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People who have experienced social and romantic success always seem to be taking life seriously. They care about things like their career, being relevant, getting likes and follows on social media, etc. They take themselves seriously and seem to have a drive to succeed. Over the years what I have noticed is that women seem to be the ones who can focus more, care about getting good grades, care about being athletes and furthering their career.
It makes sense, because they have fufilled love and belonging on the hierarchy of needs, so they can actually move on to goals that lead to self-actualization. Not surprisingly, this is also Chad, who doesn't have to worry about fulfilling his sexual or romantic needs, so he can focus on his career, or running a business or generally being successful
This can show up in bluepilled males as well, though it deteriorates over the years if they can't find a romantic relationship.
What I find is that most guys who aren't Chad seem to just coast by in life. They might work, might not, they might have hobbies, might not. For the most part, people like us don't take life as seriously. We don't care about making more money, having a good career or social media status because none of that really matters if you're a kissless virgin. Men who aren't sexually successful are content with doing the bare minimum that is needed for them to live and be entertained.
It makes sense, because they have fufilled love and belonging on the hierarchy of needs, so they can actually move on to goals that lead to self-actualization. Not surprisingly, this is also Chad, who doesn't have to worry about fulfilling his sexual or romantic needs, so he can focus on his career, or running a business or generally being successful
This can show up in bluepilled males as well, though it deteriorates over the years if they can't find a romantic relationship.
What I find is that most guys who aren't Chad seem to just coast by in life. They might work, might not, they might have hobbies, might not. For the most part, people like us don't take life as seriously. We don't care about making more money, having a good career or social media status because none of that really matters if you're a kissless virgin. Men who aren't sexually successful are content with doing the bare minimum that is needed for them to live and be entertained.
