Venting I'm too scared to approach a girl and tell her I like her

[Esoteric7]

I've never done it before

How do I get over the fear of talking to a female so that I can do a couple of approaches before definitively concluding that it’s all for me

Also jfl at being scared of a women who I am stronger than, more intelligent than, (would’ve said taller than but bitches these days are like 6 feet), is highly insecure, has nothing really going for herself other than scrolling on her phone looking at TikTok

Whenever I walk past a girl that I’d like to talk to but don't due to fear, I get really upset because I know that I will never see her ever again and it torments me

I also tell myself that my existence here is faster than the blink of an eye in the grand scheme of time, and that nothing I do or that happens to me really matters, but it’s still not enough to get over the initial fear

 

[sbccel]

I've never done it before

How do I get over the fear of talking to a female so that I can do a couple of approaches before definitively concluding that it’s all for me

Also jfl at being scared of a women who I am stronger than, more intelligent than, (would’ve said taller than but bitches these days are like 6 feet), is highly insecure, has nothing really going for herself other than scrolling on her phone looking at TikTok

Whenever I walk past a girl that I’d like to talk to but don't due to fear, I get really upset because I know that I will never see her ever again and it torments me

I also tell myself that my existence here is faster than the blink of an eye in the grand scheme of time, and that nothing I do or that happens to me really matters, but it’s still not enough to get over the initial fear

Unless they give you sex, there’s no point in talking to a woman. Ask her to fuck if you think you “like her”. If she says no, call her a bitch and move on about your day.

 

[Mcbighog]

Cold approaching is just a search for trauma farming would not recommend unless Chad

 

[Ghostface]

How do I get over the fear of talking to a female

u have to be a tall chad first

 

[ClovER]

First of all, you have to do it in a place where people are there to meet each other, because if it is on the street, be sure that they will reject you.
When you talk, do it normally as you would with any person and then if something else happens, it will happen (a friendship). And you don't ask for his number, but for his social network, since if you ask for his number he probably won't give it to you.

 

[NarcoCasino]

The reason you are scared to approach is not because of her but because of other people interfering when bitched and moans which she will…

It’s not her, it’s other men who gang up on you like coward all because you are trying to find a partner…

Murder is the only solution as this point

 

[H8mychudlife]

Just imagine yourself as a chad and take your moment, women love confidence so practise the pick up lines in thr mirror

 

[( -_•)▄︻テحكـ━一]

Just imagine yourself as a chad and take your moment, women love confidence so practise the pick up lines in thr mirror

this ^ also you probably shouldnt be asking this on an involuntary celibate forum

 

[LeFrenchCel]

- go for it
- ask her out
- get rejected
- think about something else

The more time you spend wondering "what if?" or daydreaming scenarios about you and her being together, the more time you'll have to wait before forgetting about her

If you think too much without taking any action, you might end up thinking about her for way too long, maybe even you won't be able to forget her at all

The earlier you ask a girl out, the sooner you'll be able to forget her, and I speak on personal experiences.

 

[ezio6]

Cold approaching is just a search for trauma farming would not recommend unless Chad

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Unless they give you sex, there’s no point in talking to a woman. Ask her to fuck if you think you “like her”. If she says no, call her a bitch and move on about your day.

Best advice.

 

[Karas]

Step 1 : Be attractive
Step 2 : Don't be unattractive

 

[Sir Silentium]

If you are sub 5 don't do it. It's a humiliation ritual.

 

[ColderManTruce]

Brutal jestermaxxpill

Just imagine yourself as a chad and take your moment, women love confidence so practise the pick up lines in thr mirror

 

[PersonalityChad]

If you have to approach you have already lost

 

[Emba]

If you have never tried and never been constantly rejected, then, you are not an incel.

Gtfooh!

Reported!

 

[Zaraj11]

If you have never tried and never been constantly rejected, then, you are not an incel.

Gtfooh!

Reported!

Mentalcels exist.

 

[5ft4ropeconnoisseur]

If a woman is attracted to you she will make painfully obvious. Otherwise don’t waste your time

 

[Cuckoja]

Go for it. Fuck the consequences, youll get over it if she rejects you. At least youre gonna beat your fear.

 

[BSGMANLET]

Go for it. Fuck the consequences, youll get over it if she rejects you. At least youre gonna beat your fear.

Yeah I did this to my oneitis.
She didn't even say anything just looked at me and walked away. She probably didn't want me to feel bad but that just made me feel worse but atleast I got it off my chest.

 

[Cuckoja]

Yeah I did this to my oneitis.
She didn't even say anything just looked at me and walked away. She probably didn't want me to feel bad but that just made me feel worse but atleast I got it off my chest.

Yeah, be done with it and not overthink it 10 years later what could have been. Youre braver than i am. When my onitis heard rumors that i like her, i denied everything.

 

[leafblown]

Don't do it. Jack off and go to sleep instead. You're not scared, you just already know what will happen

 

[BSGMANLET]

Yeah, be done with it and not overthink it 10 years later what could have been. Youre braver than i am. When my onitis heard rumors that i like her, i denied everything.

If a female likes you shouldn't have to do to much. She'll either try to get close to you(near your vicinity) ask if your single or approach you first.

 

[Emba]

Mentalcels exist.

That means nothing.

You might as well be a volcel

 

[Takeyami1987]

If you have never tried and never been constantly rejected, then, you are not an incel.

Gtfooh!

Reported!

you don't need to approach 200 girls and get rejected to know its over

 

[Emba]

you don't need to approach 200 girls and get rejected to know its over

Ten or twenty

But more than 0

 

[Takeyami1987]

Ten or twenty

But more than 0

most couples don't get into relationships from cold approaches anyways. It's either from dating apps or an already existing social circle and it "just happens". If you have a social circle and you never get a relationship out of it or Just spend a month or two on a dating app and if that's unsuccessful then its over. I will never reccomend average or sub 5 men cold approach and possibly face consequences.

 

[NervWraith]

Cold approaching is just a search for trauma farming would not recommend unless Chad