but if many men my age are incel, then why should I feel upset about it?
Even if 98% of the population was suffering alongside you, that doesn't mean suffering is something you shouldn't be upset about.
I don’t wanna hear it’s a natural biological urge.
Who cares?
Perhaps we should instead ask EK, if you were suffering from a lack of certain basic needs, for example:
1) air
2) water
3) food
4) shelter
Why should you feel upset about lacking those things in an environment where many people are lacking them?
I'm interested in knowing your answer to this before going forward.
If most men are incel I don’t need to feel alone.
I think we’re a minority, and everyone else has happy sex lives even normies.
49% of the population could be a minority but still a significant number.
If you think the majority of men have happy sex lives... ehhhhh
If you think the majority of HUMANS have happy sex lives (foids making up probably 95%+ of that number) still ehhhh
Most normies I know are successful long term relationships With beckys
That's because you don't get to know the normies who fail at stuff who even Becky rejects.
Even as losers and outcasts we are prone to discriminating against other losers and outcasts, and cling to normies to try to emulate them.
And most celibate men I’ve met are internet addicted volcels who don’t even wanna have sex.
There is no 0% want for sex EVER, just a relative lesser amount where they might have thoughts that hold them back from going all-out degeneracy to accomplish it like many normies.
Not all men crave sex the way we do.
"we" have no fixed level of craving for sex, there are variations of craving within out community.
Most men who don’t have sex are just so sucked into the internet and social media that they become volcels.
Volcel and incel is a false dichotomy and oversimplification of the counterbalancing forces of ephemeral desires for sexual intercourse and fear of things associated with human relations like false rape accusations or getting murdered.
The idea that normies only get awkward pity sex from landwhales is retarded
Who exactly is saying this "only" meme? Sounds like you're arguing a strawman here.
Perhaps the parameters of what some consider "normy" are drawn different. If someone did say "only pity sex from landwhales" maybe they think of normies as a narrower portion of the population than what you or I think of as normy.
most relationships from online dating I read are from websites used on desktop computers not apps
I think you're right about that, PlentyOfFish.com and similar for example. It's more "respectable" so many foids will go there looking for relationships with beta.
In terms of checking how attractive you are, Tindr is probably better though, since foids go there for sex more than to get moneymaxxers.
And
studies show that people who aren’t financially independent are less sexually active and young men today are growing up much slower and less financially independent which causes celibacy
I'm not sure what point you're getting at here.
We shouldn't be angry about poverty?
You also realize that the reason for this is not as much direct causality as foids not being interested in non-chads who can't provide them protection via money/car/shelter right?