature, thus leading to an unsatisfactory relationship.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.

She only needs to stay fuckable. Which for myself, and most men, just don't be fat.

 

[D. B. Gooner]

She only needs to stay fuckable. Which for myself, and most men, just don't be fat.

Just get a sex doll at that point. There is no love without physical attraction.

 

[DeathSigil]

Least obvious ITfag

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

Lack of teen love is why I'll never be able to be satisfied, even if I got a woman she'd be a used up whore because of the legal age being excessively high and I'll still be pissed off about all the years spent being alone and being denied experiences.

 

[Qizarate]

My friends say my oneitis is a 4.
So yes.

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?

Yes, if she con love me for who I am and not for my money or for my utility in the household then I'd be perfectly contempt with a landwhale.

 

[ThePornographer]

Why is this getting hate? He's right and that's the true blackpill. Your sub5 self and your sub5 wife would, after some years, begin to resent each other. It will be constant nagging, bickering, retarded attitudes. Sure it's better than complete isolation, it's still pure misery. It's like giving a homeless guy 100 bucks. Ugly women are still always going to crave attractive men.
You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.
Hypergamy sucks but it isn't your main issue. If you are ugly, you won't be happy, it's just that hopeless and cutthroat.

At least someone understand my post.

This is really the ultimate blackpill, to realize that we as Incel are not better than shallow women in the end of the day, we all desire to be with someone at least average attractive.
Most guys will understand if they get a ugly girlfriend once the post nut clarity kicks in, it's going to be wild.

 

[ThePornographer]

Yes, if she con love me for who I am and not for my money or for my utility in the household then I'd be perfectly contempt with a landwhale.

But do you realize that many women are expert in fake love, even landwhale ?
Most whale would leave their husband if they loose all the weight lol

 

[Solid State]

I am not sure.

I am already 41, and many of these sorts of things might be too little, too late by now. Plus, there might be the expectation of marriage as many women are desperate to marry by their 30s and I do not believe in marriage as an institution.

I am a middle-aged man with no sexual or romantic experience and even if the latter were rectified, it would still not make up for the fact that I missed out on all of this right at the time when most other people have settled down by now or have to contend with all of the single mothers flooding my already-shallow dating pool.

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

But do you realize that many women are expert in fake love, even landwhale ?

Yeah, that is why I'll most likely remain an incel