I get the feeling that a lot of incels, not just autists and mentalcels , are guilty of what a lot of people call living in your own world. Do you guys ever get so completely engrossed in what's going on inside your own head that your inner life becomes distinguishable from your actual life outside of your skull? Do you often stop paying attention to the outside world when you think about things? Not being delusional but simply living inside your own head and having the vast majority of experiences you'd deem as being relevant to you occur inside my head.
As a child I was always accused of this and I sometimes get comments that I look spaced out or look like I don't give a shit now, I think they have a point because I haven't spoken to anyone in almost six hours but feel like I've been talking to people and having conversations because of my inner monologue.
I remember when I was in year 11 and this girl came up to me giggling asking why I was so quiet, because I hadn't said anything the whole day and was then sitting alone, and i was genuinely confused for a second because the fact I was thinking made it seem like everything was lively and full of dialogue. She sat across a two seater from me because we were on an excursion with 6 people and looked at me as if she was fucken studying me because my behaviour was so autistically bizarre until the period of eating lunch ended. During this time I didn't even try to save face by speaking because I didn't feel the need to, it would be like feeling hungry after eating a perceived meal.
Is this an incel trait? Do higher IQ incels here make complex fictional worlds with their thoughts? Do you become engrossed in fantasising about a situation based on an observation (ie wishing someone would go ER in a lecture room after seeing a foid text her soy orbiter) that you cast aside and lose track of the real situation in front if you? This makes concentrating at lectures a nightmare for me, one semi relevant word from the lecturer and I begin a five minute mental tangent as I stare into space.
As a child I was always accused of this and I sometimes get comments that I look spaced out or look like I don't give a shit now, I think they have a point because I haven't spoken to anyone in almost six hours but feel like I've been talking to people and having conversations because of my inner monologue.
I remember when I was in year 11 and this girl came up to me giggling asking why I was so quiet, because I hadn't said anything the whole day and was then sitting alone, and i was genuinely confused for a second because the fact I was thinking made it seem like everything was lively and full of dialogue. She sat across a two seater from me because we were on an excursion with 6 people and looked at me as if she was fucken studying me because my behaviour was so autistically bizarre until the period of eating lunch ended. During this time I didn't even try to save face by speaking because I didn't feel the need to, it would be like feeling hungry after eating a perceived meal.
Is this an incel trait? Do higher IQ incels here make complex fictional worlds with their thoughts? Do you become engrossed in fantasising about a situation based on an observation (ie wishing someone would go ER in a lecture room after seeing a foid text her soy orbiter) that you cast aside and lose track of the real situation in front if you? This makes concentrating at lectures a nightmare for me, one semi relevant word from the lecturer and I begin a five minute mental tangent as I stare into space.
