Yeah, I can honestly say that I have the capacity to be a smooth operator myself but only in limited circumstances and in very particularized venues. I have no proverbial game and can barely engage with foids in most situations but I do experience manic episodes which result in my having extremely rapid thoughts and correspondingly rapid speech which enables me to at least have a veneer of confidence and assertiveness. But, like you, I'm not sure to what extent normies perceive this as within the conventional range of interpersonal behavior or whether it falls in to the domain of sperg type antics.