Incels, have you actually tried or did you just know it was over?

[Deleted Member 8090]

I definitely tried because i used to believe in love and lifelong marriage cope.

First time i tried was getting a girls flowers in highschool but she never spoke to me after that and i was too afraid to talk to them. I don't regret that because they later got a bf and made him cry in class from manipulative bs, so it helped me realize women aren't so worth the trouble.

There was another time that barely even counts as trying. Another classmate in school i thought was nice. I tried following their Instagram and immediately on got DENIED. Atp i realized i wouldn't have a gf in highschool

Second time i asked someone in a college cafeteria. They said no. It was whatever to me. I thought it might have a chance because they were fat but i guess they aim for chadlite only

Third time was the lowest standard i went. Pizza face, short, fat, pajeeta. I thought "hey, maybe i have a chance.". They also said no and laughed.

Fourth time was the end. It's when i realized I'd be khhv for life. There was someone in college who was really nice to me for no reason, they would approach me and talk to me, and they seemed excited and interested for no reason. I guess i was bluepilled then and I'd never ever received that sort of attention, so i thought it meant i had a chance. I ended up being a simp thinking that's how things worked, i won't specify how because it's stupid.
Then one time i was at the cafeteria. They walked up to me excitedly and basically said "thanks so much for simping" and looked deadass like they would sit down with me to talk.

What actually happened is they then walked away and sat with some tall Chad bf. They sat there laughing with him.

I was devastated, i couldn't believe how over it was for me. All my ideas that had been carried through childhood about crushes, love, marriage, soulmates, romance stories, was gone. I realized it was only looks that mattered and i didn't have them like the men who were desired.

So, incels, have you tried like me or did you just always know it was over? I wish i could say that i never simped. In fact i almost wish i never believed in all the love/empathy stuff at all and had a Chad "use people" mindset, but it also makes me feel human so it's better this way.

 

[Paladin]

Tried a handful of times and it never worked out

 

[ESL]

i never really tried

 

[zd60]

I tried a decent amount of times never worked

 

[Glassness]

i tried my whole life I worked out for years played sports became good at them won awards tried to transform my life after years I finally did literally nothing changed I was still abused by society the same way I have been my whole life

 

[Glassness]

I think Iv tried to talk to around 60-70 girls In my life

 

[Deleted Member 8090]

i tried my whole life I worked out for years played sports became good at them won awards tried to transform my life after years I finally did literally nothing changed I was still abused by society the same way I have been my whole life

I blame my parents for failed highschool experience. They grew me up weak and sheltered. I survived on Doritos and soda and never played sports or anything so i was very weak and dysgenic when i got into highschool.

Of course i was made fun of for this, sometimes guys would push me and people, even girls, would laugh at me because of this. It almost made me crash out but i kept my composure

 

[Deleted Member 8090]

I think Iv tried to talk to around 60-70 girls In my life

More then me. Proof that "there's one for you somewhere, just try" is cope. 4 or 50, makes no difference when ugly.

 

[Mr Black]

i never really tried

 

[Midnight Animal]

Tried as younger. Wish I didn't.

 

[Glassness]

I blame my parents for failed highschool experience. They grew me up weak and sheltered. I survived on Doritos and soda and never played sports or anything so i was very weak and dysgenic when i got into highschool.

Of course i was made fun of for this, sometimes guys would push me and people, even girls, would laugh at me because of this. It almost made me crash out but i kept my composure

Same happened to me I don't think it's about sports or being sheltered I have been doing sports since I was 4 and have been doing contact sports team since I was 7 and have done it multiple times a week for my whole life I still got treated the same

 

[hansuilluo]

always giveup

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

I tried constantly but nothing ever worked, Only fakecels don't try.

 

[Guatemalancel]

Another classmate in school i thought was nice. I tried following their Instagram and immediately on got DENIED.

I did that exact thing a a few weeks ago and I thank God I didn't go further than that I don't know what I was thinking this was delusional I did that after not sleeping much (3 hours slept at 4 am something woke up at 7 something or 8) and I regret it even today although I think about it less it's upseting really even though I didn't even want to initiate any kind of relationship I just wanted to follow someone's advice and also trying to get myself some confidence also I wanted to ask for some school pdf that I lost and that are no longer avaiable for all and that classmate in question was one of the few girls who I thought was nice to me

I also was talking with someone and after some questions I told them some of the few phrases I exchanged with that girl all my year and this person thought this girl was trying to initiate something of course since this man is bluepilled and he probably sees it from his perspective he has not lived my life he obviously didn't see it logically I am sometimes delusional but I know that wasn't the case and I got this confirmed later

I also want to ask do people you know convince you to go for it and even to simp since seeing some of your stories it's hard to imagine that you did that alone and tought it was a good idea in that case what I did confirmed that I should always follow my intuitions I sometimes acknoweldge's others opinions on myself and the result often is things like that happen

Do people ask you to do those things even when you yourself are convinced it won't work and they also kind of know it won't but they still tell you to go for it? it's almost like some people derive pleasure or they see it as entertainement to see you do things like that especially if you are sub5 since they sometimes treat life as if it was just some youtube video and when you do things like that as just merely just to see the reaction of women since I can't think of any other reasonable explanation except that they might be just be very ignorant

Fourth time was the end. It's when i realized I'd be khhv for life. There was someone in college who was really nice to me for no reason, they would approach me and talk to me, and they seemed excited and interested for no reason. I guess i was bluepilled then and I'd never ever received that sort of attention, so i thought it meant i had a chance. I ended up being a simp thinking that's how things worked, i won't specify how because it's stupid.
Then one time i was at the cafeteria. They walked up to me excitedly and basically said "thanks so much for simping" and looked deadass like they would sit down with me to talk.

What actually happened is they then walked away and sat with some tall Chad bf. They sat there laughing with him.

This is extremely brutal it almost feels fake to be honest It almost reminds me of something like dbdr animations

I was devastated, i couldn't believe how over it was for me. All my ideas that had been carried through childhood about crushes, love, marriage, soulmates, romance stories, was gone. I realized it was only looks that mattered and i didn't have them like the men who were desired.

It's brutal if you even believed in that I think I was blackpilled young which is why I did not "Try" like that and I never simped I also was either invisible or mocked for most of my time in high school I also didn't seek a relationship aside from I knew how it was going to end and to save myself from issues and embarrasment and also because of various factors including how european women are

So, incels, have you tried like me or did you just always know it was over? I wish i could say that i never simped. In fact i almost wish i never believed in all the love/empathy stuff at all and had a Chad "use people" mindset, but it also makes me feel human so it's better this way.

I didn't do any of simping I try to be nice to people but I won't be nicer to women for no reason simping is useless and I think women might even be disgusted by anyone that is not a normie or chad simping

 

[Deleted Member 8090]

I also want to ask do people you know convince you to go for it

Kind of, but it was mostly my fault because I was bluepilled back then

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I tried

Then I realized it would never begin

 

[Scandi_Incel]

Tried two times and got rejected both times and about 2-3 weeks after i tried with the second girl she hooked up with some 6'5-6'7 gigachad and i started paying attention to the guys that was succesfull with girls and had girlfriends and all of them were tall and minimum chadlite in the face where as the majority of guys in general had no success with girls or any girlfriends.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I asked the same question and got accused of being an infiltrator.


Yes I tried ascending and looksmaxxing because I wrongly assumed as a young ugly sperg that my fucked up teeth were the only thing that was holding me back. So I got veneers. I worked out. I approached girls.

Nothing worked. I am a truecel.


Getting veneers doesn’t give me a jawline. In fact a Hollywood smile with no jawline looks even more alien than crooked teeth and no jawline.

Lifting 200 doesn’t remove my negative canthal tilt or my weird looking ears.


Being confident doesn’t remove my baby face that makes me look 13.



Average message I got approaching foids was this
“Hi! I’d love to have sex!!!! (Not with you lol)!”

(That rejection- id love to have sex but not with you- was apparently extremely common in 2017 and the foids copied it from fags on Grindr who created it).

 

[aryanmikmaq]

I definitely tried because i used to believe in love and lifelong marriage cope.

First time i tried was getting a girls flowers in highschool but she never spoke to me after that and i was too afraid to talk to them. I don't regret that because they later got a bf and made him cry in class from manipulative bs, so it helped me realize women aren't so worth the trouble.

There was another time that barely even counts as trying. Another classmate in school i thought was nice. I tried following their Instagram and immediately on got DENIED. Atp i realized i wouldn't have a gf in highschool

Second time i asked someone in a college cafeteria. They said no. It was whatever to me. I thought it might have a chance because they were fat but i guess they aim for chadlite only

Third time was the lowest standard i went. Pizza face, short, fat, pajeeta. I thought "hey, maybe i have a chance.". They also said no and laughed.

Fourth time was the end. It's when i realized I'd be khhv for life. There was someone in college who was really nice to me for no reason, they would approach me and talk to me, and they seemed excited and interested for no reason. I guess i was bluepilled then and I'd never ever received that sort of attention, so i thought it meant i had a chance. I ended up being a simp thinking that's how things worked, i won't specify how because it's stupid.
Then one time i was at the cafeteria. They walked up to me excitedly and basically said "thanks so much for simping" and looked deadass like they would sit down with me to talk.

What actually happened is they then walked away and sat with some tall Chad bf. They sat there laughing with him.

I was devastated, i couldn't believe how over it was for me. All my ideas that had been carried through childhood about crushes, love, marriage, soulmates, romance stories, was gone. I realized it was only looks that mattered and i didn't have them like the men who were desired.

So, incels, have you tried like me or did you just always know it was over? I wish i could say that i never simped. In fact i almost wish i never believed in all the love/empathy stuff at all and had a Chad "use people" mindset, but it also makes me feel human so it's better this way.

I am too afraid to cold approach because I’m a socially awkward autist but I have tried talking to girls on snap when I was in highschool and eventually all of them stopped talking to me or unadded me. Literally nobody texts me anymore besides family, online friends, and my one irl friend.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Everyone should have tried at least once.