LifeFuel I’m happy this received 2k likes

[Lazyandtalentless]

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I completely agree. Telling unattractive men that their main issue is low confidence ignores the reality of appearance-based discrimination and bias. Confidence doesn’t erase how much society values looks. Saying “just be confident” can feel like gaslighting when someone has faced years of judgment based on how they look.

 

[Mrocznykichajnik]

Ugly man who is confident is seen as a potential rapist

 

[Leon98]

The comments still devolved into gaslighting as expected on Reddit, Just develop a positive mindset bro

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Ugly man who is confident is seen as a potential rapist

First impressions: Do faces with scars and palsies influence warmth, competence and humanization? - PubMed

A glance is enough to assign psychological attributes to others. Attractiveness is associated with positive attributes ('beauty-is-good' stereotype). Here, we raise the question of a similar but negative bias. Are people with facial anomalies associated with negative personal characteristics? We...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Brutal, there is a recent study where they looked at how people perceive faces with scars or palsies. They found that people tend to see those with facial anomalies as less warm, less competent, and more dehumanized. It didn’t matter whether the anomaly was a scar or palsy, the bias was still there. Essentially, they found that society tends to stereotype people with these differences negatively, which is kind of like a reverse halo effect… where one flaw can make people judge someone unfairly overall.

 

[Rapistcel]

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I completely agree. Telling unattractive men that their main issue is low confidence ignores the reality of appearance-based discrimination and bias. Confidence doesn’t erase how much society values looks. Saying “just be confident” can feel like gaslighting when someone has faced years of judgment based on how they look.

Based

 

[Fallen-Angel]

They will forget about that post pretty quick anyway

 

[fedded]

Ugly man who is confident is seen as a potential rapist

 

[fedded]

We all know looks matter, and it's condescending to say they don't matter.

Since when does reddit understand reality?

 

[antisocialcel]

So... what did women in the post answer him about that final question?

 

[Mrocznykichajnik]

First impressions: Do faces with scars and palsies influence warmth, competence and humanization? - PubMed

A glance is enough to assign psychological attributes to others. Attractiveness is associated with positive attributes ('beauty-is-good' stereotype). Here, we raise the question of a similar but negative bias. Are people with facial anomalies associated with negative personal characteristics? We...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Brutal, there is a recent study where they looked at how people perceive faces with scars or palsies. They found that people tend to see those with facial anomalies as less warm, less competent, and more dehumanized. It didn’t matter whether the anomaly was a scar or palsy, the bias was still there. Essentially, they found that society tends to stereotype people with these differences negatively, which is kind of like a reverse halo effect… where one flaw can make people judge someone unfairly overall.

Foids will read this and then proceed to call us delusional crybabies

 

[Sans]

mindset

This is one of my least favorite words in the English language, along with "еntitled", pеrsonality", and "cis".

 

[Leon98]

This is one of my least favorite words in the English language, along with "еntitled", pеrsonality", and "cis".

Yeah the Soy Dictionary basically

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

So... what did women in the post answer him about that final question?

I’m too lazy to look rn tbh, but I’m sure they’re just gaslighting

 

[Emba]

Fascinating

 

[Stupid Clown]

The way redditors write gives me a blood pressure spike.

Also, isn't it funny how whenever a thread like this is written, suddenly every roastie has dated an ugly man before? Jfl. Femoids and normies larping for leh updoots

 

[Grodd]

The comments still devolved into gaslighting as expected on Reddit, Just develop a positive mindset bro

 

[Black&Red]

As usual, every single comment is generic blue pill yapp with extra soy.

 

[Leon98]

As usual, every single comment is generic blue pill yapp with extra soy.

 

[I want to believe]

They will forget about that post pretty quick anyway