It’s such a tired topic at this point. There are men in this world that obsess over something and become masters at it. I wish I could do something like that. Focus all my energy and time into mastering something that has value. That way I’d have something to be proud about. Something that gives my life meaning. And I wouldn’t have to think about Inceldom anymore.
Inceldom doesn’t do anything for me. I like using this forum to talk about my problems but I can’t help but think it’s a waste of time now. It’s just the same old topics over and over. I’ve been lurking since 2018
I’ll never be good at anything. I can’t be good at instruments because there are people with perfect pitch that have been playing since they were a fetus. They’ll all outcompete me.
I can’t be good at math or science because my iq is too low
I can’t be good at sports or weight lifting because my frame isn’t good enough and everyone is on steroids
I can’t be an entertainer because I have anxiety and I’m painfully boring to be around.
If you have a genuine interest in something you will find that you never truly quit it. You will quit it, only to pick it back up, then quit again and then pick it up yet again. Over and over, time and time and again.
Talent is a real thing, and us truecels generally do not have a talent for anything which is very frustrating. But it is a blessing to have an interest in something. Too many people do not even have that. People might call this cope, but I believe that people without a natural givenness for something have more to gain in an interest than people with talent.
Even basic competency in something will be hard-fought. You will likely hit your limits quite quickly as well. But limitations breed creativity. And you will likely go deeper into understanding something than someone with talent.
A lot of truecels are lucky to have a lot of time as well, time that can be entirely taken up by an interest since nothing else is going on in one's life. When you're deep enough into an interest you will not care if you are good or bad. It will not hinge on approval from others either.
I want to note that an intense interest in something will never be a purpose for life. It is not something you should judge your own "worth" upon either. These things are still copes, but very high quality ones. Pick something that you would still want to do even if you were Chad. Do not be afraid to have several deep interests as well. Everyone having to be a specialist is a PsyOp.
TL;DR:
Do not dismiss interests like these, they can be damn fine copes.
