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Incels envy Chads, but I rather be a 'Steven'

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Steven - the normie-chad hybrid guy who's about an 8, he's emotionally mature from early age. He knows what he wants within the confinement of society. The type of dude that has serious relationships from his teens, low-key alpha, stays in the background cos he doesn't crave attention or drama, neither bully or bullied, social but doesn't need or seek validation from others. intelligent but not a geek, strong but not calm. From young age he gets the career he wants, wife, family, house, etc on auto-pilot. Has other Stevens as friends and do typical hobby stuff together. He expresses normie-opinions in social contexts, but in reality he doesn't care one way or the other. Neither a legend or loser, he's just Steven who's rather boring character but leads a stable and content life.
 
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what you're saying is that you want a mediocre life, but even to live that mediocre life you need to be atleast a chadlite ,NT, tall and born , raised in a rich upper class family. That's literally what it is
 
this is one of those times where I go dnr
 
low-key alpha
kingsley shut up GIF

I hate these redpillers
 
So you basically mentioned a chad, yeah no shit you would want that
 
what you're saying is that you want a mediocre life, but even to live that mediocre life you need to be atleast a chadlite ,NT, tall and born , raised in a rich upper class family. That's literally what it is
Basically yes, I've seen Chads fail in life due to too much success in life from early age causing grand delusions. These guys succumb to drugs, crime or other things like injuiries in extreme sports. Many Chads literally think they're invincible while a Steven is grounded in reality.
Also, compared to an incels life a Stevens life is heaven.
 
Basically yes, I've seen Chads fail in life due to too much success in life from early age causing grand delusions. These guys succumb to drugs, crime or other things like injuiries in extreme sports. Many Chads literally think they're invincible while a Steven is grounded in reality.
Also, compared to an incels life a Stevens life is heaven.
chads do whatever they want, it's a matter of choice
 
chads do whatever they want, it's a matter of choice
Meaning they are prone to bad choices due to delusions about life.
I'm an oldcel and I seen what happens to the different groups later in life.

Incels - Stay incel and gets on welfare due to mental issues.
Normies - Marries a fatty and have kids and a provider existance.
Chads - Some do well, yet others fall off hard due to irrational actions, also many of them never grow up at all.
Stevens - They have hot wives, great careers and so on yet rarely feel to need to show off. They're just enjoying life.
 
Meaning they are prone to bad choices due to delusions about life.
I'm an oldcel and I seen what happens to the different groups later in life.

Incels - Stay incel and gets on welfare due to mental issues.
Normies - Marries a fatty and have kids and a provider existance.
Chads - Some do well, yet others fall off hard due to irrational actions, also many of them never grow up at all.
Stevens - They have hot wives, great careers and so on yet rarely feel to need to show off. They're just enjoying life.
your definition of steven is far superior than that of a chad, it's more blessed and luckier than chads.
 
your definition of steven is far superior than that of a chad, it's more blessed and luckier than chads.
That depends what you want, a proper Chad can have more sex, validation, success, etc while a Steven is more about stable happiness. These values may change at different stages in life, it's why I personally envy a Steven who seems to manage life effortlessly at every stage, while Chads may have more variables depending on his choices and environment.
 
What i want is tits. Big tits.
 
I just want a pair of massive htb pale pinky tits suffocating my face
 
Meaning they are prone to bad choices due to delusions about life.
I'm an oldcel and I seen what happens to the different groups later in life.

Incels - Stay incel and gets on welfare due to mental issues.
Normies - Marries a fatty and have kids and a provider existance.
Chads - Some do well, yet others fall off hard due to irrational actions, also many of them never grow up at all.
Stevens - They have hot wives, great careers and so on yet rarely feel to need to show off. They're just enjoying life.
Idk why you try to create new words.
Your "steven" is just chad that makes certain choices you like.
Incel/normie/chad are a looks scale, not a behavior one.
 
Same, I'd rather be loyal to 1 wife with fairytale Disney love where she's also exclusive and loyal, but that doesn't exist nowadays.

Men adapt, we always did throughout history.

Chads nowadays who pump and dump are a creation of everything that happened after the 1950's and 2010's.
They know it's dangerous to get emotionally invested into 1 woman simply cause she holds all the cards, has the world and options.at her fingertips.
It's not that they don't want to loyal and be a 'Steven' with a loving wife and family.
It's simply cause they adapt to today's predicament if the dating market, women etc that they decide it's risky to do so
 
Idk why you try to create new words.
Your "steven" is just chad that makes certain choices you like.
Incel/normie/chad are a looks scale, not a behavior one.
They can also function as societal archetypes in modern society, as such they can and should be expanded upon.
 
Ok nigga I will be Chad then
 
Same, I'd rather be loyal to 1 wife with fairytale Disney love where she's also exclusive and loyal, but that doesn't exist nowadays.

Men adapt, we always did throughout history.

Chads nowadays who pump and dump are a creation of everything that happened after the 1950's and 2010's.
They know it's dangerous to get emotionally invested into 1 woman simply cause she holds all the cards, has the world and options.at her fingertips.
It's not that they don't want to loyal and be a 'Steven' with a loving wife and family.
It's simply cause they adapt to today's predicament if the dating market, women etc that they decide it's risky to do so
I know of many Stevens who did just that tho, handsome men that just did everything right while Chads fucked around and ended up with addictions, bad economy and bastard children.
 

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