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You don't need to worry about being an incel/virgin until you are over 22. In the meantime, this is what you need to do.
- Go to a college campus and live there. College is great since you meet and interact with folks your age all the time. If you want some success in dating, you need loads of interaction. I personally regret not going to campus when I was 18-22. Although I am in the bottom 15 to 20 percent of males look, there is a good chance I could've lost my virginity at college simply by interacting with a lot of people. If you don't want to go to parties, go to clubs. Start talking to a pretty girl in your class. Heck, I have passed up on this when I went to community college. I saw a couple of cute girls and I never once made the effort to talk.
- Start working out. You should work out for other reasons, but there is no denying you will look better in 1.5/2 years if you consistently work out. You have a slimmer face for one.
- If you have a pattern of baldness in your family, start taking finasteride or rogaine. Rogaine might or might not work but it's still worth a shot. Finasteride usually works.
I know some people here will shit on me for merely offering some positive advice. But they and I all wish we could've done this. If all else fails after then, come and whine with us. But don't feel despondent until you are actually over the age of 22.
- Go to a college campus and live there. College is great since you meet and interact with folks your age all the time. If you want some success in dating, you need loads of interaction. I personally regret not going to campus when I was 18-22. Although I am in the bottom 15 to 20 percent of males look, there is a good chance I could've lost my virginity at college simply by interacting with a lot of people. If you don't want to go to parties, go to clubs. Start talking to a pretty girl in your class. Heck, I have passed up on this when I went to community college. I saw a couple of cute girls and I never once made the effort to talk.
- Start working out. You should work out for other reasons, but there is no denying you will look better in 1.5/2 years if you consistently work out. You have a slimmer face for one.
- If you have a pattern of baldness in your family, start taking finasteride or rogaine. Rogaine might or might not work but it's still worth a shot. Finasteride usually works.
I know some people here will shit on me for merely offering some positive advice. But they and I all wish we could've done this. If all else fails after then, come and whine with us. But don't feel despondent until you are actually over the age of 22.