In my 20s and don't know how to drive

[Vermilioncore]

It's humiliating. I've tried so many times and just can't do it. I don't know how others do it with ease. Maybe being an incel is an all-encompassing curse that affects even other, non related aspects my life. Before, when I actually had a job, all my teen coworkers (all whom completely mogged me in looks and height) knew how to drive and when the shifts ended, I'd see them all walk to their cars while talking and then get in their cars and drive off as I stayed there like a retarded fuck waiting for mommy to pick my 22 year old as up. It's depressing that I am the way I am.

 

[torujo]

same, i dont have a driving license but i have watched tutorials on youtube and i think i would know how to drive

 

[Deleted member 15752]

just ldar

 

[Deleted member 8353]

What stops you? Is it anxiety while driving, having to deal with other drivers, poor coordination or what? I hate driving but I can do it well enough I guess, as I got my license easily. My problem is not having a vehicle.

 

[NeetSupremacist]

same here, in my mid twenties and still no license.

 

[Vermilioncore]

same, i dont have a driving license but i have watched tutorials on youtube and i think i would know how to drive

It's really hard imo tbh. Like, any wrong move and you kill someone and end up in prison for life. I guess as an incel, it doesn't really matter though. In prison or not, I'm still fucked.

 

[ihaveno1]

no point of learning how to drive at this point if u have nowhere to go

 

[Vermilioncore]

What stops you? Is it anxiety while driving, having to deal with other drivers, poor coordination or what? I hate driving but I can do it well enough I guess, as I got my license easily. My problem is not having a vehicle.

Yep, anxiety, fear, unable to concentrate, poor coordination, etc. I just don't belong behind the wheel. I'll probably kill the first pedestrian I come across with my luck.

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

The driver's license pill will be the end of human civilization

 

[Vermilioncore]

not point of learning how to drive at this point if u have nowhere to go

 

[Joelossus]

I don't have my license either, but i don't really feel too bad about it tbh, since i couldn't afford a car anyway.

no point of learning how to drive at this point if u have nowhere to go

Also this

 

[Smallondick]

same here, in my mid twenties and still no license.

 

[Anoncel123]

Yep, anxiety, fear, unable to concentrate, poor coordination, etc. I just don't belong behind the wheel. I'll probably kill the first pedestrian I come across with my luck.

I know this feeling tbh. When I was taking driving lessons I almost crashed the car into a wall. After that I never did it again, and I do not see the point of continuing to do it anyway. I only know how to ride a bicycle and I am happy with it.

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

It’s probably just overwhelming for some reason.

I’ll bet you a light switch will magically turn on one day, and it will become easy for you.

 

[BRCel123]

driving is pretty hard for me ngl

 

[Pigman]

just ldar

 

[LastGerman]

when I actually had a job, all my teen coworkers (all whom completely mogged me in looks and height) knew how to drive and when the shifts ended, I'd see them all walk to their cars while talking and then get in their cars and drive off as I stayed there like a retarded fuck waiting for mommy to pick my 22 year old as up. It's depressing that I am the way I am.

Remember that even females younger than you and younger than me are going to their car, while we have to watch them like little cucks and then we have to take the bus or we have to walk.

The driver's license pill will be the end of human civilization

It actually really is. If you do not have a driver licence as a grown up man, you can actually go an kill yourself.

Yep, anxiety, fear, unable to concentrate, poor coordination, etc. I just don't belong behind the wheel. I'll probably kill the first pedestrian I come across with my luck.

Reading this is kind of hard for me, since most females are allowed to drive and yet we as men are not capable of? Something is really wrong here.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

damn a lot of drivers license pill posts.

 

[Vermilioncore]

damn a lot of drivers license pill posts.

It's a big problem. It's interesting to see it connected to inceldom. Like, are incels unable to drive because they're incels or are they incels because they can't drive?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

It's a big problem. It's interesting to see it connected to inceldom. Like, are incels unable to drive because they're incels or are they incels because they can't drive?

That’s a good question tbh. Without a car, you can’t really go places and have a good social life and shit. But incels may be too depressed about the blackpill that they lack the motivation to learn

 

[Deleted member 17997]

It might be connected to inceldom as a manifestation of poor confidence? I also struggle with driving anxiety, however, I finally took the permit test and am in the process of driving enough hours in order to get the official license.


This might not be what you're looking for but you could try systematic desensitization which is a form of behavioral psychotherapy which eases your anxiety. As long as you have someone with you and are willing to try it, it might work. This is actually what helped me overcome my anxiety a little bit.

Basically you just take driving in baby steps until you're comfortable at said stage then moving on:

1. Getting in the driver's seat of a car
2. Turning it on
3. Moving the steering wheel with car on.
4. Shifting gears and seeing how the car moves.
5. Going down your street and back up.
6. Going around your neighborhood and practicing turns
7. Getting on a public road and practicing everything.
8. Getting on the highway
9. Take the test

That would be the basic premise of systematic desensitization although if you're serious about trying it, you should probably go to a behavioral therapist just to make sure it would work for you.

 

[Vermilioncore]

It might be connected to inceldom as a manifestation of poor confidence? I also struggle with driving anxiety, however, I finally took the permit test and am in the process of driving enough hours in order to get the official license.


This might not be what you're looking for but you could try systematic desensitization which is a form of behavioral psychotherapy which eases your anxiety. As long as you have someone with you and are willing to try it, it might work. This is actually what helped me overcome my anxiety a little bit.

Basically you just take driving in baby steps until you're comfortable at said stage then moving on:

1. Getting in the driver's seat of a car
2. Turning it on
3. Moving the steering wheel with car on.
4. Shifting gears and seeing how the car moves.
5. Going down your street and back up.
6. Going around your neighborhood and practicing turns
7. Getting on a public road and practicing everything.
8. Getting on the highway
9. Take the test

That would be the basic premise of systematic desensitization although if you're serious about trying it, you should probably go to a behavioral therapist just to make sure it would work for you.

Systematic Desensitization sounds interesting. I'm going to read up on it. Thanks, man. Are you comfortable on the main roads yet?

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Systematic Desensitization sounds interesting. I'm going to read up on it. Thanks, man. Are you comfortable on the main roads yet?

For the most part. I still get a bit anxious, I'm constantly checking my mirrors and speed every few seconds like a pattern and get nervous when I have cars behind me. The other day I went on the highway for the third time and I didn't die which gave me a confidence boost. TBH, I always feel more confident every time I finish driving somewhere.

 

[StaroRavager]

I only know how to ride a bicycle and I am happy with it.

I don’t even know how to do that. It’s over

 

[Vermilioncore]

For the most part. I still get a bit anxious, I'm constantly checking my mirrors and speed every few seconds like a pattern and get nervous when I have cars behind me. The other day I went on the highway for the third time and I didn't die which gave me a confidence boost. TBH, I always feel more confident every time I finish driving somewhere.

Keep it up man. I hope you feel 100% comfortable by the end of the year (or sooner)

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Keep it up man. I hope you feel 100% comfortable by the end of the year (or sooner)

Thanks!

 

[FinnCel]

Are you trying to drive with a manual or automatic?

 

[Vermilioncore]

Are you trying to drive with a manual or automatic?

Automatic. I just feel like whenever I'm on the road, I'm going to crash into something. My worst fear on the road is accidentally killing someone or paralyzing myself in an accident.

 

[Blue Squirtle]

I don't ever think about driving since I probably never will.

 

[Total Imbecile]

I will never understand people saying they dont know how to drive

Have you ever played a GTA game? Its literally like that but just IRL and you cant go all out because you dont wanna crash or kill someone

 

[FinnCel]

Automatic. I just feel like whenever I'm on the road, I'm going to crash into something. My worst fear on the road is accidentally killing someone or paralyzing myself in an accident.

If you were driving in the countryside with no-one around, would you find it easier to drive?

 

[ovrload]

if youre a NEET owning a car is a waste of money anyway.

 

[Vermilioncore]

If you were driving in the countryside with no-one around, would you find it easier to drive?

Way easier. Like, I can do fine when it's a long road with no complicated road signs, lights, intersections, etc. I wish I lived in the middle of nowhere. I'm already NEETcel and LDARing so I might as well just live in the middle of nowhere and turn into a hunter gatherer. But then again, I'm weak af and a manlet so I probably would die out there on my own.

if youre a NEET owning a car is a waste of money anyway.

 

[Michael15651]

Lay down and register.
Lay down and relax.
Lay down and rot.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Lay down and register.
Lay down and relax.
Lay down and rot.

And eventually lay down and rope

 

[Michael15651]

And eventually lay down and rope

Ah yes, forgot to mention that one.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Same but if I learn to drive I feel like I'd run over the first foid I saw so maybe its a good thing

 

[Vermilioncore]

Same but if I learn to drive I feel like I'd run over the first foid I saw so maybe its a good thing

Yikes. Yeah. Not good. Don't wanna run them ovER, do we?

 

[Sino-ricecel]

Get the licens man. You'll gain the option to ER.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Yikes. Yeah. Not good. Don't wanna run them ovER, do we?

nevER lad, that'd be awful