A colleague of mine almost called me a loser because of that. Saying it's wrong to stay at home "doing nothing", etc. As if being home means you're just sitting there doing nothing, and that party goers are always right ... I hate to be at a party and just feel off and alone and bored, which is how most "parties" feel to me. Normoid humans are lame. I spend most of my time alone or in company of the great minds of previous eras, learning new things, reading, drawing and playing vidyas, which are the best copes on planet earth at that moment.