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Discussion If you guys ascended would you change your personality to keep her interested?

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  • I would be Dark triad, red pill

  • I would be blue pilled, kind, affectionate


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If you guys got into a relationship would you behave dark triad in order to keep her into you or behave like you really are, a blue pilled lover boy and risk losing them in the long run. Chad is exempt from this dilemma as he can pick any and still succeed but we would have to make a decision. The obvious answer would probably be to mimic dark triad traits but if you do that you may not feel satisfied in the relationship and be regretful that you didn’t do all you wanted in the time you had. being negligent from time to time and acting like a prick just to entertain her could never satisfy me enough personally.

Being affectionate, watching movies and squeezing out all you can from this relationship and showing her the love you were starved of could backfire and lead to her thinking she’s above you and leaving you for being too nice or whatever. Trying to have some dark triad traits and some nice guy traits would probably be the best case scenario but I’m curious which one of the 2 extremes would you guys pick.

TLDR: would you act like a prick even when you don’t really want to just to keep her into you or be kind and affectionate squeezing all you can out of the relationship whilst knowing that she may leave you for being too clingy or nice. Vote display is off so be honest.
 
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give me your pussy bitch and stfu
 
Nah, chads aern't exempt.

A chad will be viewed as a simp if he's not dark triad
 
Nah, chads aern't exempt.

A chad will be viewed as a simp if he's not dark triad
Maybe, but I still think a nice chad would have plenty good girls into him. Just not the baddies who just want to smash.
 
Nah, chads aern't exempt.

A chad will be viewed as a simp if he's not dark triad
No he wouldnt be because he still wouldnt have to do anything, besides existing, to have sex. So he doesnt need to simp
 
Maybe, but I still think a nice chad would have plenty good girls into him. Just not the baddies who just want to smash.
Def less foids will want him tbh.
No he wouldnt be because he still wouldnt have to do anything, besides existing, to have sex. So he doesnt need to simp
A sub5 acting dark triad is ironically going to beat some nice normie.
A chad simping will degrade him to the level of a dark triad normie.
 
I cant fake who i am. I know that being none dark triad will lead to lose her, but simply thats not who i am. And girls do fall for those larping dark triad shits, you have no idea how much. Theyre stupid.
 
A sub5 acting dark triad is ironically going to beat some nice normie.
I dont think so, as long as the sub5 isnt able to use darktriad to accumulate wealth/ status, he wont win anything by beein the bad guy

And chad can act how he want, he be kind or an asshole, thats the point of the black pill. If your sub5 you cant act like a psychopath or like "alpha" male and women will just live about you and laughing over your "fragile masculinity". And even if chad acts line the biggest introvert soyboy he will slay just because of his looks

Thats the blackpill and you cant escape her, by acting different
 
If you nice you can't attract foids
 
I guess it all depends on whether you see relationships as more of a status symbol or if you want real love.

A person who sees relationships as more of a status symbol would probably act more dark triad to maintain the foids interest and form a roster of loads of women who have high interest in him.

The fact you were able to ascend and pull 1 foid proves you were given the right genetic makeup and therefore can pull more. So someone like that could afford to act blue pilled and risk the girl leaving since they know they could probably get another sometime soon and eventually find a foid that loves them regardless of their blue pilled nice guy antics.

I saw this take on another thread while I was lurking but the difference between never being in a relationship and being in 1 is FAR greater than the difference of going from 1 relationship to like 3 or 4. It’s easier going from 1 -5 than it is going from 0-1. It’s cumulative.
 
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I can’t just change my personality in a flip of a switch
 
Nope. It would just tell me she likes the fake version of me not the real version if I did that.
 
If I have to change personality she doesn’t actually like me
 
peak greycuck thread :feelspuke:
 
I am already dark triad, nigger :feelsUgh:
 
I don't know about you guys, but I can't change my personality. I tried and put in the work, started to get better but I was still the same person deep down, and as soon as someone hurt me or pissed me off, the monster came out
 
Id probably just become cold because im too fucking autistic to show warmth on a consistent basis.
 
I’m already pretty dark triad. My mom and sister are quite intimidated by me and think I’m going to snap and beat the shit out of them soon
 
If you guys got into a relationship would you behave dark triad in order to keep her into you or behave like you really are, a blue pilled lover boy and risk losing them in the long run. Chad is exempt from this dilemma as he can pick any and still succeed but we would have to make a decision. The obvious answer would probably be to mimic dark triad traits but if you do that you may not feel satisfied in the relationship and be regretful that you didn’t do all you wanted in the time you had. being negligent from time to time and acting like a prick just to entertain her could never satisfy me enough personally.

Being affectionate, watching movies and squeezing out all you can from this relationship and showing her the love you were starved of could backfire and lead to her thinking she’s above you and leaving you for being too nice or whatever. Trying to have some dark triad traits and some nice guy traits would probably be the best case scenario but I’m curious which one of the 2 extremes would you guys pick.

TLDR: would you act like a prick even when you don’t really want to just to keep her into you or be kind and affectionate squeezing all you can out of the relationship whilst knowing that she may leave you for being too clingy or nice. Vote display is off so be honest.
No
 
If you guys got into a relationship would you behave dark triad in order to keep her into you or behave like you really are, a blue pilled lover boy and risk losing them in the long run. Chad is exempt from this dilemma as he can pick any and still succeed but we would have to make a decision. The obvious answer would probably be to mimic dark triad traits but if you do that you may not feel satisfied in the relationship and be regretful that you didn’t do all you wanted in the time you had. being negligent from time to time and acting like a prick just to entertain her could never satisfy me enough personally.

Being affectionate, watching movies and squeezing out all you can from this relationship and showing her the love you were starved of could backfire and lead to her thinking she’s above you and leaving you for being too nice or whatever. Trying to have some dark triad traits and some nice guy traits would probably be the best case scenario but I’m curious which one of the 2 extremes would you guys pick.

TLDR: would you act like a prick even when you don’t really want to just to keep her into you or be kind and affectionate squeezing all you can out of the relationship whilst knowing that she may leave you for being too clingy or nice. Vote display is off so be honest.
if you were chad it wouldnt matter what you did
 
If you guys got into a relationship would you behave dark triad in order to keep her into you or behave like you really are, a blue pilled lover boy and risk losing them in the long run. Chad is exempt from this dilemma as he can pick any and still succeed but we would have to make a decision. The obvious answer would probably be to mimic dark triad traits but if you do that you may not feel satisfied in the relationship and be regretful that you didn’t do all you wanted in the time you had. being negligent from time to time and acting like a prick just to entertain her could never satisfy me enough personally.

Being affectionate, watching movies and squeezing out all you can from this relationship and showing her the love you were starved of could backfire and lead to her thinking she’s above you and leaving you for being too nice or whatever. Trying to have some dark triad traits and some nice guy traits would probably be the best case scenario but I’m curious which one of the 2 extremes would you guys pick.

TLDR: would you act like a prick even when you don’t really want to just to keep her into you or be kind and affectionate squeezing all you can out of the relationship whilst knowing that she may leave you for being too clingy or nice. Vote display is off so be honest.
I am dark triad already
 
Yes because I have 0 self-confidence, I would change everything if it was genuine love.

Keyword ‘genuine’, which it won’t be. Notice how every inkwell ‘ascended’ on the site always comes out worse? Cheated on, left behind, abused, a lot straight up killed themselves… It’s a meme, there’s no such thing as true ascension and if someone was truly blackpilled they would get that.

Blackpill isn’t denying that there are outliers, and there most definitely is a minuscule chance for a lot of the users here to find someone and escape celibacy. But then what?

The relationship likely won’t work out, devoid of love. Your looks define your experiences and your experiences define your personality, even in such a situation your partner likely would find you insufferable to be around, even if they can look past your looks. At best you can find someone with nothing going for them and betabuxx yet even then who says they won’t cheat on you?

Blackpill doesn’t just end at whether or not you find a relationship, it defines your entire life experiences in general. It’s over, from the moment you experienced all this it’s over. Your mind is fucked, your body is screwed, why take chances when it’s likely gonna be worse?
 
You can't change your personality. Foids are experts at detecting fakes.
 
Can't be dark triad even if I tried. It won't look like a handsome chad grapist, I'll be just a screeching autist waving my hands around and punching walls in my humiliation ritual, probably would look pathetic.
But I'll try to hide my power level for a bit, before she discovers how unstable I am
 

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