Inceldom gets worse as you age not better

[TheJoker]

There seems to be a cope that men age like wine, and women age like milk.

The fact is as a 35+ incel - i've found that inceldom gets worse as you age. The best time to actually
find a female is when you're 19-25. Women at this age don't have their career, kids, and other things.
Back then I was actively trying to find a date. I did so many things and tried everything. Women were
only interested in looks.

Women 26+ are just interested in men with good jobs as well as good looks. The betas use education to
gain access to status, whereas good looking men just breeze through.

There is a very real problem of looks discrimination in the west. I almost feel like I was stopped from
finding a female, because of a group of politicians who decided to make me seem low value due to my appearance.

I know something is not right and I am pretty sure if someone dug deep enough, the government would
be accountable for stopping a certain demographic of men from finding dates or some form of connection
with a female.

Part of the problem is lack of autism support. In the UK if you have autism, you're pretty much set up to fail.
50% of our prison population is full of men on some form of neuro-divergent spectrum. The Conservative
government also put the autism and learning support fund to 0 on the budget in previous years. As a older male, we don't
have access to anything, its mostly given to younger people.

The researchers who said incels just have bad mental health, did a lot of us an injustice. Those people should
be held accountable for running bad research, that leads to incorrect decisions by governments. Now my
government, actually thinks im a terrorist.

 

[grapeisfun]

Yup I’m 31 and women don’t even look at me. In your 30s you have to deal with a bitch that has been embittered by her failed relationships (aka trying to lock down Chad) and who will abuse you and demean you because she still thinks she deserves better.

A foid at work tried to set me up with a coworker in her 30s and the foid was belittling me and even told me to call her beautiful, if not she would leave. Nothing ever happened between us except talking stage but needless to say I stopped hanging out with the crazy bitch! Call me volcel I don’t care. Id rather keep my dignity.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Seemed more like common sense to me. The only ones falling for that 'men age like fine wine' nonsense appear to be the redpillers and MGTOW guys.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Yup I’m 31 and women don’t even look at me. In your 30s you have to deal with a bitch that has been embittered by her failed relationships (aka trying to lock down Chad) and who will abuse you and demean you because she still thinks she deserves better.

A foid at work tried to set me up with a coworker in her 30s and the foid was belittling me and even told me to call her beautiful, if not she would leave. Nothing ever happened between us except talking stage but needless to say I stopped hanging out with the crazy bitch! Call me volcel I don’t care. Id rather keep my dignity.

It's demoralizing to know that your already slim chances have narrowed down even further, and that you mostly have to deal with post prime sloppy seconds.
I'm in my mid 20s and I brace for the worst

 

[B33troot]

Inceldom gets worse as you age not better​

Yes. As a 40+ year old inkwell, I can say that's absolutely true.

Your desperation increases while your hope decreases.

You'll see guys HALF your age with GFs and feel absolutely demoralized.

I could write a whole book on this. But here are some threads I've written on this matter.

The brutality of being an incel in your 40s

Being a 40+ year old incel is very different from being an incel in your 20s and 30s. If you're in your late 20s and early 30s, being single as an incel is bearable at least in terms of how your family, friends and peers perceive you. What I mean is that at best, they assume you have that...

incels.is

As a 40+ year old inkwell, I cannot cope with the fact that guys HALF my age have GFs.

As a 40+ year old inkwell, I cannot cope with the fact that guys HALF my age have GFs. 20 years ago when I was still bluepilled and hopeful of finding a GF, those guys were all either babies in diapers or literal embryos; some of them didn't even exist. But now they've all grown into normal...

incels.is

 

[Aku no Hana]

Seemed more like common sense to me. The only ones falling for that 'men age like fine wine' nonsense appear to be the redpillers and MGTOW guys.

They're so full of shit. God, I can't fucking stand the Redpillers. I read what they say so much and it's so obnoxious and wrong. I have so much to say about them. I have a lot of great ideas to make threads here breaking down how they are wrong about certain things.

On this point, they are obviously just acting just because some average guys, brads and LTNs manage to make money at some point in their 20's so their 30's go better than their 20's in regards to dating and women as a result, that this blanket applies to all men, regardless of our height, looks, and circumstances. One of the main things Redpillers deny is how much a guy can be fucked due to genetics due to low height + ugly looks. On top of this, though, obviously not all men will be able to get a good paying job, let alone rich, but Redpillers are flat-out just typical conservative capitalists saying "you can make it if you try, if you're poor it's your fault!" It's the most typical propaganda imaginable. (I even saw Andrew Tate once criticizing this notion, even though overall he encourages it and victim-blames poor people...these people are just insane.)

While I'm at it, I might as well bring up one of the things I've wanted to talk about the most.

You know how they are obsessed with talking about "male feminists" and "niceguys?" I've already written about how the redpill is gynocentric, for example here. (but more than anything, I recommend reading this which I've linked to in it, he explains it better than anyone) The way they repeatedly are hostile to men no different from Feminists like this, rests my case. Also: they make a point of supporting Feminism. They are literally typical Liberals who say the: "I support Feminism when it's about equality, I just don't like woke" line.

Ever realize this "niceguy" thing is just a boogeyman and myth there to dehumanize men, especially men that have it harder or have it the worst? (like us) It's just a mythology.

I'm not saying that they aren't describing real men who act the way they describe, I am criticizing the label that they put on it and its broader implications for how they view men and women, if that makes sense. They are literally presenting women as supposed hapless victims of "the niceguy" boogeyman. If a women interacts with a guy like this at all, and sleeps with him or dates him, that is entirely her decision. But Redpillers frame this no differently than Feminists.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

They're so full of shit. God, I can't fucking stand the Redpillers. I read what they say so much and it's so obnoxious and wrong. I have so much to say about them. I have a lot of great ideas to make threads here breaking down how they are wrong about certain things.

On this point, they are obviously just acting just because some average guys, brads and LTNs manage to make money at some point in their 20's so their 30's go better than their 20's in regards to dating and women as a result, that this blanket applies to all men, regardless of our height, looks, and circumstances. One of the main things Redpillers deny is how much a guy can be fucked due to genetics due to low height + ugly looks. On top of this, though, obviously not all men will be able to get a good paying job, let alone rich, but Redpillers are flat-out just typical conservative capitalists saying "you can make it if you try, if you're poor it's your fault!" It's the most typical propaganda imaginable. (I even saw Andrew Tate once criticizing this notion, even though overall he encourages it and victim-blames poor people...these people are just insane.)

While I'm at it, I might as well bring up one of the things I've wanted to talk about the most.

You know how they are obsessed with talking about "male feminists" and "niceguys?" I've already written about how the redpill is gynocentric, for example here. (but more than anything, I recommend reading this which I've linked to in it, he explains it better than anyone) The way they repeatedly are hostile to men no different from Feminists like this, rests my case. Also: they make a point of supporting Feminism. They are literally typical Liberals who say the: "I support Feminism when it's about equality, I just don't like woke" line.

Ever realize this "niceguy" thing is just a boogeyman and myth there to dehumanize men, especially men that have it harder or have it the worst? (like us) It's just a mythology.

I'm not saying that they aren't describing real men who act the way they describe, I am criticizing the label that they put on it and its broader implications for how they view men and women, if that makes sense. They are literally presenting women as supposed hapless victims of "the niceguy" boogeyman. If a women interacts with a guy like this at all, and sleeps with him or dates him, that is entirely her decision. But Redpillers frame this no differently than Feminists.

The core issue I have with redpillers is its glaring double standard. Women are never held accountable for their actions, while men are expected to perpetually strive for perfection. According to their logic, a man must excel in every way: physique, finances, status, and emotional resilience. Meanwhile, women face zero social repercussions for whoring around, which is not only normalized but often celebrated.
What’s truly absurd is how redpillers frame this as some inevitable societal shift, one that men must accept or be deemed inadequate. If you reject the idea that modern dating should revolve around tolerating a wife with the sexual history of an ancient prostitute (which is what the average woman has nowadays), you’re labeled insecure or 'not a real man.'
It’s always men who must adapt, suppress their instincts, and conform according to those cucks, cause that's what they actually are.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Absolutely. I’m very close to 30. And it’s brutal. Lying to myself is much less possible than when i was 23-24 or even 25-26

I don’t look my age. I’m 5’4 and a 1/10, I feel like I’m 20 also due to my inexperience

 

[Corvus]

Literally every 20 year old at my work has kids or is married.

If you didn’t secure a parter by middle school its fucking over.

 

[eye4139]

does it really? I think at the cost of my sanity I'm detaching myself from any desire for companionship. eventually once this process is complete, i shouldn't suffer anymore.

 

[shishiowasright]

I’m 23 and it seems like everyone I graduated high school with are still dating/even marrying the partner they were with at the time.

The few friends I had who never dated in high school still can’t be seen with a partner to this day.. life is a lottery