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trrrrrsarescary

trrrrrsarescary

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Before I was aware of this community or the blackpill, I would complain to my parents about no one at school liking me and me having no friends and people teasing me and they would say the teasing "is just banter" and I "don't mingle with people or put myself out there" and I genuinely believe that it was my fault that I had no friends and I had to just keep taking the "banter" and trying to mingle which just ended up in me hanging out with the jocks at lunchtime playing football and them laughing at me and me not realising that I was being laughed at and not with, or them just being confused on why I was there

I used to genuinely believe it was just because I wasn't trying hard enough to socialise or whatever but when I discovered the blackpill at 18 it was like everything suddenly just made sense, it wasn't my fault it wasn't anything I was doing, humans are just inherently evil and exclude ugly autistic people and there's not a thing I could've done differently to end up with a group of friends or make these people like me, it was my fucking autism and my appearance all along and I can't do shit about it, it was a sense of euphoria at first but now I'm 26 and the rage at these normies is getting more and more strong so I guess that's the consequence of the blackpill, but I still wouldn't have it any other way

It was SO fucking torturous to be excluded and mocked in school, going home to my parents upset about it just to be told the teasing was just banter and I'm not mingling with people enough
 
Feels good to be here
 
This place is the only online place I've ever found where people are like me/similar life experience. And I'm well over 35 now.
 
trrrrrsarescary
 
It wasn't ever your fault. We're glad to have you here.
 
It is a serious privilege to have other truecels to talk to. I am grateful to be here.
 
Me too, I'm glad I found this place. I always thought that my misery is only my fault and only the result of my choices, and that I'm a special kind of fuck-up. Well it turns out people like me are quite common, just no one talks about it openly because of the extreme stigma of being a sexless virgin loser. So guys like us who HAVEN'T found this community either turn into bluepilled reddit cucks, or keep blaming themselves. Truth is, most guys are kind of incels, but many are incels in denial. Those in denial work their ass off just to get chad's sloppy seconds and enter a betabuxx relationship at 30 or whatever, they call themselves happy with used up hags, but it's just a facade. Deep down they know they are being used, cheated on, humiliated and all that, but they keep putting up with it because of societal approval.

Anyway, as some say: truth is bitter, but necessary.
There is a kind of liberation in the blackpill.
 
Me too. I like being reminded that people are doing just as badly as I am, it makes this life more bearable :feelscomfy: :feelscomfy::feelscomfy:
 
Feel the same way
 
I share some of your sentiments. I am a Black man in his early 30s and felt like I was alone in not ever experiencing romance and being undesirable to women.
In high school I was quiet and I wasn't popular which was fine with me. I wasn't bullied or ridiculed that much. Now there are a few incidents in life where I've been mistreated for my appearance. However I've just had to push my self through the adversity.

I didn't discover this community until this year and I must say the I love the camaraderie,support and understanding we have for each other.
I owe the founder along with other trucels a large amount of gratitude.
This is one of the best places online to vent and relieve stress.
 
The what community ?
 
Knowing that you're not the cause of your problems and that many guys around the world have the same issues than you is such a relief :feelsautistic:
 

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